哀香港小學生

anna59

做乜野工都緊要,最緊要1.唔好做犯法既工作; 2. 唔好唔做野
就算做地盤,都系正當識業呀,好過成日向屋企,唔做野果d先最冇做

roy246

大部份家長都以為子女是天才 不停催谷 小朋友會開心嗎?

tws2010

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My kid told me, his classmate told him that he could only be off at the tutor school at around 10 pm.  He has to go to the tutor school at least 4 days a week (from Monday to Friday), then rush home to do the assignments from his parents...not sure if he also has to do similar things at weekend...This is horrible...No time for the kids to take good rest...My kid will finish all (doing homework and doing revision) by 8.30 pm, then his free time...

ANChan59

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That's horrible.
Because of homework or parents work late everyday.

Yanamami

We only live ONCE, right?

tws2010

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I have no idea.  But imgaine, my kid is only in P.2...My friend's kid is in P.3.  She told me her kid could only finish all homework by 10.30 pm (she does not go to tutor school though...)

ANChan59

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That's only two reasons:
1. Too much homework; and
2. His speed and concentration may be an issue.

(1) is my concern as well, I won't find a school with too much homework, which punish us as parents......

ANChan59

madscientist 發表於 12-2-26 22:32
Trouble is, if a school has little homework, many parents will not be happy and start comparing and  ...

Yes, different family has different choice.

torunpoland

講就話係正當職業, 我覺得都無邊幾個父母一心一意栽培仔女去做地盤或者清潔 (我絕對唔係睇唔起人)。

我個人分享:
我會盡力培養孩子, 盡父母責任, 但他將來真的選擇(不論是培養歡或被迫)做地盤工人, 我也無從置喙. 若是他興趣, 我不能左右; 若能力所限, 更只好接受. 前提是, 我已盡責供書教學!

Mymaggie

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當然唔係人人做到，我就一定無本事了，其實所有工作和工種都唔係人人做到。

tws2010

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For my friend's case, her kid studies in a primary with no direct link secondary school, that's why the school pushes them to attend this competition and that competition in order to get some awards for applying secondary school.  Her kid has to attend all training arranged by school after school and could only be back home at 6 pm.  Then she starts to do homework, has dinner, take a shower etc, then it's 10 pm or 10.30 pm...

For my kid's school, he is attending a very traditional school and it's almost the top one at our district.  In fact, there are a lot of homework but not really too many (as far as I could remember I also got similar quantity of homework when I was a little child).  In fact, my kid still every enjoys going to school.  

ANChan59

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I see, she is fully occupied with good reasons.
Why so early? Normally, school counts P4-6 awards only.

anna59

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唉,總之,讀書叻唔叻都系難搵食,做專業人士看似風光,但一搵唔到錢,就比人炒,真系你睇我好我睇你好

ANChan59

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正常嘅，你睇我好，我睇你好。

ANChan59

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Yes, character and attitude are more important than adademic results.

dorisliwc

所以，何不看別人好，看自己也好呢？每個人都有其長短，只看見自己沒有的，不是白白浪費了眼前的所有！

做父母的責任是要培育好子女，然而，一個人的成長，又豈只是認知上的發展，身體、社交、情緒、價值方面的培育，不比學術成就更重要嗎？孩子不是父母的財產，做父母的也只是他們短暫的托管人。孩子長大，自有他們自己要走的路啊！