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Re: DBSPD 家長召集 (大家入來傾吓)
Dear M&MMOM,
First of all, I think there are many parents here in this forum are better parents than myself.
TO build up confidence of a childm there is no easy way out and I think persistency of parents is very important. My boy is not the most outgoing person and sometimes even shy away when greeting newly met adults. My wife and I have to keep reminding him beforehand that they are dad and mom's friends and they are good people.
If you do not have enough time yourself to teach him, let him attend a kindie which allow students to freely ask questiosn, to create their own piece of work. As parents, let them express what they think even though it may seem silly, encourage him to tell us how he feels and views on things and let them decide how to do their work, even they are bound to make errors, let them and don't jump on it right away (I think many parents can't refrain themselves from picking up their kids' error which I think this is definitely a big no-no), simply tell them the right way after he finish the whole works, in a normal tone of voice, tell them they had done a good job and it could be even better if such and such can be done this way ie corecting their errors. In time, confidence will build up since they know they can complete something all by themselves and even if there are mistakes, it is OK as long as they remember the right way next time. On the hand, if you give them a hard time on mistakes they had done, they will unconsciously keep repaeting the errors again and again and will take a much longer time for them to remember the correct way.
I think it is prefectly alright if a child paints human skin blue instead of normal skin colour. Of course when it is morally incorrect, you should tell him right away.
Let's go back to topic of preparing interviews, one thing important is that you do not want to show him that parents are panicking since he will sense it and become nervous himself. Tell him that the teachers simply want to talk to him and ask him a few questions and take it as just some teachers at current kindie which like to know what you are doing at school. If he doesn't know things that the teachers is asking, just tell the truth and be proud of what he can do. Also, be at the place a little bit earlier to get familiarize with the school and make him feel comfortable which I think is defintely of help. Show him around the place, have him make some friends (kids waiting for interview) if posssible. Afterall, it is the parents who are more concerned and worried and it is not fair for the children to bear it.
Don't forget to have enough rest the night before, and avoid interview when your kid is sick, eat well before interview, wear clothes that he feels most comfortable, play with him while waiting. My son ended up reading 7-8 books during the wait for interview at DBSPD.
Hope it helps and would like other "high hands" to throw in some advice as well.  |
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發表於 05-2-16 21:42
