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樓主: hcheng	go 係唔係入唔到名校，是否一切？ [複製鏈接]

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發表於 08-11-28 19:30 |只看該作者

原帖由 mow-mow 於 08-11-28 16:23 發表
Whatever you do, someone somewhere will have something unpleasant to say.
So forget it - just do what you feel is the right thing.

尋找「閃光點」，努力不懈，堅毅不屈，機會總是留給有準備的人。
但是，有準備不一定能找緊機會，因為....
命運就是這樣的敲門。
要找緊機會，就要戰勝自己和戰勝命運。
遇到逆境，堅持，不要放棄。
黑暗是可怕的，極難耐的.....
但是，渡過了黑暗，不就是黎明了嗎 ?!

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發表於 08-11-28 19:50 |只看該作者

前兩個星期,"壹週刊"有一篇訪問,即將被殺校的釋智慧中學的校長蔡榮甜先生.
他有一段講得發人心省:他說以他的理解,越近維多利亞港的學校,banding 越高. 他以前讀"英華",老師經常叫學生們自修的.他的老友田家炳中學校長,讀的學校還利害,老師嫌學生太吵就話:再嘈教書!
蔡先生說,他們的 band 3 學校教師,可真的用心教學生的,只是學生的背景有別.出來的效果也有別.

所以,入得名校,家長的承擔固然不少.但亦要撫心自問,那是否一所真正合適你的小朋友去讀的學校呢!他進入了此學校是否就能扶搖直上,出人頭地,飛黃騰達........或者,起碼的開心學習呢!

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發表於 08-11-28 20:04 |只看該作者

As parents, we all expect the best for our kids. Those aiming at 'famous' schools including me want to pave a better way for their childs but it is not the only way and not the most important one.
Don't be upset. If you feel 'guilty' not choosing the 'famous' schools for your kids, please please give them a big hug tonight and tell them how much you love them. You'll feel better because all you did is for them.

Cheer up!

p.s. I only choose the 'famous' schools close to my home.

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發表於 08-11-28 20:15 |只看該作者

Just take the best available option on hand. Consider your child and your own expectation. Not others, even relatives. After all, you know your child better than anyone else. Suitable one is more important than famous one.

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發表於 08-11-28 23:27 |只看該作者

唔好介意成我講少少. 有時讀完名校居要職的, 都慨歎自己的童年, 所以他們都不讓子女重蹈覆轍, 而希望要求快樂學習的同時更要有空間去思考同見多識廣, 他們好明白以往名校所帶給他們的已未必切合將來的世界. 因為佢地深深體會到香港名校學生都是少了一點…..當我地接觸高薪的外求上師時, 有時發現我們老了---老得很累, 因為我們從小就併搏, 我們不窮, 就只窮了從小的快樂同探索能力. 比起上來, 我們好像一個老人,
讀完書就想塭份工 (退休安享晚年, 得以休息. ) 而別人就好像剛學行的小孩, 帶著所學的起步去闖, 所以別人還有無窮的魄力和創造力的同時我們已走得很累. 如果名校真係可以變魔術, 那麼我們身邊應該有好多名校人士?! 唔好介意喇! LS, DBS SPCC… 街坊小學無必要比. 最重要做到開心, 識到好同學最重要.

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原帖由 妙mill 於 08-11-28 19:50 發表
前兩個星期,"壹週刊"有一篇訪問,即將被殺校的釋智慧中學的校長蔡榮甜先生.
他有一段講得發人心省:他說以他的理解,越近維多利亞港的學校,banding 越高. 他以前讀"英華",老師經常叫學生們自修的.他的老友田家炳中學校 ...

[ 本帖最後由 mamimummy 於 08-11-29 16:41 編輯 ]

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發表於 08-11-29 07:36 |只看該作者

hey! nowaday "幾好嘅津小" is a kind of 名校喎! u know why i need to apply dss school? cos my love 官立manymany people apply! if i can enter that school, sure i will give up those so-called "名校" u said!

so dont 妄自菲薄!

