神賜給小朋友之優質學府

mat媽

原帖由 thomasha 於 10-9-13 11:24 發表
邊方面？o係品德方面就絕對唔覺得。哈哈
也許現在的小學課程比早年的艱深，不過我反而覺得中學的學術科課程的內容較多年前的淺。

俾小學教左, 中學唔知教咩好???

manmak88

這真的是天生天養, 好彩就平平無奇
唔好彩遇到壞人就......

原帖由 曲曲 於 10-9-13 11:58 發表
唔補習唔學興趣班大有人在
不過最重要係家庭教育

我有個朋友個仔小四
話個仔上堂發夢成日比老師投訴
成績好差考試好差
佢係單親媽媽無工作
但又唔願教個仔, 剩係話唔識教
個仔無補習
佢仲同我講人生唔係剩係得讀書, ...

catyam

所以我覺得, 會唔會係咁樣, 令到有好多青少年問題:
- 小學太深, 令佢地失去學習興趣, 到中學更加冇心機
- 或者, 小學時咩都學晒, 到中學覺得無聊, 於是又係冇心機
......

原帖由 mat媽 於 10-9-13 11:32 發表


俾小學教左, 中學唔知教咩好???

thomasha

我覺得應該是反過來，小學好好培養小孩的學習興趣，中學才是學術衝刺期。

原帖由 catyam 於 10-9-13 13:34 發表
所以我覺得, 會唔會係咁樣, 令到有好多青少年問題:
- 小學太深, 令佢地失去學習興趣, 到中學更加冇心機
- 或者, 小學時咩都學晒, 到中學覺得無聊, 於是又係冇心機
......

...

d2343130

可能係: 一開始返學(幼稚園) 已經被呢d教學方式令小朋友無心機學....直到永遠...阿門.

原帖由 catyam 於 10-9-13 13:34 發表
所以我覺得, 會唔會係咁樣, 令到有好多青少年問題:
- 小學太深, 令佢地失去學習興趣, 到中學更加冇心機
- 或者, 小學時咩都學晒, 到中學覺得無聊, 於是又係冇心機
......

...

mat媽

原帖由 thomasha 於 10-9-13 13:51 發表
我覺得應該是反過來，小學好好培養小孩的學習興趣，中學才是學術衝刺期。

我fd的老板是 new zealand人, 話小學是玩 & 培養讀書興趣, 到中學就要他思想下要怎樣的人生, 想想怎樣達到自己目的.

manmak88

最後上到大學就只是拍拖同打麻雀......
連神童都唔明點夠會甘

一樣米養百樣人

原帖由 mat媽 於 10-9-13 14:04 發表


我fd的老板是 new zealand人, 話小學是玩 & 培養讀書興趣, 到中學就要他思想下要怎樣的人生, 想想怎樣達到自己目的.

smile320

所以家下o甘家高分低能的小朋友o羅！其實做家長,一定要睇小朋友係咩類型,去認識佢,係能力範圍內比適當既野佢,最重要都係多溝通,同埋身教！

Charlotte_mom

外國人好難明香港既生活
我朋友帶個女去睇眼科, 醫生O係澳洲回流, 我朋友叫醫生介紹咩牌子檯燈較好, 醫生反問, 做咩要買檯燈, 做功課緊係日抖做WOR!

原帖由 mat媽 於 10-9-13 02:04 PM 發表


我fd的老板是 new zealand人, 話小學是玩 & 培養讀書興趣, 到中學就要他思想下要怎樣的人生, 想想怎樣達到自己目的.

pandabonita

再借題發輝一下，每年都見有學生諗唔通而鑽牛角尖，不知外國同類事件有多少。

Whitepine

蕭亞姨，
我真係好欣賞你。我其實係你 fans 黎架!

原帖由 silvia_ng 於 10-9-13 00:35 發表


呢個現實真係好可悲, 小朋友好慘。放左學仲要補習再補習, 唔補就好似"異族"。個個都要小朋友十項全能, 冇哂時間玩玩玩!

我而家一樣樂器都冇比兩個小朋友學, 運動亦都冇。只係閒時同佢地係屋企"炸機", 一家四口發 ...

k.kung

I have read your previous posts starting from last year.  If you think the HK education system, schools, parents are so stupid, why you keep on posting message like 女拔萃DGJS必入攻略 and 聖保羅男女小學必入攻略 I to VII again and again.

If those parents are culprits, you are the accomplice.

Dont blame the God. You have the free will to decide the future of your children.

原帖由 PhdJessiema 於 10-9-13 00:24 發表
I read so many messages here for so many years. All the people have inclination of pushing the children to the utmost. Most of the time parents did train their children to do something out of their ab ...

manmak88

強..... 戶外做功課
唔比我屋企無西斜東曬?
窗台比天高, 廚厠不見天日?
又可能窗外有24小時紅白藍光彩?

最可怕的一點是雨天不是讀書天......

原帖由 Charlotte_mom 於 10-9-13 14:42 發表
外國人好難明香港既生活
我朋友帶個女去睇眼科, 醫生O係澳洲回流, 我朋友叫醫生介紹咩牌子檯燈較好, 醫生反問, 做咩要買檯燈, 做功課緊係日抖做WOR!

...

Whitepine

thomasha,

I agree with your views.

As a Christian parent, I consider my kids are not my "properties". They are the "gifts" received from God. Of course, I am their father and have responsibility to raise them properly. But, I don't rule their lives. God does!!

I just want my kids to be happy, even though I know they may not be "as good or as talented" compared with other kids. They don't learn piano, don't have any tutor class to attend, don't know how to swim, draw badly, don't dance....But, they are always the best in my heart. I love them not because they are smart and do well in school, just because they are my childrens.

So, according to the "standard", I am the unqualified father, and my kids are below "the standard".

So, do I need to be shame of it? No. I don't.

原帖由 thomasha 於 10-9-13 10:57 發表
I tend to think the flaws in the current education system has something to do with how parents raise their children.

I do not know how to reform the current system to lessen the burden of the parents ...

thomasha

I think most, if not all, parents want their children to be happy.  Different parents have different perceptions as to how to achieve such happiness - some parents think creating a bright path by training their children intensively can give them happiness when they achieve adulthood because they will be talented to tackle challenges; some parents want their children to enjoy the learning process and their childhood so that they can be pleasant and contribute to society when they grow up.  For me, I choose the latter - every child deserves an enjoyable childhood.

原帖由 Whitepine 於 10-9-13 15:15 發表
thomasha,

I agree with your views.

As a Christian parent, I consider my kids are not my "properties". They are the "gifts" received from God. Of course, I am their father and have responsibility to  ...

Whitepine

Thank you.

Good and inspring talk!!.

原帖由 pandabonita 於 10-9-13 11:05 發表
in case you havent seen this,  different view on education.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iG9CE55wbtY

nello514

I agree. In fact, most parents wants their children can have the ability to earn a living when they grow up. At this digital era,  without high education background (especially in HK), we can't find a better job. So the 1st goal is to get a bachelor degree, and our education system only focus on exam result.

bbmm-mom

I also agree...But, we have to admit that we need to push them a little bit as they may lost their patience in some way, even they have interest in learning something.  If you guide them a bit, they can have some achievement and they will get satisfaction and thus continue to do their best.

I think all parents want their children to be happy and healthy.  Most of my friends also want to give their children opportunity to explore more and more, which we may not have chance in the past.