遇上多口同學仔 , 你會點算好 !!!

hehoa

女女學校有好多, 好多口同學仔, 每一次多口d同學仔話女女, 佢都唔開心 , 都唔知道點教導佢同呢d人相處 !

Yanamami

In reality, there are too many things that you don't have control over,  just ignore him/her.  After a while, he/she might lose interest in hassling your daughter.  You daughter will just "encourage" them to keep hassling her if she react on what they say (as they think it's funny).  Take it as a chance for your daughter to practise her social skill.

原帖由 hehoa 於 09-10-18 11:06 發表
女女學校有好多, 好多口同學仔, 每一次多口d同學仔話女女, 佢都唔開心 , 都唔知道點教導佢同呢d人相處 !

KK07

Agreed...It seems you already have a very negative impression towards these 好多口同學仔, and it will also affect your daughter's feeling towards them.  Think in these ways, they are 多口 because they want to find a chance to play with your daughter, or they are not good at presenting themselves..... Let your kid start to learn how to get along with different types of people.....and your daughter also has her own decision to respond, she can ignore them, show that she doesn't care, more 多口 than them, or treat that as a joke.......

hehoa

yes ,i will !

唉 ! 但有些時候女女冇做任何嘢 , d人都會話佢 !

女女只會 ,一係 :tongue: !

happyvalley

我覺得呢 d 問題要想清楚，了解多一點先。

KK07

我覺得呢 d 問題要想清楚，了解多一點先

But sometimes it's really difficult to understand what actually happened, esp. for junior primary students.  Sometimes, what they told to parents may be different from what they told classmistress.  We just can't expect a 6-8 yr old child can accurately describe the actual happenings, little deviation may lead to big difference.

happyvalley

原帖由 KK07 於 09-10-19 14:32 發表
我覺得呢 d 問題要想清楚，了解多一點先

But sometimes it's really difficult to understand what actually happened, esp. for junior primary students.  Sometimes, what they told to parents may be different  ...

如果有效的了解，就可以清楚地去解釋給自己的小朋友知，用更好的想法去解決問題。

因為有時自我一點的小動作，可能是問題的關鍵。

G-Ma

如果問題不是太嚴重, 我覺得還是交給小朋友自己解決好, 始終佢地都要學習長獨立及與人相處.

hehoa

i agree !

我都會咁做 , 但同學所說所做 , 真會影響到女女情緒 :cry: , 我應該點入手 ?

原帖由 G-Ma 於 09-10-19 15:59 發表
如果問題不是太嚴重, 我覺得還是交給小朋友自己解決好, 始終佢地都要學習長獨立及與人相處.

happyla

原帖由 hehoa 於 09-10-19 16:36 發表
i agree !

我都會咁做 , 但同學所說所做 , 真會影響到女女情緒 :cry: , 我應該點入手 ?  

我想你先要了解同學說她什麼,令她不快先,再同囡囡傾吓應用什麼態度去看同學的言行 ! 你囡囡有多大,能自己解決的嗎

hehoa

女女p.1 , 佢noting to do , 都唔識d小朋友時, 次次路過時 , :( 我唔鍾意你 ) , 女女都唔知點 , 可謂無辜 ! 幾次後其他小朋友就跟隨一齊講一齊笑  , 女女都唔知為何成為笑柄 !

原帖由 happyla 於 09-10-19 16:45 發表



我想你先要了解同學說她什麼,令她不快先,再同囡囡傾吓應用什麼態度去看同學的言行 ! 你囡囡有多大,能自己解決的嗎

happyvalley

原帖由 hehoa 於 09-10-19 21:04 發表
女女p.1 , 佢noting to do , 都唔識d小朋友時, 次次路過時 , :( 我唔鍾意你 ) , 女女都唔知點 , 可謂無辜 ! 幾次後其他小朋友就跟隨一齊講一齊笑  , 女女都唔知為何成為笑柄 !   ...

其實我囡囡當年都是，皆因大家都是善良的家長，當然孩子也是善良的，及身處一d好多惡人住的地區，我說得對嗎！惡人教仔用打，越打就越聽話的管教下，當然佢 d 小朋友見到善良的朋友，都會用取笑的方法，滿足自己的成功感，所以我就話比我的小朋友人知，唔洗理佢，妳一樣大把好同學和妳玩，過多兩年，妳個囡個子高大左，加上學校的好好教育呢 d 惡人之子，就會乜事都冇。

G-Ma

同囡囡傾多d, 比多d正能量佢自己應付.

我記得我囡囡小一既時候小息比個二年班小朋友打, 日日如是, 我囡囡都唔知點解, 可能覺得佢好玩, 我同囡囡講, 你再打我我就話比老師聽, 點知個小朋友都仲係咁, 過左幾日我囡囡話比我聽佢解決左啦, 佢請左坐校車坐係佢隔離個小四姐姐, 佢係prefect, 小息既時候去搵二年班既小朋友傾計, 叫佢唔好再打佢, 結果真係無再打佢, 仲做左朋友仔, 小息一齊玩.  所以有時我地不妨相信下小朋友, 等佢地自己想下辦法, 有時可能比我地幫佢解決有更好效果.

原帖由 hehoa 於 09-10-19 16:36 發表
i agree !

我都會咁做 , 但同學所說所做 , 真會影響到女女情緒 :cry: , 我應該點入手 ?  

KK07

G-Ma, 你囡囡好醒目!

G-Ma

唔係唔係, 可能佢睇得電視多, 呢d情況要搵d有勢力人士幫手.   不過小朋友自有佢地既生存之道.

原帖由 KK07 於 09-10-20 13:17 發表
G-Ma, 你囡囡好醒目!

JKTL

是時候要學習不在乎其他人說什麼了....

原帖由 hehoa 於 09-10-18 11:06 發表
女女學校有好多, 好多口同學仔, 每一次多口d同學仔話女女, 佢都唔開心 , 都唔知道點教導佢同呢d人相處 !

hehoa

女女明白,但佢EQ.....

原帖由 JKTL 於 09-10-21 22:09 發表
是時候要學習不在乎其他人說什麼了....