原帖由 hcheng 於 08-11-27 14:01 發表
昨日同一個親戚傾開小一入學問題，佢用一啲好唔好啲語氣問乜唔係入依間，果間! (註：依間，果間都係名校) 我都唔知點樣答佢！昨晚諗番佢講過嘅嘢，成晚瞓唔倒，不禁想到唔通入唔到名校，咁就一世！

其實我囝囝考到陳守仁同埋抽到間本 ...

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發表於 08-11-29 07:53 |只看該作者

我心儀嘅官立, 得60個位, 攞咗30個位自行收生, 結果要36個位先收得哂"自己人", 剩24個位大抽獎! 您話係咪仲難入過co-ed! 所以我唯有被迫入"直資名校"!

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醒目開學勳章


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發表於 08-11-29 08:56 |只看該作者

我都知揀學校要睇自己個仔女，但而家的小朋友好多變架，好似我個女，鍾意玩、鍾意睇電視，擒高擒低冇時停，但又會揸住本百科全書睇，教佢讀成語咭，3盒夾埋百幾張，佢可以記晒一號係Muk嘢、二號係Muk嘢、三號係Muk、四號係Muk........百幾個，咁你話應該俾佢讀啲活動教學定係傳統果啲，我做阿媽都諗佐好耐，最後我都揀咗傳統名校俾佢，希望無揀錯啦。

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發表於 08-12-1 12:10 |只看該作者

很多謝各位嘅回覆／安慰／支持，經過多日巳經感覺好D，謝謝！

祝大家成功！

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原帖由 lola2008 於 08-11-29 08:56 發表
我都知揀學校要睇自己個仔女，但而家的小朋友好多變架，好似我個女，鍾意玩、鍾意睇電視，擒高擒低冇時停，但又會揸住本百科全書睇，教佢讀成語咭，3盒夾埋百幾張，佢可以記晒一號係Muk嘢、二號係Muk嘢、三號係Muk、四號係Muk....... ...

你個囡囡好叻...呀,成語都識.

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發表於 08-12-8 16:01 |只看該作者

Dear all,

after reading all your words, I want releasing my pressure and anger here.

I have 2 friends who have girls also applying P1 next year. In before, they kept telling me that they would pick a school that's not the toppest (eg: St. Mary & Marynoll) as they afraided the competition (even when we chatted in Nov, i.e. after we submit the P1 form for 1st round allocation).

Then...both them telling me that they finally got seats from St. Mary in 1st round. 1 of them even told me that she had no idea (of finally pick St. Mary) before cos all handled by her husband.

My girl couldn't get the place this round which I understand it is all about "total marks" & "luck" but I never thought others would tell lie for this minor thing.

I know nothing i can do except try our luck again in 2nd round. Just hard to take people doing like this.

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發表於 08-12-8 23:46 |只看該作者

Haha..I think we applied the same school!

原帖由 ryanyui 於 08-11-29 07:53 發表
我心儀嘅官立, 得60個位, 攞咗30個位自行收生, 結果要36個位先收得哂"自己人", 剩24個位大抽獎! 您話係咪仲難入過co-ed! 所以我唯有被迫入"直資名校"!

[ 本帖最後由 chunchunmommy 於 08-12-8 23:47 編輯 ]

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發表於 08-12-9 10:08 |只看該作者

be honest...it doesn't matter how many mummies applied same school for their kids as it is understandable. All parents would like to get the best for the kids.

However, I hate people making thing so complicated & telling lie even on what school applying. My husband said they might afraid be teasing if fail to get a place.

Anyway, I wish we all can get an ideal place for kids.

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發表於 08-12-14 13:31 |只看該作者

係唔係入唔到名校，咁就一世?

of course not. I remember my mon told me that I was not admitted by a primary school but my cousin was. But time proved that the school made a mistake as my HKCEE result was far better than my cousin and I prove to be a better girl to my mon than my cousin, who continued her secondary school of a better brand than mine.

