傾下==> 有冇人後悔到外國留學或移民

VBma

我女女個時到係1Yrs Old同佢返HK旅行,去個程有99同老公一齊,所以5怕.但返個程就自己同女女, so far 都ok,冇喊但5肯訓.今次就一家4口一齊去一齊返,應該ok.
嘩!你咁勇比佢地自己返hk呀,5怕咩?我知有人會陪﹐但太細我怕.

virgokaren

原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-2-5 04:30 發表
virgokaren,
I did not try any broading overseas.. but about the homestay, it is a quite pleasure experience and an easy way to learn English from daily lives..

我吾擔心同 homestay family 的相處問題，
我有d 擔心如果住 homestay 要自己返學放學，
會吾會容易學壞？
途中遇上壞人？
放學後去夜街等等的問題...。

如果有熟悉的 homestay host，放假可以一齊去行街、picnic、釣魚...咁就最理想！

Nillie_Mami

virgokaren,
therefore, 我suggest, 如果年紀細係唔適宜住 homestay.
因為冇自理能力.. home stay 唔同你"湊"仔.. 佢哋只係提供一個"home"嘅環境俾個學生學當地生活,文化..
我home stay parents weekend 帶我一齊join family day 架, 因為我係佢家嘅一份子嘛..
home stay 講明 早餐, 晚餐幾時食架.. 唔食dinner, 要之前通知.. 每個homestay 都有自己嘅rules, 俾 homestay students 去follow.
homestay location 多數近學校, 當然係自己返學喇, 細到唔識自己坐巴士/train 返學嘅 or 只有十零歲會學壞嘅... 去老牌broading school .. 你會安心啲..
我自己(屋企樓上).. 都只租俾女生(讀foundation, CC..etc) 架, 好多rules.
唔准帶人返嚟過夜.. bathroom 除自己同其餘flatmates(3 bedrooms), 唔准其他人take shower. (盡量唔俾佢哋亂嚟)
屋企清潔有routine, 要我哋take care(kind of homestay feel), 包餐嘅就要幫手煮飯洗碗,.. althought 係dish washer.. 但都要佢付責任.. weekend 佢哋係free to go or 跟我哋去玩, 但每晚限時鎖門.. 唔准出面瞓, otherwise 我會call 佢父母. (as 我有internet phone).
我哋只租俾讀pharma 同nursing 嘅學生.. 因為我可以教佢哋做功課, 我又有書, journals 可以借俾佢哋寫論文..
佢哋當然自己行出5個街口take bus 返學, or 自己揸車架喇.. 大個架喇嘛.
而家淨番一個pharma 畢業嘅, 唔想搬.. 我哋尤得佢繼續租住.. as 佢放工..Amanda(我個女)又多個buddy 同佢玩..

原文章由 virgokaren 於 08-2-25 01:57 PM 發表
我吾擔心同 homestay family 的相處問題，
我有d 擔心如果住 homestay 要自己返學放學，
會吾會容易學壞？
途中遇上壞人？
放學後去夜街等等的問題...。
如果有熟悉的 homestay host，放假可以一齊去行街、picnic、釣魚... ...

[ 本文章最後由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-2-25 14:34 編輯 ]

Nillie_Mami

VBma,
直航機係OK 架... 我哋會請nanny 同Amanda 返HK.. 到Amana返NYC時, Nanny同佢一齊返 NYC.. even though, airline都話ok, 如果Amanda 滿6歲, 但我怕佢悶.. 17hours by herself, 好似好淒涼...
到Gabriel 3歲.. 就要舉家同行lu..

原文章由 VBma 於 08-2-25 07:02 AM 發表
我女女個時到係1Yrs Old同佢返HK旅行,去個程有99同老公一齊,所以5怕.但返個程就自己同女女, so far 都ok,冇喊但5肯訓.今次就一家4口一齊去一齊返,應該ok.
嘩!你咁勇比佢地自己返hk呀,5怕咩?我知有人會陪﹐但太細我怕. ...

virgokaren

原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-2-26 03:25 發表
virgokaren,
therefore, 我suggest, 如果年紀細係唔適宜住 homestay.
因為冇自理能力.. home stay 唔同你"湊"仔.. 佢哋只係提供一個"home"嘅環境俾個學生學當地生活,文化..
我home stay parents weekend 帶我一齊j ...

