神賜給小朋友之優質學府

silvia_ng

原帖由 PhdJessiema 於 10-9-13 00:24 發表
I read so many messages here for so many years. All the people have inclination of pushing the children to the utmost. Most of the time parents did train their children to do something out of their ab ...

呢個現實真係好可悲, 小朋友好慘。放左學仲要補習再補習, 唔補就好似"異族"。個個都要小朋友十項全能, 冇哂時間玩玩玩!

我而家一樣樂器都冇比兩個小朋友學, 運動亦都冇。只係閒時同佢地係屋企"炸機", 一家四口發神經咁一齊跳舞。運動都係落樓下公園打下羽毛球, 再唔係打下WII...哈!

身邊朋友都話小朋友點解學咁少野, 我反問點解要學咁多野? 點解唔比小朋友學一樣學器? 我就話連音樂都未識欣賞, 學咩人學學器。

但而家D人, 都係放學後排滿哂....我細果個都係留係學校多一個鐘跳下舞, 玩下跆拳。英文 / PTH? NO WAY!

但要繼續KEEP住自己既價值觀, 真係幾難架....

beautyyk

我十分讚同你們這番說話。

manmak88

一半半啦...... 我覺得開唔開心好主觀
你見到有人畢業出來工作只有唔夠10k......
我見到的是出來可以自己照顧自己
我細時沒機會試其他野, 只有學校教
現在我也不是強迫要小朋友不停學, 只是想比佢試, 佢like 當然比佢學, 唔like 試過就好

runme

it seems to me that whatever the government do, there are people who don't like it and blame it.  The reason is simple: different people have different value and interest.  Also, people normally are not considerate enough.  

It is true that we should not give our kdis much pressure, but we should give them the opportunity to try (if we can) since they are small so that I won't be regret in future.

ysnmama

瘋狂世界有瘋狂家長. 不少家長要小朋友比別人學快學多學深. 總之早教早學幾年. 嬰兒爬行期便學幼兒班的. 幼稚園時期學小學的. 小一階段學小三的. 如此類推. 總之完全裝備妥先. 但身在這世界. 要選擇不跟風. 談何容易. 悲哀.

Charlotte_mom

係, 好無奈, 但適者生存, 家長唯有"隨波續流"
我都覺得個小一派位方法好stupid, 但我更加唔想見到用更"理智"既方法去派學位, 當需要將小朋友rank, 只會令家長更早一步push小朋友
你知道嗎? 我d小朋友唔係讀咩名校, 我只係鐘意學校活動教學既理念, 想小朋友讀得開心, 都要10個爭一個咁爭個位返黎! (我想佢開心姐, 又唔係要佢做人中之龍, 咁都要爭?)

原帖由 runme 於 10-9-13 09:24 AM 發表
it seems to me that whatever the government do, there are people who don't like it and blame it.  The reason is simple: different people have different value and interest.  Also, people normally are n ...

happycj

Agreed!
Kids become "soldiers" of the parents.  Parents "trained" the kids to "fight and win glory" for the family.
Very bad indeed.

mat媽

原帖由 silvia_ng 於 10-9-13 00:35 發表


呢個現實真係好可悲, 小朋友好慘。放左學仲要補習再補習, 唔補就好似"異族"。個個都要小朋友十項全能, 冇哂時間玩玩玩!

我而家一樣樂器都冇比兩個小朋友學, 運動亦都冇。只係閒時同佢地係屋企"炸機", 一家四口發 ...

唔補就好似"異族"!! 有同感呀!! 唔參加課外活動也是"異族"呢

mat媽

原帖由 ysnmama 於 10-9-13 09:28 發表
瘋狂世界有瘋狂家長. 不少家長要小朋友比別人學快學多學深. 總之早教早學幾年. 嬰兒爬行期便學幼兒班的. 幼稚園時期學小學的. 小一階段學小三的. 如此類推. 總之完全裝備妥先. 但身在這世界. 要選擇不跟風. 談何容易 ...

