神賜給小朋友之優質學府

thomasha

Yes, of course.  Even adults lose focus sometimes and need to be brought back on track.  We do need to find out the underlying reasons if the situation persists.

原帖由 bbmm-mom 於 10-9-13 17:57 發表
I also agree...But, we have to admit that we need to push them a little bit as they may lost their patience in some way, even they have interest in learning something.  If you guide them a bit, they c ...

kc_01k

原帖由 silvia_ng 於 10-9-13 00:35 發表


呢個現實真係好可悲, 小朋友好慘。放左學仲要補習再補習, 唔補就好似"異族"。個個都要小朋友十項全能, 冇哂時間玩玩玩!

我而家一樣樂器都冇比兩個小朋友學, 運動亦都冇。只係閒時同佢地係屋企"炸機", 一家四口發神經咁一齊跳舞。運動都係落樓下公園打下羽毛球, 再唔係打下WII...哈!

身邊朋友都話小朋友點解學咁少野, 我反問點解要學咁多野? 點解唔比小朋友學一樣學器? 我就話連音樂都未識欣賞, 學咩人學學器。

但而家D人, 都係放學後排滿哂....我細果個都係留係學校多一個鐘跳下舞, 玩下跆拳。英文 / PTH? NO WAY!

但要繼續KEEP住自己既價值觀, 真係幾難架....

Totally agree!

aryee

我覺得樓主所講好多都係bk風氣，bk的確係一個好平台比家長交換心得，收風，聽意見，但同時，呢度都有d歪風，助長左唔少無謂"競爭"。所以我見自己(思想)唔太對路，我就會唔上bk一輪，清醒返先再黎收料。

IWAT

我覺得, 只不過係大家進步緊...

快樂童年好重要,  但小朋友都有自己要求...

我識一個媽咪, 識多過5種語言, 最少4種是非常流利的.  她的小朋友k3已經可以讀成本英文小說, 講流利法文...  但小朋友是非常開心, 快樂的.   點解?   我自己覺得學習能力好因人而異...  但家庭環境及配合, 更加重要...  點解咁多人要小朋友參加不同的補習班, 學唔同既野...  係大家想自己的小朋友追逐其他小朋友...?  唔想自己小朋友落後於人...?  我相信小朋友其實自己都係咁...  你個小朋友會唔會問您, 某某同學仔都有, 點解佢冇...類似的問題.  小朋友都唔想比老師話,同學笑... 大家都有要求, 讀一般學校的都可以做高官積極做人, 讀名校的也可以遊手好閒.

大家自己都進步左好多, 對自己的過去或多或少可能有點不滿意.  希望比小朋友有更好的.  我相信只要將自己家庭, 自己本身同小朋友擺位正確.  認清自己能力, 協助小朋友發揮, 大家內心自然舒服,  就會有更多正能量支持小朋友...

(小小個人觀點...  見諒)

ANChan59

原帖由 pandabonita 於 10-9-13 14:45 發表
再借題發輝一下，每年都見有學生諗唔通而鑽牛角尖，不知外國同類事件有多少。

Yes, visit Stanford campus and you can see 24 hrs hotline.......... Talk to students and you may know how many did silly things to hurt themselves.

[ 本帖最後由 ANChan59 於 10-10-23 16:04 編輯 ]

TungTung_daddy

Good answer. Not always follow the others to blame. While I was young, I had no chance to learn ECA.

In some valuable studies, over 95% of the brain develops before 6 years old. If you give chance to the kid, they will develop it faster and easier. The problem is that you feed something that is beyond their age.

The government's 派位 method can always be improved. However, I also don't want my kid to be ranked while he is still 5 or 6 years old. If someone think that there is another good idea, state here. Please don't just blame.

While I was young, my family was poor. We did not blame. We even did not apply for government social security funding. Nowaday, people always blame the government. Please work hard first. Please give a good model to your kid first.

原帖由 Charlotte_mom 於 10-9-13 09:36 發表
係, 好無奈, 但適者生存, 家長唯有"隨波續流"
我都覺得個小一派位方法好stupid, 但我更加唔想見到用更"理智"既方法去派學位, 當需要將小朋友rank, 只會令家長更早一步push小朋友
你知道嗎? 我d小朋友唔係讀咩名校,  ...

d2343130

如可以"因材施教"小朋友一定可以"愉快又有效學習", 但家吓教法要"快而多"....
除非小朋友"可以填"唔係.....好快變得"討厭學習".....

ANYWAY,家長同小朋友之間要好清楚咩形式的教法至最有用, 只係一面倒要小朋友點..點...又點....最終,只有一個唔變通,唔知自己做咩,同無人叫唔知可以點做及叫咗都唔做的人.

funnyguy

原帖由 PhdJessiema 於 10-9-13 00:24 發表
I read so many messages here for so many years. All the people have inclination of pushing the children to the utmost. Most of the time parents did train their children to do something out of their ab ...

The most meaningful and touching post I have ever read.

maynjune

歪風?   

Not only here.. You can see this 歪風 anywhere if you can take part in more conversation with your kid's parents.  They usually take 6 - 9 kinds of activities after school... Even they are willing to pay HK$650.00 per hour for an English lesson for their kids in Kindergarten.  

Charging more means better quality, at least at their point of view....

Poor HK Parents and poor their kids.....

原帖由 aryee 於 10-10-14 10:14 發表
我覺得樓主所講好多都係bk風氣，bk的確係一個好平台比家長交換心得，收風，聽意見，但同時，呢度都有d歪風，助長左唔少無謂"競爭"。所以我見自己(思想)唔太對路，我就會唔上bk一輪，清醒返先再黎收料。 ...

[ 本帖最後由 maynjune 於 10-10-29 10:46 編輯 ]

ANChan59

You highlighted the phenomenon, pls elaborate more on the causes and solutions.