原帖由 wisekid2007 於 08-11-12 11:37 發表
Before going to conduct the IQ assessment, ask yourself why you need to know exactly whether your kid is 聰明 -- 天才 -- 資優.?
**已經係唔同架喇,佢地每個距離只係 10 分之差**
By the way, why you so fo ...It is so obvious that you just want to confirm whether your kid is 聰明 -- 天才 -- 資優 in order to show off in front of others, right?
首先,我答復你問題:You are wrong!!我絕對無諗過要度show off 任何野!!!我當時係為左想幫囝囝 choice 一間適合佢學校,等佢可以愉快學習,開心快樂咁成長,所以去做 Test!!我絕對明白自己方向!!!如果我想炫耀的話,我就會用囝囝個真名再加大大張大頭相,比人知我同我個仔係邊個,再講埋囝囝個智能測試有幾高分,然後比埋囝囝個 Blog 叫大家參考下,咁就叫炫耀!!!
!!好耐無教育王國發言!!無諗過自己發言會比人誤解!!我認同睇野係有正面同負面睇法,我絕對認同各位有言論自由,不過今次真係好 hurt、好傷心!!! 見到一 D BK 媽咪對呢方面有 D 問題,我只係以過來人身份想分享下, BK 曾經分享過1683 次,不過今次分享好失望!!從未咁失望!!
綜觀我已經有自己囝囝智能測試結果手,不過我從未同囝囝或者呢度講過佢係一個 Gifted child!!我鼓勵 D 媽咪有需要時要同小朋友做 Test 係因為我覺得小朋友係唔係 Gifted 無所謂,不過我唔想有 D 媽咪誤解 Gifted Child 特點而行錯方向!!!對小朋友造成無可補救後果!!去做 Test 唔係要標籤小朋友係唔係資優,而係想搵一套最適合佢方法去培養小朋友!!我相信無一位父母會因為自己子女唔係 Gifted 而嫌棄自己小朋友!!
好後悔噚晚浪費左一個小時睡眠時間,換黎他人另類看法!!!可能我要好好惡補自己言辭,以免自己再受傷害!!
原帖由 basbyy 於 08-11-12 00:54 發表
其實如果想確實自己小朋友係唔係資優咪比$去 check 下囉,始終關乎個小朋友未來,早 D 知有好多野可以配合,我囝囝係一個男仔之中算係幾乖小朋友,唔算麻煩仲好聽我話,...........,同佢做 test 個心理學家會話埋比妳知小朋友識合讀 D 邊類型學校,同埋好多資優課程係要你有張 cert 先可以報,....,我有兩個朋友,兩個小朋友都係好麻煩果種,一個 check 出黎係勁資優,一個 check 出黎就唔係,只係 EQ 差!!要上 D 附導班!!所以都係果句唔係麻煩就係資優架!!
我唔識你,你都唔認識我,你唔知我教育水平去到邊,不過我知你教育水平一定比我高!!我唔知你點解咁抗拒家長去幫小朋友做測試,不過我亦只係度分享我經驗,我認為現今香港係可以存在不同聲音,我唔知點解度分享 D 不同經驗會換黎咁侮辱!!我覺得對一個陌生人講『STUPID』呢個字用詞太重、太侮辱同太無家教!!我覺得無論你智商有多高,學歷有多好,但係無一個謙卑心同埋應有禮貌,咁又點呢個社會立足呀!!!
真心說話,我一路睇你『個女係資優,唔知怎幫她選校!』呢個 TOPIC 留言,我彷彿見到你度非常滿意地笑!!!
唔想同你再 argue,我唔會再黎呢個 Topic!!!好似去左極端共產主義社會!!無言論自由!!!怕怕喇!!!
原帖由 wisekid2007 於 08-11-13 09:07 發表
You yourself know whether I am REALLY wrong in guessing your intention of arranging your kid to conduct the IQ assessment. There is no need to further argue.