Bullying

just_a_mom

Recently... My son was being bullied by

just_a_mom

Recently my son was being bullied by his classmate, what else can I do as the school doesnt even care n start questioning us like we r the problem more than the bully ... Feeling helpless....n sad....

oooray

Schools use to harmonize everything (or hide underneath the carpet). Never believe the school can solve the problem.
You can only ask for changing class. If bullying involves violence, call the police.

munich

原帖由 just_a_mom 於 14-12-19 發表
Recently my son was being bullied by his classmate, what else can I do as the school doesnt even car ...

How serious is the bullying?

just_a_mom

Totally！！
We can never trust the school... Very disappointed

just_a_mom

Pushed him from behind hardly, but claim that he just want to say hi
Tell the teacher that my son is naughty or made up something to upset my son
Always around him n teasting him or sometime Hit him with his elbow when my son is next to him
Very annoying, but the thing is the kid's parent think thats normal as "we r raising a son" which I totally disagree with

munich

原帖由 just_a_mom 於 14-12-19 發表
Pushed him from behind hardly, but claim that he just want to say hi
Tell the teacher that my son is ...

It's common assault, you should call the police for help.

Choisumwong

My experience is you need to prove your son suffers physical injury from another boy with witness. Report directly to police with letter from doctor showing the injury.Then the police officer will contact school and you can express what you want. This is the most effective method !

just_a_mom

I just want the bully to stop
N its hard to hav a witness n usually just redness ...
Its really brother me n my son , n I m tired of duing with it anymore as it hav been few months already...really feels like a year. Everytime I think of it ... I feel like I got a knife in my throat, all I can do is to swellow it...

just_a_mom

What will the police do after u called them

munich

原帖由 just_a_mom 於 14-12-19 發表
What will the police do after u called them

They will start the investigation. If u want to give the school some pressure, you could write to the school and request an investigation before considering calling the police.

Choisumwong

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The police will call principal and the principal will call you and discuss what you want. For example , inform the bully's parents or put the bully to another class. My son was bullied for a year and there was no use to talk with the teacher and vice principal. If you report to police with hard evidence, school will take it very serious.

oooray

Yes. Calling police is the one and only one method to solve the problem promptly.
You can go to police station to report and insist to have a file number.
Then issue will be brought to the immediate attention to the school principal through police, and your problem will be solved immediately.

I guarantee.

oooray

This link may help:
http://www.police.gov.hk/ppp_en/11_useful_info/youth/pslp.html


Bullying is absolutely one of police's duty. I was told that they did provide good services and follow up once you file a report..

nicolelaiyy

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may i ask which nationality the bullying kid from ?

just_a_mom

Thank you for the suggestions, u guys r really nice (
If that happens again (finger cross , plz dun hav again)I will call the police in stead of contecting to the school , I was too navie but not anymore

He is an asian

munich

原帖由 just_a_mom 於 14-12-19 發表
Thank you for the suggestions, u guys r really nice (
If that happens again (finger cross , pl ...

I hate bullying! Kids should be happy at school everyday. But for the victims, school is like hell. We should try our best to stop it!

just_a_mom

Thats because a lot of other parents dun hav the 同理心， I read an article, it says, bullying is like a cycle, today u may be bullied by someone, one day u may be the bully . Coz u want to take revenges or just to protect yourself .N so on n on... it will never ends....

birdbird

How old are the kids?

oooray

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If I were you, I would make an urgent appointment with the school principal (remember to tell[or warn] his/her secretary it is super urgent). Then tell him/her your concern and urge him to stop such bullying (before it happens again, or you will go to the police station.) Be proactive. Don't just wait for the next bullying.
Once is more than enough.

The police will then give a good lesson to the ignorant parents.