如你所言，讀中學都係 broading school 好d。
但讀 U 吾係住宿舍好玩d 咩？

kayan_329

Nillie_Mami～你係邊o度住ka(e.g加拿大，澳洲，美國)

Nillie_Mami

virgokaren,
live in dome certainly is fun.. I live in Dome for my final year..
but if English base is not excellent.. plus.. spend those years in University --to just for fun.. then they better not student in medical and health care profession lu.. the studies is too compact..
those years for me in Australia.. was not fun at all.

Home stay can kick the student out if they don't follow rules.. so for teenagers and you don't trust them to be "by hemselves" better send them to broading school lor.

Sorry.. writing board doesn't work..

原文章由 virgokaren 於 08-2-26 12:51 PM 發表
如你所言，讀中學都係 broading school 好d。
但讀 U 吾係住宿舍好玩d 咩？

Nillie_Mami

Kayan,
I live in US  new york lor..
came to US 5 years ago from Australia.

原文章由 kayan_329 於 08-2-26 06:39 PM 發表
Nillie_Mami～你係邊o度住ka(e.g加拿大，澳洲，美國)

kayan_329

OH~~因為我見到你寫有租屋比人 SO問O下... 因為我會去加拿大 不過仲有屋O既問題有煩惱 唔知學校可唔可以有幾日果D住住先 因為我打算會自己再搵D地方

samanthavikki

我有啲後悔返左ｈｋ，不過我老公都係返ｏ黎識的。。。。
老公都有同我去過墨爾本探朋友，佢都好鍾意墨爾本～
有左仔仔之後，佢一直有移民ｏ既墨爾本ｏ既想法，因為香港ｏ既空氣越ｏ黎越差，食物又經常出問題（食物又大部分ｏ黎自大陸，大陸人為又搵錢乜都敢死），仲有香港ｏ既教育真係不敢恭維～所以仔仔亦入讀國際學校，而家有左第個個ｂｂ啦～睇ｏ黎移民亦係遲早ｏ既事～（因為供到佢地上大學都好金，不如早啲移民等佢地有個更好ｏ既生活環境）

virgokaren

原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-2-27 10:26 發表
virgokaren,
live in dome certainly is fun.. I live in Dome for my final year..
but if English base is not excellent.. plus.. spend those years in University --to just for fun.. then they better not s ...

我 niece 都幾乖幾純品的，就係怕她太純，吾識應付突發事件。
homestay family 係咪全部經過挑選架？
我聽聞有些是一間屋，有成三四個學生一齊住，好似租屋咁，只係包三餐和住宿，咁咪無哂 family feel lor？

virgokaren

原文章由 kayan_329 於 08-2-27 11:35 發表
OH~~因為我見到你寫有租屋比人 SO問O下... 因為我會去加拿大 不過仲有屋O既問題有煩惱 唔知學校可唔可以有幾日果D住住先 因為我打算會自己再搵D地方

你去溫哥華or Toronto ？
上次你住開果間無得租拿？
通常要幾錢一個月架？

xother

I dont think we should regret on our decision on immigration. It is our choice and I take responsible on my decision.

Let me introduce myself. I grown up in HK and after finished F5, I worked for few years. Then I decided to study in Melbourne as my sister just settle down there. I  spent 3.5yr and got my degree plus meet my future husband when we were in school.

I came back to HK after graduate and my  boyfriend (at that time) follow me after he graduated 6mths later. We spend another 4yrs in HK and migrate to Canada. It is not easy to settle down in Canada as we have no one here. We work very hard at the beginning and after 4yrs here, we pretty much settle down. We went back to HK last month and my husband was crying when he got on the plane to come back to Canada.

there is no perfect land on earth and we are happy about our decision.  We love to live  in Canada but we miss the convenience of being to live in HK. We make less money but instead we have more time on family life. From my personal point of view, getting a career is my priority and that's why we choose Canada.