廿年前的小三 = 十年前的小二 = 今天的小一 = 10年後的 ..................................... k3 ??

share123

人在江湖，身不由己。你唔學。人地學曬，好似自己個小朋友智力不如人甘，要有好高EQ先可以唔理唔學….

w_y

你 d 小朋友果間已經逐漸變成名校啦, 好多人想入架! 樓主講我覺得一半一半啦. 我見有 d 家長係亂咁谷, 谷左乜都唔知, 人地讀乜補乜佢就去, 見到小朋友邊科差就請老師, 但完全唔去了解問題所在. 相反, 我認識超級名校唔少家長, 真係幾清楚自己小朋友長短處, 谷都谷得有方法, 平時好著重親子活動.

總之咩人都有啦. 唔需要太悲觀...自己知自己做緊乜咪得囉. 雖然我都無可奈何地要隨波逐流, 但我又唔會要小朋友去到好前頭, 總之唔好沒頂就得啦, 前提係大家要學得開心.

原帖由 Charlotte_mom 於 10-9-13 09:36 發表
係, 好無奈, 但適者生存, 家長唯有"隨波續流"
我都覺得個小一派位方法好stupid, 但我更加唔想見到用更"理智"既方法去派學位, 當需要將小朋友rank, 只會令家長更早一步push小朋友
你知道嗎? 我d小朋友唔係讀咩名校,  ...

thomasha

I tend to think the flaws in the current education system has something to do with how parents raise their children.

I do not know how to reform the current system to lessen the burden of the parents.  In fact, the mentality of parents has an important role in the process too.  

Personally I do let my son learn different things because we want to let him try, and before we decide to enrol in any course, we ask whether he likes it first.  His interest and pleasure are the most important factors for our decision.  He still have a keen interest in learning different things, and in fact we have to persuade him to give up some courses because his schedule is too tight.

A better chance in being accepted by prestigious primary schools is not our consideration when we plan our son's extracurricular activities.  We just want him to enjoy the learning process and to build up his self-confidence.  

I will not follow the footsteps of crazy parents who spend so much effort forcing their children to learn all different things just to look outstanding and smart.  

Primary school is just the beginning of education and there are many things to learn in their lives.

原帖由 PhdJessiema 於 10-9-13 00:24 發表
I read so many messages here for so many years. All the people have inclination of pushing the children to the utmost. Most of the time parents did train their children to do something out of their ab ...

thomasha

我覺得作為家長，應該教導小朋友明白，每個人都不一樣，亦不用太計較和其他人的差異，只要過得充實，生命自然會豐盛，活得開心。

原帖由 share123 於 10-9-13 10:37 發表
人在江湖，身不由己。你唔學。人地學曬，好似自己個小朋友智力不如人甘，要有好高EQ先可以唔理唔學….

pandabonita

in case you havent seen this,  different view on education.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iG9CE55wbtY

kaifu

However, standards of university students today = standards of secondary school students 10-20 years ago!

原帖由 mat媽 於 10-9-13 10:37 發表


廿年前的小三 = 十年前的小二 = 今天的小一 = 10年後的 ..................................... k3 ??

judy

廿年前的小三 = 十年前的小二 = 今天的小一 = 10年後的 ..................................... k3 ??

唔係噃，10年前嘅阿大勁過依家嘅阿三好多。我又唔覺阿大IQ高過阿三。

不過，依家嘅父母緊張過10年前嘅好多就真。以前嘅父母，自己做到嘅，盡力自己做，依家樣漾揾人代勞，錢出了，孩子帶出帶入，会唔會醒啲呢？

其實，小朋友最重要是睡得足，玩得多。

[ 本帖最後由 judy 於 10-9-13 11:32 編輯 ]

mat媽

原帖由 judy 於 10-9-13 11:12 發表


唔係噃，10年前嘅阿大勁過依家嘅阿三好多。我又唔覺阿大IQ高過阿三。

識深d 不等於 IQ高d

thomasha

邊方面？o係品德方面就絕對唔覺得。哈哈
也許現在的小學課程比早年的艱深，不過我反而覺得中學的學術科課程的內容較多年前的淺。

原帖由 mat媽 於 10-9-13 10:37 發表


廿年前的小三 = 十年前的小二 = 今天的小一 = 10年後的 ..................................... k3 ??

thomasha

Agree, especially on their attitude.

原帖由 kaifu 於 10-9-13 11:08 發表
However, standards of university students today = standards of secondary school students 10-20 years ago!