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Anchan,
其实上天很公平, 给你点才能, 另一方面又闭塞了. 自己知道自己事, 反正不会有何'上好办法'和孩子一起應對考試, 只能说些虚话了!心想 如果方法未够妥当, 又或表达力欠奉, 还是无声胜有声好了!
女女考紧试, 有否压力我唔知, 因为佢无提起, 在我估佢都有压力挂的情况下, 鼓励话是有点假道学, 我讲错了和她又收错了的机会很高, 唯有给点distractions, and treats, 例如大家来回emails讨论边欵Biknie 泳衣靓, 挑那个颜色, 买定summer clothes 等, 再鼓励佢买多几件, 保持愉快心情, 迎接beautiful hot summer. (暗地里是希望她考试期间, 继续心情愉快).
怕孩子去左游云太虚? 女孩是比较成熟, 通常怕她们鑚牛角尖多一点!
过了几天, 实在觉得这个妈妈太过贪靓兼肤浅,于是补番张email 分享如下:
1) What are you really thinking about today?
"As you think, so shall you become."
2) Simplify
"It's not the daily increase but daily decrease. Hack away the unessential."
"If you spend too much time thinking about a thing, you'll never get it done."
3) Learn about yourself in interactions.
"To know oneself is to study oneself in action with another person."
4) Do not divide.
"Take no thought of who is right or wrong or who is better than. Be not for or against."
5) Avoid a dependency on validation from others.
"I'm not in this world to live up to your expectations and you're not in this world to live up to mine."
"Showing off is the fool's idea of glory."
6) Be proactive.
"To hell with circumstances: I create opportunity.
7) Be you.
"Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it."
--- Bruce Lee --
“The successful warrior is the average man, with laser-like focus”.
Bruce Lee
孩子能否做到? 是没关系吧, 提醒她做人要有信念就是了. 共勉之!
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