Nillie_Mami

home stay from Uni, 係housing department (Uni)挑選架..
你講嗰啲係share house ??

原文章由 virgokaren 於 08-2-27 01:37 PM 發表
homestay family 係咪全部經過挑選架？
我聽聞有些是一間屋，有成三四個學生一齊住，好似租屋咁，只係包三餐和住宿，咁咪無哂 family feel lor？ ...

virgokaren

原文章由 xother 於 08-2-28 03:04 發表
I dont think we should regret on our decision on immigration. It is our choice and I take responsible on my decision.
Let me introduce myself. I grown up in HK and after finished F5, I worked for few ...

如果我的家人(包括爸媽哥姊)和幾個要好的朋友都可以和我一起移民，我相信我都會喜歡外國悠閒的生活。
我依戀的是家人、朋友，不是香港！

virgokaren

原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-2-29 00:27 發表
home stay from Uni, 係housing department (Uni)挑選架..
你講嗰啲係share house ??

唔係！
係有d homestay 為賺錢，一間屋有成三四個海外生，好似包租咁，又無咩家庭樂咁囉！

xother

virgokaren,


From you response below, it sounds very childish, are you very young?
I miss my friends and family too, but I know there is no perfect land to live. I choose what I think is right and I think I can find my friends again in new place.

原文章由 virgokaren 於 08-2-29 12:36 AM 發表


如果我的家人(包括爸媽哥姊)和幾個要好的朋友都可以和我一起移民，我相信我都會喜歡外國悠閒的生活。
我依戀的是家人、朋友，不是香港！

virgokaren

原文章由 xother 於 08-2-29 01:43 發表
virgokaren,
From you response below, it sounds very childish, are you very young?
I miss my friends and family too, but I know there is no perfect land to live. I choose what I think is right and I  ...

Ha~Ha~Ha~我思想係幾childish架！
我個人最失敗係好多野都放吾低囉！
我會好掛住佢地架！！！

Nillie_Mami

我反而冇諗咁多.. 自已有自己個家.. 老公小朋友... 有時間不如諗吓family day 去邊...
homesick.. 可能單身喺墨爾本時會有... 而家.. online 同家人通話嘅時間都唔多.. 我會留返心情 take care好個家... 結緍生子已去咗另一個stage... 我巳經冇contact 以前嘅friends lu.. 話題都唔同.. 人要成長嘅呢...

xother,
個啲唔係真正嘅home stay.. 係share house 咋..
我以前讀英文班都有同學住過, 有啲share house唔包餐添...
個啲平好多呢...

原文章由 virgokaren 於 08-2-29 01:53 PM 發表


Ha~Ha~Ha~我思想係幾childish架！
我個人最失敗係好多野都放吾低囉！
我會好掛住佢地架！！！

xother

Nille_mami,

Yes, I agree with you...."我會留返心情 take care好個家."   Since I have my own kids, my life is very different from before.

virgokaren,
Eventhough you were in HK, you may say  better to freeze the past as school life are much happier. Long distance call is so convenience and I dont feel much differnet to keep in touch with my family and friends.

Regarding homestay, it is not compulsory to have family feel, right?  My cousin was in a homestay which only provide fast food as the owner is a nurse and she has no time to cook. The reason they accept student because she want her daughter to have accompany. I think people has different reason and I think it will be very lucky to stay in Nile_mami homestay!
I think since the real estate are getting higher and higher, people are seeking way to pay their mortgage. Personally I dont like to have stranger to stay in my house and even when I was in Melbourne for 3yrs, I never thought to go to any homestay. I was living with my sister for the first year and move out to live by myself. I am more keen to live independent as I can learn how to take care of myself and I can more concentrate on studying. I can be more relax to bring my friends during school break and watch my own TV in order to learn English.

原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-3-1 04:39 AM 發表
我反而冇諗咁多.. 自已有自己個家.. 老公小朋友... 有時間不如諗吓family day 去邊...
homesick.. 可能單身喺墨爾本時會有... 而家.. online 同家人通話嘅時間都唔多.. 我會留返心情 take care好個家... 結緍生子已 ...

[ 本文章最後由 xother 於 08-3-1 07:05 編輯 ]