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發表於 13-9-17 22:03 |只看該作者

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發表於 13-9-17 22:05 |只看該作者

引用:呢個post,都算奇,有咁多理性討論!真係難

原帖由 剛果公主 於 13-09-17 發表
呢個post,都算奇,有咁多理性討論!真係難得!
我都覺得係!平時一出「讀兩間」已經四面楚歌



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發表於 13-9-17 22:11 |只看該作者

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見過一個例子:




小朋友上午讀本地出名幼稚園, 下午返國際學校。 體力上不講了, 只講兩間學校要求不同, 一間要坐定定聽老師講, 另一間老師鼓勵小朋友發問....




兩套不同的準則, 令小朋友在學校有挫敗感, 討厭番學



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如果有一日你小朋友同你講,叫你返2 份工,返埋夜更,搭車時訓覺當作休息,目的係為你好想你儲多些錢享受生活及作退休用,不知你有什麼想法?



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熊貓BB  can't agree more!   發表於 13-9-18 09:12

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發表於 13-9-17 23:25 |只看該作者

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其實我覺得問題不太。個個小朋友情況唔同。如果個小朋友適應到就ok。其實返兩間學校而小朋友又早訓,平均夠10to12小時就可以。何況佢車上可訓一陣都可以補充精神。況且其他小朋友返一間,下午都係兩三樣活動,咪又同返兩間差唔多。



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發表於 13-9-17 23:26 |只看該作者

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一位兒科e生曾經同我講過,小朋友可能唔知咩叫辛苦,但佢哋會覺得累,身體會變得差易病。尤其開學後,會多咗小朋友病,因為學校係最容易傳染嘅地方。3歲小朋友應該還需要起碼一至兩個鐘午睡吧!在車上那45分鐘其實應該休息得不太好吧,你有想過實質小朋友可以休息到幾多呢?



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發表於 13-9-18 00:22 |只看該作者

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人各有志...但我一定不會這樣做....小朋友很需要自由思想的空間,發下白曰夢,比佢自己個腦做主導,而在課堂他們只能被動的接收訊息和執行指示!我見每日女兒儍妹一樣的玩玩具自由發揮、自問自答創造她的幻想空間,我看得到她好快樂!!人生可以這樣的時間只有這一段,錯過了被剝奪了,以後也不可補償!



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熊貓BB  can't agree more! day dreaming is necessary for kids!  發表於 13-9-18 09:13

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cloudwingwing 發表於 13-9-17 23:02
如果有一日你小朋友同你講,叫你返2 份工,返埋夜更,搭車時訓覺當作休息,目的係為你好想你儲多些錢享受生 ...
好好笑,這就是觀點與角度。
好父母,定忤逆仔!?

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很多人說小朋友適應能力強,只要他們表現“不辛苦、能適應“便oK....可憐的是,他們只是在無可選擇的情況下“適應“大人的安排...他們犧牲了一些自己也不知是犧牲了的權利....有個朋友的父母從少不給她糖果吃,她沒吃過也慣了適應了不吃...長大了見小朋友吃糖菓的雀躍和期盼,只能想像那種糖菓的甜蜜對於孩子可引起有多歡樂,因爲作爲一個大人,嚐同一顆糖菓已沒有了混集童真發酵出的那種快樂,已不是那回事了!父母們忍心剝削孩子快樂自主的權利嗎??



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發表於 13-9-18 08:41 |只看該作者

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我覺得,讀两間幼稚園係比較少數,返一間幼稚園但興趣返足一星期五日係一樣的其實都吾少人咁做,普,數,英,音樂,游水,仲可能畫畫,跳舞,其實咪又一樣?
小朋友知吾知咩叫辛苦?呢個係一個好好既題目,吾識講,佢可能開心又可能吾開心,不過小朋友有一樣係睇得出,就係攰。小朋友要有充足時間運動,休息,吾夠就好易病,健康是無價的。
反而樓主你要諗,想佢讀國際小學?定本地小學?呢個就係重點,解左“你心結”就咩都解哂,“選擇恐怕症”係父母既通病,但都要揀架。



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發表於 13-9-18 08:46 |只看該作者
可以確保到一個國際學校位,已經免除了未來六年的痛苦。如果來緊六要讀local school,果種辛苦慘過大人番兩份工。先甜後苦定先苦後甜的決擇。

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Hi DKHd,

Appreciated your courage to tell the truth of letting your beloved kid to attend 2 schools in a day. It is the first time I ever heard of such case and it's surprising. It is pity sure you struggled a lot before making this decision.

