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<小朋友九型性格學問卷> 　


<<一號仔--跟從原則者>>
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你的孩子是否一號性格？
1. 對於不守規矩的同學、朋友甚至父母極之不滿。
2. 自動自覺收拾自己的東西，做自己分內的事情，如做功課、練琴等。
3. 經常自我批評，認為自己還未做到最好。
4. 非常不願意聽別人對自己的批評和責備。
5. 責任心很強，能完成指定的工作，甚至要求自己做到完美。
6. 吃光所有放在自己碗碟上的食物，保持桌面清潔，且願意主動幫忙清潔。
7. 能夠培養一些優良的習慣。
8. 會說出同學、朋友、家人、老師所做的違規事 。
9. 個性謹慎、正直坦率。
10. 予人正經、不苟且的印象，在長輩眼中是盡責的好學生、好兒女。
11. 學習認真、用功，時常努力完成手上的任務。
12. 同學、老師都讚賞他是做得最好、有最多正確答案、說正確語法的人。
13. 屬於他的地方多半是整齊清潔的，即使有時混亂，也是有規律的混亂，不喜歡別人碰他的東西，怕放錯了位置。
14. 別人會覺得他比老師更嚴厲地執行校規，常被選為擔任班長、行長等職務。
15. 大部分時間能抑制自己的情緒，即使在生氣時也能壓抑怒火，因為發脾氣、罵人是不對的。

(千祈唔好俾1仔讀創意學校也)


<<2號孩子---成就他人者>>
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1.有強烈關心周圍的人的感覺，特別是對於被人冷落.較軟弱的人。
2.要自己成為別人的好朋友。
3.慷摡地把自己的玩具、物品甚至時間送贈別人。
4.常與不同的人談電話，談話內容多是別人的煩惱事，自己則擔當開解別人的角色。
5.常把別人的需要放在首位，懂得討人歡心。
6.有時會扭曲自己迎合他人。
7.不需言語便知道別人的需要。
8.喜歡與人在一起，覺得人很耐人尋味。
9.朋友、同學都問題多多，自己則樂此不疲地給予意見或幫忙。
10.校內成績一般，因為不想家人和老師為自己的成績而擔憂。
11.要成為長輩眼中伶俐、精乖、有用的孩子。
12.心底裡很在意別人的指責和批評。
13.與人相處得不好時，內心會覺得很難堪，會想出各種方法去改善關係。
14.與人的關係改變時，會覺得很受傷害和被遺棄。
15.當遇到困難時，不會亦不習慣求助於人。


<<三號孩子---成就者>>
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1.時常為自己定下目標。
2.討厭負面的想法和說法，因為悲觀的想法會阻礙他們向前行。
3.懂得出位和炫耀自己的才華。
4.多才多藝，有多方面的興趣。
5.堅持至成功為止。
6.時常給人正面樂觀的印象。
7.精力充沛，但有時事情太多會令自己筋疲力盡。
8.喜歡自己衣著光鮮，外表出眾，惹來別人的羨慕和讚美的目光。
9.成績優異，其它活動也很出色。
10做任何事情都會在乎別人的反應和看法，特別想別人見到自己「叻」或出色。
11.努力提高自己的形象，很想得到別人的欣賞。
12.很少失敗的經驗，若有失敗，會把責任推在別人身上。
13.絕少打沒把握的仗，若有失敗的可能性，便會改變原有的計劃。
14.家裡有很多獎杯、獎牌等，會為這些勝利而沾沾自喜。
15.不懂表達感情，對別人的感情表現，有時會用一種冷漠的態度對待。



<<四號孩子----憑感覺者>>
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1.對人特別有興趣，想知道別人行為背後的原因，對別人的處境有獨特的見解。
2.渴望得到別人的賞識和寵愛。
3.有強烈和不同層次的感情領域，可以極喜極悲、興

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理性的人調整自己以適應世界，
不理性的人等待世界來適應他們，
因此，進步都是由非理性的人所創。

中國人應該吸收外國的創意思維方式的優點 (捨棄缺點)，再揉合本身的傳統文化，兩者結合為一....prefect....哂﹗

左腦型偏好
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:偏好語文性說明
:使用語文性記憶
:以序列方式處理訊息
:以邏輯方式產生觀念
:偏好具體思考
﹕一次處理一件工作
:偏好分析性活動
:喜歡結構性的經驗
:偏好學習事實與細節
:嚴肅面對問題


右腦型偏好
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:偏好視覺性說明
:使用意象記憶
:仗用整體方式處理訊息
:以直覺方式產生觀念
:偏好抽象思考
:同時處理數件工作
":偏好綜合性活動
:喜歡開放、非結構性的經驗
:偏好獲綜合性概覽
:嬉戲面對問題

哈，我係右腦型偏好也，所以唔鍾意過於嚴肅面對問題，遇著左腦型偏好的..如"一型仔"老師或父母....咁...死緊.....

