細仔上小一有幾蝕底？

shadeslayer

Alas, Hong Kong's curricular is hard enough for bigger kids, small kids are really at an disadvantage both academically and socially.  If you believe the book "Outliner", they say the advantage is likely to last throughout. Bigger kids had a lot more confidence in themselves, the teachers like them more and far more likely to be picked for competition and training. They got better and better and the effect is cumulative. .


Don't  despair, the book may be wrong and even if the book is right, your small child may not be like that and you just have to do the best you can.

shadeslayer

致所有小B考全班第一的：同一個細路，如果做細B考全班第一，他們做大B會全級第一！如果細B考全級第一，他們做大B可做尖子，考神校插班，跳班。

細B攪唔掂的，都唔會在EK講喇。咁有幾多細B遇到困難？你的細B得唔得，做乜要博？？

更不用說成績好，不一定社交好。無得擇就話姐，所以我從來找不到合理理由有大B唔做。

shadeslayer

原帖由 ANChan59 於 13-12-08 發表
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唔知中B又點呢？

中B無得諗，專心做到最好便可了。

shadeslayer

九月至十二月的，是可選擇做大B或細B。選擇做細B風險好清楚，選擇做細B有乜好處呢？

shadeslayer

不管大細B，咬實牙根，做好自己當然係正確態度。但如果有得選擇，做細B就真係三思喇。

shadeslayer

原帖由 MrBeast 於 13-12-09 發表
請問乜學長?  我和不同人士討論過這問題，inc 心理e生，小學sen主任，kg 主任，一個自己係細B的mami , 他們 ...

所有親戚朋友問我做大定做細好，我的答案永遠是大。我會說，記住，不是浪費一年，家下咩年代，你屋企好等錢使，有風險也要孩子早一年畢業？

shadeslayer

其實細仔，不是蝕底比別人，係蝕底比自己。