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thomasha,
I agree with your views.
As a Christian parent, I consider my kids are not my "properties". They are the "gifts" received from God. Of course, I am their father and have responsibility to raise them properly. But, I don't rule their lives. God does!!
I just want my kids to be happy, even though I know they may not be "as good or as talented" compared with other kids. They don't learn piano, don't have any tutor class to attend, don't know how to swim, draw badly, don't dance....But, they are always the best in my heart. I love them not because they are smart and do well in school, just because they are my childrens.
So, according to the "standard", I am the unqualified father, and my kids are below "the standard".
So, do I need to be shame of it? No. I don't.
原帖由 thomasha 於 10-9-13 10:57 發表
I tend to think the flaws in the current education system has something to do with how parents raise their children.
I do not know how to reform the current system to lessen the burden of the parents ... |
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