有無BB 考N班都被reject架..>.<

neko1234

原帖由 傻太 於 10-12-14 16:48 發表


我之前都有驚過光頭仔係自閉, 佢都係歲幾先手指指, 同埋最重要係"佢唔怕痛"...但歲零開始上sam sir時, 問左佢好多次, 佢都係好肯定答我"一定唔係"....我先放心少少.... ...

我個仔又係唔怕痛..佢剛開始學行..跌倒會自己爬起身再行..我當時都好驚...反而而家大個左..佢會喊住要抱抱..
我之前上的幼潛pg..導師係幼稚園老師..我成日都問佢我b係咪有問題....係咪ADHD.......佢好confirm咁答我話"唔係..你都未見過ADHD個隻好動有幾誇張"..我先叫無咁驚..

kristinecheng

自閉同ADHD要兩歲先可以明顯觀察到，大家唔洗緊張住。

我媽媽（婆婆）好緊張，每次有咩風吹草動就驚我個囝有問題，雖然我宜家已經平常心（因為阿囝發展既進度已經超出我預期），不過為咗entertain我媽媽，佢一有問題出現，我就要上網研究再解釋俾佢知，所以係呢方面，我都有啲研究。

jezzyuen

男係真係慢D....(希望唔係我自己安慰自己)

原帖由 kristinecheng 於 10-12-14 17:09 發表
自閉同ADHD要兩歲先可以明顯觀察到，大家唔洗緊張住。

我媽媽（婆婆）好緊張，每次有咩風吹草動就驚我個囝有問題，雖然我宜家已經平常心（因為阿囝發展既進度已經超出我預期），不過為咗entertain我媽媽，佢一有問題出現，我就要上網研 ...

kristinecheng

因為報咗唔少n1，so-far我都累積了唔少interview經驗，我個人覺得想interview成功，真係要好好了解自己bb既長處，再盡量係interview時表現佢既長處。例如，我阿囝講嘢方面比較叻，但認顏色麻麻地，當考顏色時，睇吓有冇機會表現佢識講「blue」，咁嗰part雖然未必攞到分，都有少少同情分。同埋，真係唔好俾壓力bb，每次interview，我都同阿囝講會去學校同老師玩及傾計，我會問佢想唔想去，因為有得出街，佢每次都舉手話去，而且由於係佢自己同意去，通常佢心情都會幾靚（即使miss晒啲瞓覺時間）。去既時候，盡量俾佢自由活動，好似我阿囝好鐘意自己行，加上我大肚唔可以抱佢，每次入interview房佢都係大搖大擺自己行入去再坐底。

總之按自己的小朋友既能力盡量幫佢，對佢有信心亦時常保持欣賞佢既心，就無論in成點都無撼啦﹗而且有時interview真係好講彩數，有啲薄有名氣既學校阿囝in到發晒脾氣又掟嘢，打定輸數卻竟然有am offer，有啲村校自己同阿囝都即場俾老師主任讚，但只有pm offer，封信仲暗示阿囝不及其他小朋友所以未能分配上午班。所以，平常心便好~
小小心得，希望可以幫到你。

原帖由 jezzyuen 於 10-12-14 16:43 發表
啱.....唔會為一杯唔啱自己既杯已唔唔開心..
想係呢度傾下計...因為同老公講...佢永遠都唔會擔心...唔會緊張咁既.....

Angine

Your son is definitely not the first one as I know friends' kid was rejected too. Don't worry!

I do agree that you need to give your son more interview opportunities so that he can LEARN what is the expectation of those new face aunties (those interview teachers). I have applied 10 KG for my son, should be 2 more coming. Actually majority are really for practise. My son has 6 interviews before going to the most wanted KG. I do think he really learn a lot in the process too, so do I.

Of course you won't be telling him in a serious way he is going to interview. I always told my son we are going to a new fun place to play and make it very exciting.

Good luck!

jezzyuen

Thanks......

原帖由 Angine 於 10-12-14 18:59 發表
Your son is definitely not the first one as I know friends' kid was rejected too. Don't worry!

I do agree that you need to give your son more interview opportunities so that he can LEARN what is the  ...

bopui0607

大部份媽媽都緊張過爸爸, 天生男女有別, 同埋我地陀足10個月生bb出黎, 點同啊, 感情都唔同啦, 不過未試過緊張, 擔心, 失望, 到見到成果個陣又唔會咁開心o者, 除左bb成長同學習, 對家長黎講都係一個學習階段 -- 除左IQ, 仲有EQ鍛鍊.

Angine

Our kids need our love more than our worries. I read a good piece hope you find it meaningful. Also posted in another thread. Just hope can share with more parents. See the below link:

http://www.facebook.com/home.php ... zai/124770150918575

CatEgg

唔好意思，我應該問迦南係用邊隻珠仔考ＢＢ？因為我腦海中諗珠仔就係我哋大人做手工個Ｄ珠仔，如果係完全係考小朋友手指仔小肌肉同眼力

yuengooluk

我細仔快17個月大,仍不能穿珠,認顏色,形狀,字母數字,同我大仔當年相差很遠. 我不認為我教的方法有大不同. 但不管我同細仔玩甚麼,教甚麼,很多時候他都是表現得"睬你都傻"的態度,總是看看摸摸一番就走開. 我真的覺得很無奈沮喪. 人人見過我細仔在日常生活的表現都讚他很聰明,他手眼協調亦上佳. 所以我真不知問題出於那,我唯有歸咎於他初生時,我因為要一人照顧二子而遲了早教, 其實很內疚自責......:cry: :cry:

原帖由 neko1234 於 10-12-14 13:42 發表


其實有時唔關早唔早教..而係個bb ready未..,.唔識唔代表屋企無教..你個女叻你唔覺..但唔好以此為標準..呢地好多bb 被reject被waiting ..唔係佢地唔叻..而係因為有d年紀比人細..有d因為未ready..

我bb 識爬先學坐. ...

[ 本帖最後由 yuengooluk 於 10-12-17 01:39 編輯 ]

mumchow

唔駛擔心, 我個仔上年考咗好似4-5間 PN, 冇一間收, 好彩後來讀開果間 playgroup 有位比佢插班, 船到橋頭自然直!

jezzyuen

深深感受到你所感受的~

原帖由 yuengooluk 於 10-12-17 01:38 發表
我細仔快17個月大,仍不能穿珠,認顏色,形狀,字母數字,同我大仔當年相差很遠. 我不認為我教的方法有大不同. 但不管我同細仔玩甚麼,教甚麼,很多時候他都是表現得"睬你都傻"的態度,總是看看摸摸一番就走開. 我真的覺得很 ...

jezzyuen

無緣...

原帖由 cincin_ko 於 10-12-20 19:49 發表


自己帶埋D ABC卡比佢地IN, PASS左...但問顏色, 我仔只識藍色->> already very good!!!

neko1234

原帖由 jezzyuen 於 10-12-21 21:26 發表
無緣...

塞翁失馬 焉之非福