Johnny 又轉校了！

AlanB

Johnny 今年9月將會由李宗德轉到伊利沙伯中學舊生會小學分校。

AlanB


    

beesbees

AlanB,

Why????

AlanB

Johnny又轉校，其實不是炫耀，只是一種悲哀也是一種無奈。香港要找到一間無論是理念上或是在行政管理上，其能實質地完全符合父母的理想和能令兒童愉快學習成長的學校真是鳳毛麟角！曾因居所調遷而不願地離開的【優才】學校，已令Johnny錯失一次愉快成長的機會，希望是次的轉校，日後他所得到的並不會令他再感落落不歡！

很多人或許會問點解要轉校，可以的話本人願意公開致新校長要求轉校插班的自薦信讓大家分享：

【致依利沙伯中學舊生會小學分校
徐蔚玲校長台鑒：

敬啟者：

有關：一對疼兒父母的心聲

        人們口頭常掛著一句話：「望子成龍望兒嘆，何日金榜現塵寰！」為父母者養兒一百歲，長憂九十九，我們夫婦，尤以我這個爸爸是成隆望子，眼見駿顯轉校來到元朗天水圍區，現時就讀的學校並未能全面地賦予他充分發展的機會，問起他校內如何生活時的落落寡歡神情、便知他在校內無法淋浴於愉快成長和學習的人生了！我們夫婦覺得天職上要幫助孩子尋覓他開心愉快學習的人生，故仿孟母三遷而擇學居。在四出尋找適合的學校時，專誠求教於家兄xxx，曾任博愛醫院xx年總理，得他極力地推薦 貴校為不二之選，故冒昧來函求錄取就讀 貴校2006-2007年度小三的學席。

小兒駿顯不單止是我們的活寶貝，其實亦都是香港社區的開心果，他資質聰穎，雖不曾正式地接受過正統的資優測試，但他日常接近成年人思維模式的演譯表達方法，配合他赤誠認真的面孔，很多時成為大眾歡愉的清涼劑。

由於父親的工作環境關係，駿顯自少較多機會參與社會上不同的事物和工作，他的視野和思考分析較同齡的小朋友和得成熟，小孩子很多時渴望能和同輩分享並得到認同，但現在就讀的學校缺乏給予駿顯發展的空間，曾問過駿顯有關學校和同學相處的情形，他的答案既令人感到唏噓亦令我們感到殷慰！他曾說：【沒有什麼特別，不過扮作

dabbycheung

AlanB,

見倒你呢個Topic,真係好愕然。
不過無論如何，都希望你地快D搵到一間適合Johnny讀既小學，等佢好似以前響優才咁，開開心心去返學。

meimeilam

睇完以上嘅自薦信, 我不其然眼圈一紅。

在此衷心祝福 Johnny 仔能夠搵到一間合適嘅小學, 同埋有一個愉快嘅學校生活!

tobygin888

AlanB,
你真係好文采, 但願駿顯在新校開開心心, 盡展所長.

beesbees

AlanB,

你真是用心良苦,很感動呢.

希望駿顯能找到任他翱翔的空間,不要壓抑,不用同化.

andy.ma

Alan B,
  can u tell me why LCT is not good?my son will change to school later.

Farm

Alan B

看完你的信後真是很感動   , Johnny有你們做他的爸媽真幸福, 希望Johnny在新學校開開心心.

共勉之
Farm

bk2005

A very beautiful letter but ..What a pity child.    

1. Parent always changes to a new school that child cannot make friends with classmate. Under this situation, how can the child grow up happily?

2. It is obvious a problem that a child looks down his peer.  In the letter, it seems so humble, however, it is showing-off his child, same behavour found in the child.

3. School is a place for a child to learn how to get along with others. Change to a more famous school may lead to learn few more words or knowledge. I don't think it is important as parent can also achieve that. Please think about what the child needs.

hoho9933

agree with you, bk2005  

ultramother

If Johnny meant what he said, I believe the parents should do some follow up there.  Letting him know how to respect the others are important, too.  Only changing school is not going to help Johnny getting along with the other 'normal' kids and having happy school life.

Please don't get me wrong.  I do not mean that normal kids are stupid/fool.

By the way, why AlanB does not change Johnny back to the school he used to enjoy?
  

Biff

係呀bk2005講得好o岩,

這封自薦信,很令人不安, 將同學仔叫做傻瓜, 父母還慶幸???這是甚麼價值觀啊, 看來小朋友即使跳級上到中學, 也不會覺得暢意.... :-|

2fungs

好驚我亞仔係其它同學心目中也是一個瓜~

bk2005

It is more worse that the child does not express to you but treats you as a fool behind. I don't know why the parent recommends this action as high EQ or SQ. The child at that age should be willing to express all his/her feeling innocently.

maymay007

What's a pity child!!!

I share the same opinions & feelings as you!

bk2005 寫道:
A very beautiful letter but ..What a pity child.    

1. Parent always changes to a new school that child cannot make friends with classmate. Under this situation, how can the child grow up happily?

2. It is obvious a problem that a child looks down his peer.  In the letter, it seems so humble, however, it is showing-off his child, same behavour found in the child.

3. School is a place for a child to learn how to get along with others. Change to a more famous school may lead to learn few more words or knowledge. I don't think it is important as parent can also achieve that. Please think about what the child wants

AlanB

Hi, 看到有不同意見，其實有時好開心，也許各有所見，但肯定的是代表大家對幼兒教育的關注。

其實那—句像【沒有什麼特別，不過扮作

wutoa

兜得好肉酸呀！

holokmom

與小朋友互稱傻瓜、傻豬、傻佬....都是honey 式稱呼，但說“自己扮傻瓜同人哋玩”就大有不同。
兒子聰明是可喜可賀，兒子是模倣父母，耳濡目染而這樣說話巳有問題，如果是自發性就更嚴重，香港有很多資優生，在BK也多的是，希望這句話只是演譯的問題。