好多o野想知, 好多o野想問, 但點解這裡沒有MTC 紅磡灣家長TOPIC..........

Leolonglongma

如題.   

Leolonglongma

各位小一家長, 請問你們是否送小朋友到學校上課, 我自己要返工, 只可讓小朋友搭校車, 就是這樣, 損失了認識其他家長的機會, 小朋友適應上遇疑難; 有o野唔清楚, 想問都無門徑..........

winnie-dennis

Hi,

我的兒子也是讀MTCHHB小一, 我也是要上班的, 所以特別告了幾天假陪兒子開學, 因為他適應上有問題.  這個星期已經有改善, 雖然仍然每天說不想上課, 覺得時間過得太久, 但已沒有哭了.  老師也說看他這幾天開始有笑容.  希望下週又進步一點吧!

功課量尚可應付, 但我覺得老師的要求頗高, 我的兒子的handwriting 不太好看, 不過我們覺得他已較幼稚園時有進步, 但老師仍然覺得不夠好, 要他重寫自己的名字.  因為我的兒子對自己的表現很緊張, 所以問我們怎樣可以做得好些, 我們教了他方法, 他因未掌握到但又心急, 所以哭了出來.  我已經跟他說, 他已經比以前進步, 有B已經不錯, 但他說要做到最好, 我不想給他壓力, 所以每天暫時都做到最低要求便讓他好好玩耍.

yanyanyan

hihi

your son or daughter study at which class/

my daughter said the teacher no good ,

BowBow

Hello 各位,

我囡囡在上星期(適應期)還很enjoy的, 可能只是半天吧!  但自從今星期起正式開課, 她明顯緊張咗, 還跟我說: 「小學都唔好玩嘅!」

我也覺得功課量尚可應付, 只是書很多、 書包很重, 很難應付。  我曾抽起幾本我認為不需帶的書, 但呀女話: 「唔好啦!  如果上堂真係耍用, 老師可能會罰ｏ架!」  似乎佢番學都頗有壓力。

Leolonglongma

Dear all parents,

It's so good that I can have response from P.1 parenets of MTC (HHB), as it's so helpless that I cannot find a mother here to talk to before!

My boy is studing in 1C, how about your kids.  I have talked to the teacher of my boy once (via phone) and even myself have hard feeling of what she said, she is so subjective.  My boy is strong but he is still hit by some naughty classmate.  When I complained that to the teacher, can you imagine what's her response.  "It's  not possible, he's so strong that nobody can hit him!"  What kind of logic it is?  And afterwards, she complained a lot about my kid, talking in the class......, I asked her to forgive him because he is studying in an interactive kindergarten, and has no idea about "not talking during the class".  But her response is that, "No way, you know the monitor will be very busy, if every child talk in that way"  My feeling is that how come such teacher could be a P. 1 teacher.....  What my kid complained to me was about things happend during the recess, which no teacher would be there on duty, but the teacher told me, it was not possible to have such things happened............"  I kept silent as I believe it's no use to reflect any of my kid's complaints.  But during the last 2 weeks, my kid's uniform was pouring totally wet by his classmate, and his school bag is also pouring wet by other classmate intentionally in the other day, he had been pushed down by other kid which made his back hurt, his snack was threw on the floor by one classmate just because my boy did not want to share extra pieces with him (he had gave him 2 pieces before).  My boy was not willing to complain to the teacher as he recognised it's no use now..............

Leolonglongma

Winnie-Dennis,

你好!  我的小朋友是由活動教學轉入傳統教學, 慶幸原先也是全日制, 逗留在校之時間尚可適應, 唯起床時間卻很不習慣 (6:05am), 常問為何要晚上起床上學.  先生方面, 只告訴你(他們)很惡, 唔准傾計. 第一天已罰企1.5小時, 他只說很累! 上第一次體育課又係學罰企(排隊), 作為家長, 只想知:點解成日要罰企?  點解唔可以俾小學正面形象予小朋友?  佢俾小朋友淋溼成件校服, 都唔敢話俾老師知, 問佢點解? "費事又俾佢罰", 可想像老師形像幾負面, 同佢以前天天俾老師/主任攬住/擁抱好似天堂同地獄之分別.  我問佢上學是否開心, 佢求其應我"開心", 但細問下, 佢會話我知, 點解o個個小朋友可以成日咁曳, 乜都係佢攪出來, 然後累小朋友俾人罰(有時是全部/有時是部份), 但老師唔會剩係罰佢?
功課上暫時應付到, 但都有錯漏要幫忙修正. 只能不斷鼓勵, 讓他不要對學校反感 (但問題是我自己都無法投入!)
:cry:

BowBow

Hi,

我囡囡這班也曾有小朋友要罰企,  雖然佢冇份, 但已有啲嚇怕咗, 個心成日好緊張話驚耍留堂, 記缺點 (因佢曾犯過小錯, 老師話過佢)。

星期六(23/9)我會參加會員大會, 睇吓有冇機會反映意見先!

Leolonglongma

Hi, BowBow,

23/9 是選舉委員大會, 因要上其他興趣班, 故未能參加, 但我懷疑是否有機會向委員反映.  我反而期待OCT 小一適應座談會,希望會有時間俾家長和班主任了解一o下實際情況.  請問你小朋友讀邊班?