龍馬媽媽

如果發現小朋友係4號or7號, 但又負擔唔到比小朋友讀私校或直資, 咁可以點呀? 唔通隨便找間無嘜工課做的官校或資助學校? 各位家長有無好介紹呢? 點先知學校是活動教學定係傳統教學?

杰杰媽媽

我個仔最似4號人格.

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龍馬媽媽﹕
       我阿仔應該都係4仔，非常自我，唔逼得佢得...我今年幫佢選左一間由殺校合併路德會的新校，係津貼學校來的。聽聞朋友個囡而加入左去好開心咁。...希望間學校成功啦。

私校和直資都唔一定唔催逼架。

點知學校係活動傳統？

學校標明左係人數較少，標明左係活動教學的。

仲有，我選果間標明埋愉快學習.......

咁，....你睇下你家附近有冇啦。

無錢係咁架喇。...

jochebed

每個型號都有高、低點。應怎樣查看小朋友才準確呢？

    

龍馬媽媽

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謝謝回覆, 我個仔應該係7仔, 我個仔好似有無窮的精力, 返完全日班學完課外活動, 都可以唔停咁叫你同佢玩棋啦, 猜謎語啦, 玩uno啦, 但食飯同做功課就好似發夢咁, 我都知活動教學佢會開心d, 但對住li D脫繩馬騮, 點先平衡到? 我日日都同佢火星撞地球, 吵過不休

HuiTung

睡覺大嬸,

哈哈, 記唔記得我呢個5w4呀?  妳對傳統同活動教學的比較好好呀!  妳同小朋友做功課時的小遊戲好有用.  其實佢地識做gar, 就係少o左d motivation.  昨晚我仔唔肯數點點, 做得好慢, 我咪講d錯答案, 佢鬼咁開心話我錯, 應該係xx. 我打蛇隨棍上叫佢寫低等我記住, 好快就做完了.  對住個有4仔傾向的小朋友, 連阿媽都要好攪鬼至得.   

judy

I know MANY MANY PEOPLE when I was studying abroad in Canada and now colleagues who graduated in UK and USA who were not just merelt so-so but flunked in HKCEE, got admitted in Univ. ,survived and some even excelled thereafter. Some came back to HK and have success in their career. If they stayed in HK , they would probably end up in nowhere! Afterall, HKU is not the only Univ. in the world.

Lochan,

我提到的不只apply to HK，全世界都通，flunked in HKCEE，到美加升上U的，绝大多數係雞U。至於survived and some even excelled thereafter，只表示flunked in HKCEE仲勁過他人和他知耻進乎勇努力之結果，但這些人比例很少，不能引用為論据(最少我唔會咁用)。

HuiTung

嘻嘻, 仲有d明明三、四年就讀完的uni course, 拖到五年至畢業果d, 唔知佢地係咪flunked in HKCEE?

Vernique2005

I know MANY MANY PEOPLE when I was studying abroad in Canada and now colleagues who graduated in UK and USA who were not just merelt so-so but flunked in HKCEE, got admitted in Univ. ,survived and some even excelled thereafter. Some came back to HK and have success in their career. If they stayed in HK , they would probably end up in nowhere! Afterall, HKU is not the only Univ. in the world.

我提到的不只apply to HK，全世界都通，flunked in HKCEE，到美加升上U的，绝大多數係雞U。至於survived and some even excelled thereafter，只表示flunked in HKCEE仲勁過他人和他知耻進乎勇努力之結果，但這些人比例很少，不能引用為論据(最少我唔會咁用)。

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I strongly agree with Judy! Almost all of my friends who excel in universities come from elite schools.  I have friends from St. Paul's College, DBS, "Wah Yan," Maryknoll, Belilio, etc... but scarcely see friends who were actually doing badly in HK

I've also tutored numberous students who flunked their HKCEE and then decided to study in Canada.  It took them several years more to get into uni at the end. (Not to mention that they'd have to write the TOEFL exams repeatedly due to their low achievement).

HuiTung

Vernique2005,

妳就好彩喇!  我見果d番餐館多過番學校.   

lochan

"我提到的不只apply to HK，全世界都通"
I don't detect a trace of what you had implied in your previous thread.


"flunked in HKCEE，到美加升上U的，绝大多數係雞U"
I think you are INSULTING many of those who tried hard studying abroad and your comment is highly insulting and biased. What is your definition of 雞U?

"但這些人比例很少，不能引用為論据(最少我唔會咁用)。"
If you cannot provide proof, don't judge recklessly that the ratio is low. At least I know MANY MANY of them who did not perform well in HK, got admitted to top 100 Univ. in USA and Top 20 in UK and top univ. in Canada. They are certainly not 雞U!

I can dare say that majority of those whose results is not good enough to get admitted to HKU (including myself), went abroad and got admitted to decent Univ., definitely not 雞U, and  then survived with respectable results. I felt lucky to study Univ. abroad which widened my scope and thinking. If I were to choose again, I would study abroad if I could afford it.

