番禺會所華仁小學(二) - July 2007 - 番禺會所華仁小學

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koolooloo,

珍惜眼前人.....人生真係好無常。
我表姐早前又係入左醫院，
短短時間失掉了生命，
遺下一個12 歲既仔，好慘。
事隔幾星期，又到呢位家長離去，
真係...我都唔識講了。
麻煩晒你，我已將資料轉交佢既家人，
但下晝佢先生已經出去辦事，
唔知會唔會太遲，已經搵左第二個，
不過都唔該晒你，同埋幫我多謝埋另外個家長。

[ 本文章最後由麟媽媽於 08-3-25 16:58 編輯 ]

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Morning friends :)

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Lun Ma,

Thanks to share with us.

My deepest sympathy goes to the family who has lost a great mom. May GOD give her eternal rest and may her soul rest in peace!

FYI, Che Suk-mui, a DJ in the RTHK also announced the dead of her mom, she mounted for her death and also shared the bits and pieces of the memory with her.

Chelsea

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chelsea，

唉...呢排好多呢d 事，
上星期我先去完表姐既喪禮，
而家又另一好友離去。

換一個角度，佢已經回到天國，
求天主保守佢既乖仔，
希望佢可以變得堅強勇敢。

原文章由 chelsea 於 08-3-26 10:11 發表
Lun Ma,

Thanks to share with us.

My deepest sympathy goes to the family who has lost a great mom. May GOD give her eternal rest and may her soul rest in peace!

FYI, Che Suk-mui, a DJ in the RTHK a ...

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Morning friends :)

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麟媽,

Yes, the lost will realize/discover the change of sequence in our life. i.e. Family/Work/Study/Community Service/Leisure.

The recurrent of the bowel cancer of my dad make the whole family draw closer and the medical expense split within the family. The operation has planned in early April.

Chelsea

原文章由 麟媽媽 於 08-3-26 10:23 發表
chelsea，

唉...呢排好多呢d 事，
上星期我先去完表姐既喪禮，
而家又另一好友離去。
換一個角度，佢已經回到天國，
求天主保守佢既乖仔，
希望佢可以變得堅強勇敢。

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Chelsea,

Ohh..... 無聽你提過.....
希望世伯一切順利，主佑平安！

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你地有無人今晚睇華仁籌款首影？
我地錯過左訂票，無買到飛，
點知有個家長剛剛打黎話多左2 張飛喎！
只得2 張，亞仔又好恨睇....
唯有我自己係屋企，同兩俊貓睇「太極」。

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麟媽,

Thanks. I hope the 不幸事 is 「暫時性」.

大家都可以成為積極樂觀的人，其中一個方法是以「永久性」看待好事情，對挫折就以「暫時性」視之。

善用這個方法，對人處事都有更正面的推動力。例如當銷售人員被客人拒絕時，不要以「永久不買」，而是以「暫時未買」來面對；當老師遇上頑劣學生，不要認定他們「永久性」的無藥可救，只是「暫時性」的未被啟發而已。「永久性」和「暫時性」都是以時間來衡量，若以空間闊度來看待事情，則是「一般性」和「特定性」。悲觀的人會將不幸的事以「一般性」去理解，如「全公司無人對我好」「好心無好報」等。樂觀的人卻會以「特定性」去理解，如「某某上司對我不好」「那人恩將仇報」等。樂觀的人認為好事會鞭策他們在其他方面做得更好，而悲觀的人卻會視之為某種特定因素所造成。悲觀的人只懂放大某項強處，如「我是會計能手」「他認為我很吸引」等。反之樂觀的人卻會將強項說成「一般性」的現象，如「我的工作能力很高」「我很有吸引力」等。當學懂如何認知好事上的「永久性」和「一般性」，對不幸事就詮釋為「暫時性」和「特定性」，人生就會充滿希望；而希望正是推動人們面對挫折的苦海明燈。

原文章由 麟媽媽 於 08-3-27 12:12 發表
Chelsea,

Ohh..... 無聽你提過.....
希望世伯一切順利，主佑平安！

nancytse

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Chelsea,

祝世伯早日康復!
GOD bless your Dad & family.

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Morning friends :)

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Thanks nancytse :)

It's quite a debate in my family as I am the youngest in the family, the crucial/major decision I guess fall to my 5 older brothers.

Both my hubby and I have casted our vote and definitely follow the majority plus my dad's will to it. He's 80 yrs old and whether to fool oneself to live by the days or this is like a magic touch after the operation is still unknown, what I'm afraid is the chemotherapy that he will suffer.
He withdraws all the money to my mom for safekeeping and can think of how hard the decision to him.

Yes, we need luck and blessings to pass by the day.

原文章由 nancytse 於 08-3-27 15:34 發表
Chelsea,

祝世伯早日康復!
GOD bless your Dad & family.

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Chelsea,

咁你地已經決定接受化/電療？
還是切除手術之後再做？
老人家定會承受過程中唔少苦楚，
呢個時候家人互相支持最為重要。
有無咩野幫到手？
有無搵過咩食療可舒緩過程中既不適？

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Lun Ma,

yes, when i extremely tired at home after work and think of this, i will look totally blank face and my older son will know i am thinking of this.

By the way I wrote you should know I don't want him to suffer, i have not seen the scar as it was scary 11 years ago. Those horrible scenes still on my mind. The nausea and weakness not every one can walk thru and I am proud he's brave to get thru this.

The decision is that as the tumor has already inside the intensive and become part of it, so to cut it off is the ideal way to handle but he will require carrying a bag for the waste thereafter.

His decision changed by his health condition daily and finally he agreed to it and I respect and support whatever decision has been made.

As my 5th elder brother is a doctor and we all believe western treatment and not so trust about the black magic (Herbal), my older even contribute half of his pocket money for 2 consecutive
months for his medical expense.

Thanks for your blessings on this and I will leave it in GOD’s hand to ease his pain.

Chelsea

原文章由 麟媽媽 於 08-3-28 10:52 發表
Chelsea,

咁你地已經決定接受化/電療？
還是切除手術之後再做？
老人家定會承受過程中唔少苦楚，
呢個時候家人互相支持最為重要。
有無咩野幫到手？
有無搵過咩食療可舒緩過程中既不適？ ...

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Chelsea,

既然你爸爸已決定，
那便將一切交於天主，
求主憐憫，保守你爸爸安全渡過。
你個仔好識諗，好生性啊！
我成日覺得天主既安排係好奇妙既，
凡人眼中既苦難，當中亦會帶比我地得著，
雖然你爸爸將要挨過一段苦路，
但令你一家更團結，令孩子更懂事，
呢d 一切亦係苦中有所得著及領悟。
放心唔好太唔開心，你地正面d，
對你爸爸亦有正面推動架！！
主佑你們一家平安、快樂！