好不好生第二個小孩，請給一些意見，謝!

Mrssslui

Geni 寫道:
我都覺得無論對大人同細路, 兩個小朋友會好過一個. 只得一個, 父母就會將所有注意力都俾哂佢, 佢o既一舉一動都control住你, 你甚至覺得佢係你o既一切, 冇o野大得過佢, 咁樣最後只會令自己好辛苦, 而個小朋友o係呢種環境下成長好容易就變得自我, 以為所有人都應該好似爸爸媽媽咁對佢.... 我就係怕自己會係咁, 所以一直都諗住最少生兩個 :p

其實一個人o既愛係無限o既, 有限o既只係時間同金錢, 多一個小朋友唔等如你對佢o既愛減半, 反而你仲會送多一個人(兄弟姊妹)o既愛俾佢o忝!!

totally agree.

生唔生第二個,真係有許多原因,不能一概而論.
我個人當然贊同生.最好係4-5個,當然係經濟要許可,但係而家既社會就好困難.所以,退而求其次,最少都生兩個.

Mrssslui

cml123,
You can continue on yr plan, then.

Mrssslui

hope your dream come true.

Mrssslui

Hi, Annie,
You said, 'However, my husband always says if the relationship of the brothers are not good, it is just a difficult and tough thing to deal with.'
I think this is the parents' responsibility to maintain and make a well environment for the children when they were young.  Tell them that they are equal, yr love is the same, they must love and help each other, and to face the world altogether.

Mrssslui

三年抱兩 of course no good.
The diff btw them shld be 3yrs. This is my own opinion.

Mrssslui

If the difference of two children is 1-2 yrs only, they may have great jealousy, because as a children 1-2 years, they depend on their parents, esp their mum very much.  But for a children w 3 yrs, they cld be more independant on every aspects, and also start their school life. In my experience, they can learn sharing well, of course, some children esp girls wld be more mature to accept a new baby.
My 2 children have a diff of 3 yrs, they are very good relationship, the elder loves her brother very much, she can share w her brother.