Personally, if your kid is able to manage it both physcially and mentally, it would be fine. However, when he promotes to upper grade, more predictable problems might arise. Some reputable kindergartens have quite a few homeworks at upper class. Even your child might be able to finish it at school, he will be exhausted after the entire school day. Will you expect him to be physically able to spend extra time in reading, talking and sharing with you at night? Do treasure the the early childhood with him and fill his childhood memories with joy and happiness, which will never come back when he grows.

Not sure the kind of international of son attending is a real one like Yew chung/ ESF, etc, or those just named itself as international school. Suggested to let him go to the International school first in the first few school years. Observe and understand his ability and character for deciding what kid of P1 will be suitable for him. It will never too late to shift back to local school at K2/K3 if he has outstadning performance in K1/K2 should you wish. In addition, nowadays many international kindergartens also balance the curriculum by having lessons like that in the local kindergarten. So no need to worry too much about that. The old Chinese saying goes, 寧缺勿濫 (Put quality before quantity).
For us parents, I think we should not only focus on his academic development but also physical and mental developments. The above are just my personal opinion and sharing.

Last but not least, do make your own decision to fit your kid's growth. All the best.

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Strongly agree



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引用:My+son+studies+in+a+pm+local+school+and+

原帖由 himuimui 於 13-09-18 發表
My son studies in a pm local school and attends Montessori playgroup in the morning 4 days per week. ...
Strongly agree



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引用:其實我覺得問題不太。個個小朋友情況唔同。

原帖由 rbi_hk 於 13-09-17 發表
其實我覺得問題不太。個個小朋友情況唔同。如果個小朋友適應到就ok。其實返兩間學校而小朋友又早訓,平均夠 ...
Can't agree more



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發表於 13-9-18 17:17 |只看該作者
其實小朋友真係未必知幸苦,但如果為SECURE個學位,我就真係覺得無必要,因為幼兒階段最重要是家庭教育,學校教育輔助性的,樓主都應該係想選國際學校STREAM,更加會接受外國的教育理念,自由同埋真正按照佢地的成長需要的課程,那為何讀多一間LOCAL學校,我不會覺得樓主或讀兩間學校的小朋友的家長不是好媽媽,因為出發點是為他們好,但我只是覺得你們太緊張,同香港的教育制度真係好失敗。

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My son sleeps 11 hours and he manages well so far. We will continue observing him though.



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引用:其實小朋友真係未必知幸苦,但如果為SECURE

原帖由 rosebb 於 13-09-18 發表
其實小朋友真係未必知幸苦,但如果為SECURE個學位,我就真係覺得無必要,因為幼兒階段最重要是家庭教育,學 ...
本人非常同意:香港教育制度好失敗!!



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樓主,明白你嘅擔憂。但學位唔係一切,讀書都唔係一切。莫講小朋友需要多啲休息時間,快樂自由自在的童年,對一個小孩嚟講都好重要,難道你想你嘅小朋友第二時大個對童年嘅記憶只有返學返學再返學?連些少輕鬆,可以發下夢,自己思考下幻想下嘅空間都剝奪!最終你可能保到學位,但失去嘅可能係佢自我發展能力,只懂依從學校教育下的路向。現今父母因壓力好易把找一好學位看似天般大,父母往往以爲咁會對兒女好。坦白講,我對這樣做很反對。做每樣嘢,選擇每樣嘢都有風險。我在選k1時很爭扎,要在兩間很好的學校之間選擇,但從來唔諗過俾佢讀兩間,最終放棄咗一間100%直上嘅龍校,而揀一間唔保證嘅亦在所不計。呢啲係我嘅真心說話,得罪莫怪!



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20101028  有意思, 很同意:)  發表於 13-9-19 13:22
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