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發表於 13-9-17 15:36 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

Hi all mommys,

Not sure if we have had made the right decision - we send our 3 years old son to two kinders. Morning time he goes to an Int'l school (which is near our home), back home, have lunch, change uniform. Afternoon he takes school bus to a local school (travel time is 45 min). The reason we do that is to secure him for the seats for the int'l school, and if he can not get it after he finishes K2, he still have chances to go to a good private school.

So far, our kid cope quite well. But we are told by friends that kid will feel exausted after a long day and it might not do good for him. Any opinion? Thanks.

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發表於 13-9-17 16:15 |只看該作者

如果兩間都近屋企，小朋友又無需午睡，咁又無所謂是否讀兩間，因我相信即便讀一家幼稚園，很多家庭都會安排個細路放學后或返學前返各種興趣班。。。

但travel單程都要45min，就好攰

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回覆：luckyveronique 的帖子

He takes a nap on the school bus though.

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回覆：two kinders for your child

功課都兩份啦！
比著大人，放左工再坐45分鐘車，再返另一份工，再坐45分鐘車返家，攰嗎？
小朋友仲要係車到訓，會否唔舒服？有精神上課？
自己親身去學校門口，睇下自己小朋友剛訓醒落車，再等放學，睇上車前個樣，接受到咪ok 。

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manbe 講得好特別係最尾個point 發表於 13-9-18 23:13

cherriehahaha 你講得無錯發表於 13-9-17 16:37

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回覆：two kinders for your child

我好欣賞你有勇氣講出唻，因為呢個係好熱門討論而又較多負面批評既topic! 好多人一聽到就好激動！

其實，我認為個個小朋友都唔同，既然開始左，我覺得可以觀察下先，如果個小朋友無問題，個人認係可以讀兩間！如果最後都真係好辛苦就放棄囉！

根本坊間係好多小朋友讀兩間，但敢講出來就好少！努力呀

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發表於 13-9-17 16:37 |只看該作者

回覆：vnghk0001 的帖子

You make me feel i'm not a good mommy - all I did is to secure him for a good school in 2 or 3 years.

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發表於 13-9-17 16:42 |只看該作者

回覆：alovea 的帖子

Thanks Alovea. Yes I just let him try first. As otherwise we will also register for him for many other after school activities. What's more, these two kinders are both really good ones - so pity to give up either one.

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DKHd 發表於 13-9-17 16:42
Thanks Alovea. Yes I just let him try first. As otherwise we will also register for him for many oth ...

I think you should pose the questions to your kid. Personally i do not prefer two KGs at one time. I believe that kids also need time and space to play, regardless local or international he will be going through.

If the local one is a good school, that means homework and other school activities will increase when your kid reaches K2. You and he will find two KGs difficult to manage, in terms of workload and culture as he goes along.

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發表於 13-9-17 18:05 |只看該作者

Honestly attending 2 kinders for a 3 years old is exhausting, considering that some local schools already have decent homeworks from K1. Even if it's just playing at school, kids of this age should have decent rest, including appropriate daily naptime. There is no right or wrong answer. You know your child best and I am sure every parent wants the best for their child with a good intention. Just remember childhood is only once in a lifetime for every kid. Try not to deprive your child from what he/she deserves. Kindergarten is just a beginning and small part of the life ahead which is going to be more challenging. If we as parents get too tensed up, it will even be tougher for our kids.

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發表於 13-9-17 19:20 |只看該作者

If I were you, I would drop the pm local school, and use the afternoon for ECA that may help towards applying for private schools (in case he doesn't get into int'l school)
Except for thru train schools, I don't know of any local kindi that plays a major role in sending its graduates to good schools.  They graduate onto good schools because they perform well in interviews and have good ECA records to show.  Which local kindi is just a small part and by itself certainly not enough to get you the private school you want.
A year from now, you'll notice that your kid's local school classmates are collecting trophies.  Feeling the pressure, you may start then, but your kid will already be behind the game. To find time to crash in ECA, there is really no other way beside dropping one school.  Sad reality!

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HaYi agree, 返本地幼稚園目的是學中文未必比去中文專補有效發表於 13-9-22 18:26

United we stand, divided we fall.

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回覆：DKHd 的帖子

Apart fm physical difficulties and barriers for development, kids will be frustrated and tired under 2 schools. Totally different focus, concerns, values and guidance under traditional and international k. Do the same thing in 2 schools will have contrasted response fm teachers. Even I took my boy to attend 2 different playgroups (traditional and international types), he can't accept if the responses on his involvement or actions were different.

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回覆：btrue 的帖子

Agree. You may keep the international k and attend ECA after taking enough rest (lunch, nap, play and then tea). Then, your kid will have full energy to achieve and learn more. Nap and free play are good for brain development.

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發表於 13-9-17 19:31 |只看該作者

引用：Hi+all+mommys,Not+sure+if+we+have+had+ma

原帖由 DKHd 於 13-09-17 發表
Hi all mommys,

Not sure if we have had made the right decision - we send our 3 years old son to two ...

Have u consider to join some evening play group as your kid is free in evening ??

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發表於 13-9-17 19:42 |只看該作者

回覆：two kinders for your child

係激動左啲，但當你成日見到呢啲小朋友嘅疲態，就心痛！我唔係佢地父母真係唔明。
我有一個比較熟嘅長輩（同阿女同校），佢個孫k1唔識問，今年k2，都識問點解人地讀一間，佢要讀兩間！仲攪到唔想返學，日日喊住入學校！

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引用：Hi+all+mommys,Not+sure+if+we+have+had+ma

原帖由 DKHd 於 13-09-17 發表
Hi all mommys,

Not sure if we have had made the right decision - we send our 3 years old son to two ...

Which two kiddies are they? Both top notch of their kind, or not?

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回覆：btrue 的帖子

Thanks for your opinion. The more opinions I got, the more uncertain I feel. Still struggling between the local education and the international school.

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發表於 13-9-17 21:07 |只看該作者

My kid likes to play especially with friends and cousins. In many cases, she felt very happy running around. She did not want to leave the party until exhausted. Quite often, she cried and was edgy at the end of the party.

Many people say their kid feels happy and can cope with the xxx and yyy and zzz. Kids do not have discipline and self control.

Life is full of choices and sacrifices. To be blunt, this is a selfish decision. You cannot decide and you subject your kid to this kind of exhausting schooling.

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發表於 13-9-17 21:22 |只看該作者

回覆：two kinders for your child

當我多事插下咀，如果幼稚園有好大機會直升或者同某小學好有關係最好keep 住。如果兩間都唔係我自己覺得無乜原因要自己同小朋友都辛苦。如果第時有考慮要叩門，不如用少少時間俾小朋友學一啲學校未有，或者更深入既課程可能效果會比現在好，有cert 更好。有啲學校會收portfolio 到時有料填好過得個一版紙。我個女家下返半日但趣班7個佢有一日問我，爸爸我好想玩，其實佢唔係無時間玩但真係好少（因為我個囡基本上係需要訓中午）所以可用性時間真係好少。我覺得小朋友係玩個時自己會有自己思想空間，佢自己develop 緊佢個思維其實並非壞事。我已經決定減少佢興趣班同埋集中係2-3日本其他時間同佢玩

當然一日2校係無問題，我只係覺得「可苦」

純粹自己睇法


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引用：當我多事插下咀，如果幼稚園有好大機會直升

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