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caca316

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Hi Christi,
Can you PM me, about the 感覺統合相關的書籍? Really thanks.

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Christi yes,圖書館有,免費又有得看;書局有賣,不過有時較難搵,因為歸類不同,放在不同架上,可問問書局職員.另,感統在台灣幾流行,若自己去或朋友去,可去誠品. 發表於 12-2-27 14:19

殷!! 圖書館有感覺統合既書借... 發表於 12-2-27 12:26

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Many parents are overprotective and watched the kids all the time. (24 hours a day?)  Many parents are better than a lot of parents are.  We have a nice home, plenty to eat, and nice clothes. Our children have lots of toys and books.  Parents interfere with kids’ education and activities.
But still they are fragile and unhappy.  Is it due to a lack of understanding, not a lack of caring?
The kids have no reason to complain.  Why they feel odd and failure when they grow up.
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I’m reading a Psychology book and a question circled my mind is :
Can a loving mother be dangerous?
This mom is ambivalent.
The kind of consistently inconsistent love is dangerous to the trusting child. Can a loving mother cause her child to be a potential neurotic?

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本帖最後由 motherotk 於 12-2-29 14:27 編輯

Hi Annie40, agree with your point of view....
"Can a loving mother cause her child to be a potential neurotic?"

Definitely will, as per clinical cases as well as from research studies...family interaction pattern (e.g. overprotective or abondoned or detached parents - not only mum) causing an "anxious" or "depressive" child....

See Dr Lee Wai Yung's (Family therapist from University of Hong Kong Family Institute), her chinese stories at bookstore or at newspaper documented a large percentages of her clinical cases as related to this point of view - never grown up child, never let go parents.....causing mental health issues of the inividuals (either parent of child).

Keep parents as having good mental health and children's good mental health is a key point to a successful and meaningful life. What meanings can we get with a tristed mental health/personality?

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Agree with your point of view on education - especially important for kids with special learning and developmental issues. Most of the teachers or school system cannot do this, therefore, most of the kids are molded through a "manual like" curriculum..our kid's mind are tristed. As parents, it takes so much time and a clear mind to stand against the possible "tristed" mind, and to provide alternatives and different models of learning to our children.

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As parents, it takes so much time and a clear mind to stand against the possible "tristed" mind, and to provide alternatives and different models of learning to our children.
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I really love your words.