My son is also 4 years old and he has been quite challenging lately. I think it is because children at this age, they start to have their own idea and so when you tell them to do thing which is not to their liking, they throw a temper as their eq is not yet well develop. (My own thoery anyway.)
Very true is that they "copy" from the people around them. I had to tell my father in-law(lucky my hubby agrees with me) to stop some bad behavior and I would tell my son that certain behavior is bad even though he sees the adult doing it. I even tell him to remind the adult if he sees bad behavior on the adult that seems to make my son feels good and so he would behave himself and be good.
Of course, there is no fix rule for everyone, but at least mine seems to work at the moment.
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