You are talking to one that you THINK that belongs to a group whom you said we only survived in a very low ratio that cannot be used as reference.

Msma

ｊｕｄｙ　的見解獨到　！　

美各國大把差的大學，我家下去讀都得，有錢佢一定歡迎我　！　   

白羊座

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唉....你地個小朋友係邊類呀？

你地又係邊類呀？

大家唔同類，道不同，唯有和平共處，互相尊重好了。

無謂又話可厭，又話乜啦﹗..

1型、3型、5型、6型、8型、9型，(2型唔知道)都適合傳統教學。

不過6型可能兩者皆可吧﹗
9型呢，你話乜咪做乜囉，或許也可以兩者皆可。

咁4型同7型就應該讀活動和有創意的學校也。

但事實，聽聞中國人好多都係6同9.....

咁，真正的4型唔係話太多(很多都搞錯自己係4型)，7號唔知中國人多唔多。...

咁，如果主要係4和7不能接受傳統教學的話，咁，li類學生咪去讀活動教學囉。

如果家長你係1型、6型、9型，咁，你地可能大都無法接受或遠離固有傳統的事物，咁，自然就....咁咁咁.......唔接受到外國較4仔7仔化的學習模式囉。

睇下自己孩子係乜型？

待續

  
您真得很棒!!

真係3歲定80 ?  未必, 小朋友會變..... 大人也會變.
話時話, 我真係分唔到我個小朋友係咩型,  
呢九種之外有冇混合型呢 ?  1+4 又點 ?
嗚~~我對小朋友的了解不夠啊.   

judy

"flunked in HKCEE，到美加升上U的，绝大多數係雞U"
I think you are INSULTING many of those who tried hard studying abroad and your comment is highly insulting and biased. What is your definition of 雞U?

Lochan,

啦，如果有世侄會考不好，到美加升讀不出名之大學，我一定同佢講:"唔紧要，我見到很多很多中小學成績一般的，入到大學後，成就驚人"。如果他問:"但人地話嗰間係雞U啊"，我一定答："何謂雞U先，要知每間U都是政府認可的，你話佢雞U，咁即係話政府雞，政府雞，即他評審的都雞啦，咁哈佛都雞啦!"

但中小學成績一般的，入到U的不多，加上成就驚人的，更是少之又少，這是common sense，不辯了。

咪講到"insulting"咁嚴重，大家都是成年人，加上网上發言，可以Casual一點。幾天前，見有人在一個Topic上paste 一句 “躬自厚而薄責於人, 則遠怨矣”，嘩，先不說引用是否恰當，但一個 “怨”字，己嚇死人。在這里久了，我都會選比較君子的人開火，希望君子量大，不會 “怨”。

judy

哈哈, 記唔記得我呢個5w4呀? 妳對傳統同活動教學的比較好好呀! 妳同小朋友做功課時的小遊戲好有用. 其實佢地識做gar, 就係少o左d motivation.

HuiTung,

睡覺講果啲都唔係活動教學，係活動一下，再教學。

啦，我所理解之活動教學，係在遊戲中，不知不覺學到嘢，好高境界嘅。例如玩24點，釣红魚學數學。

最近我家大少話要學武功，他自制了一套活動教學，希望不用練功打坐而能成武林高手，方法如下：

1. 每天起身抱一抱BB，晚上回家又抱一抱BB，這叫做重力訓練。
2. BB哭的時候，要不断改变抱姿，無形中習得應变。
3. 抱BB是開心之事，是愉快學習，效果更佳。

他說，以前有一人上山拜師，老師叫他早上抱猪上山，晚上抱回，如是過两年，小猪變大猪，而那青年也練就武功。

大少說，他能否成為武林高手，還是武林低手，視乎我能養到BB多肥，我都幾大壓力。

  

lochan

Judy,

What you have said before really hurt my feelings and some of those who had walked the same path as I did, I am trying to bring out a point is that those study in famous prim. and second. schools and eventually graduated from HKU are those who adapt well to local education system and at the same time smart too and I have not a bit of disrespect to them. (Are you one of them?)

Those who may be smart but cannot fit into local system, somehow manage to survive under a different education system (one example is to study abroad) and did well. They also need to be given credit.  I must say there are some who did not fare well even went studying abroad but from what I had observed, this is certainly not the majority case.

Some of your words which you may think is funny or humorous may appers to be piercing and mean to others. "Insulting" is actually what I really felt in my heart after reading your thread and I have no intention to hide it. I would appreciate that while being humorous, selection of words is also important.

Knowing that this is your style, I have no hard feelings or may I say I was amused sometimes in having discussion with you since you have some unique views although I don't  agree with you all the time, but discussion should be under a mutual respecting basis, correct?

Wunma,
I have just joined the 40's category. You are correct that if you cannot get in Univ. in HK nowadays, there is slight chance to succeed anywhere else since there are so many Univ. to choose in HK and the admission standard has lowered significantly compare to our time.