I believe that every child should be responsible for his/her life. As parent, I hope to provide them a better environment so as to develop them to possess the skill and manner to manage their own life. Putting them into 名校, to me, just hope to reduce the chance of their meeting bad friends. I don't think we should rely on solely on the simple statistics of getting into band 1 secondary school or prestige university in the future. It's all depends on the quality of the children.

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發表於 08-12-14 20:14 |只看該作者

呢個標題"係唔係入唔到名校，咁就一世?"根本就有問題。

讀唔到書係咪就一世呀??
搵唔到好工係咪就一世呀??
嫁唔出咪就一世呀??
XXXXXXXXX咪就一世呀??
CCCCCCCCC咪就一世呀??
EEEEEEEEE咪就一世呀??

除左"自殺"呢個決定係會一世,無事情係會影響一世,因為之後還可以作出調整/努力.

但係,考名校絕無問題,任何情形,都應該選擇最有利位置,唔得就再作應變....這個就是人生了.

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發表於 08-12-15 06:40 |只看該作者

一次過看完這個thread, 發現最後的一個才最發人深省.

agree
"但係,考名校絕無問題,任何情形,都應該選擇最有利位置,唔得就再作應變....這個就是人生了."

試過唔得 --> 無憾. 一切隨緣.

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發表於 08-12-15 11:31 |只看該作者

我認同名校會好些... 但不一定要去讀名校... 名校絕對不是一切

"名校"做得名校一定有很多優點, . 但每個小朋友及家庭背景都不一樣... 不能一概而論..
若小朋友讀到名校.. 由小至大側邊都系"叻人", "社交圈"及體驗等與一般小學真的會不同... 可以講真系好d... 條路"可能"真系會好行d. 你知hk哋經常有人講"識人好過識字" .. 但如果有個人實力.. 一樣可以很好及有成就...只不過可能要花多些功夫或時間．． hk 不是有很多”hk故事”的高官／猛人嗎　？再者 , 名校出身的又如何? 你周不時身邊都出現"滿身銅嗅" 及"無品" 的人..
要讀名校... 或私校... 其實睇家長想小朋友點...

揀校要考慮及平衡幾個大項便ok了, 作為家長做了"應做"及"可做"的已十分足夠, :額外"的有是會變成負擔...
1. 經濟能力.. 每個月幾千, 若2個小朋友, 仲襟計.. 暫時是6年計劃.. 但這些小學之升中又如何.. ? 同時, 因為你付出很大 ( $$$ ), 你可能又希望得大... 小朋友一有小問題. 問題被放大了去處理就不好啦...
2. 學校教學模式(勁谷的或開心的或體藝的)同自己小朋友配合到嗎 ??若小朋友讀得不好或不開心, 影響很大.
3. 小學校網及升中情況..
4. 地區, 太遠大人都頂唔順啦.. 何況小朋友...
5. 校風 ...這個不用我講啦... 有時名校件件名牌, 家長日d亞媽好似出show咁..
6. 家長之投入時間... 若自己都無時間同小朋友溫書做project, 揀了間"谷"的咪大家都辛苦囉....
7. 宗教, 又buy 唔buy 先...好hardsell嗰d又ok嗎?
8. 其他... 家家有本難言...
任何事都不平衡 ... 否則好事會變成壞事.

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發表於 08-12-15 12:53 |只看該作者

I also know some people that are like this. that's why i also feel so pissed when people say how they don't like this or that "名校" openly but secretly they strive to get their kids in. and when they failed they continue with their statements of those 名校; but if they succeed, they just show off around. hate those people.

原帖由 Yummie 於 08-12-8 16:01 發表
Dear all,

after reading all your words, I want releasing my pressure and anger here.

I have 2 friends who have girls also applying P1 next year. In before, they kept telling me that they would pick ...

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