比唔比呀仔學琴好?

des1971

想呀仔學琴, 但呀仔話唔想, 家姐話你想佢學咪要佢學囉, 身邊朋友D仔女十個有九個都有學琴, 個個都話學琴好, 學琴係現今小朋友基本動作………究竟小朋友係咪一定要有一技旁身!?

200012

我個仔學琴是想訓練佢左右腦靈動Ｄ,無打算長學

circleda

Why force him to do thing he don't want? Just like throw money to the sea...

If I were you, I will ask him what other instrument he want if possible.

Irene_BB

一技旁身雖有用﹐但都要佢有興趣先得
暑假有好多短期課程﹐不妨比佢參加多些﹐從中發掘他的興趣

yeungmum

根據佢的興趣, 如果強迫他的話, 他會好辛苦的.

pumbaa

He doesn't know whether he likes it or not without actual practicing. Bring him to try several lessons before making final decision.

AhLing

I learnt from a piano teacher that
if a kid actually sees somebody, especially
his close friends or relatives, playing a piano piece
in front of him, this may help arouse his interest to this musical instrument.

FUNG12345

唔好學琴, 學其他樂器好d

cameo

其實睇你點睇"課外活動"吧!一技旁身?將書本讀好都算啊,haha~讀書要各科成績好都已經唔係一件易事啊!學業上我唔會容許個女話鍾唔鍾意,佢唔鍾意英文科,但都要每日做功課兼溫習!
其實我女4歲時好想學琴,表姐亦學緊亦學得好好,但當時去琴行俾老師睇過手仔唔夠力,叫我到5歲先再去睇,我個女未夠5歲前都朝思夜想,一到5歲就去學,先知唔鍾意,我重join埋親子班,我自己都要學埋,方便練琴時我可以從旁教佢,但爭扎左9個月,我覺得唔單止學琴上進度好慢,最重要係佢同我關係差左!跟住我決定唔再學!
其後我會聽佢意見,佢話想學畫畫又好乜都好,我會俾佢學但一定要協議參加左至少完成一期課程先再決定會唔會繼續,即便唔鍾意都唔可以上一兩堂就唔玩,而家終於都發覺個女喺運動上先最適合，佢學緊柔道同體操，唔單止學得開心同輕鬆，而且因為喺課外活動上得到滿足感，所以做喺事嚟都有信心！

des1971

其實早年半前已經問過呀仔想唔想學琴, 當時佢答我想, 仲好似好興奮咁, 但諗住等佢大少少先比佢學, 點知前幾日我真係搵咗老師佢竟然話唔想學, 我懷疑佢係因為經常見到姨媽鬧表哥練琴所以驚咗………

kianmama

佢5鐘意, 妳迫佢都學得5好, 浪費金錢外關系都會變差.
記得大囝5歲時, 我好想佢學琴, 但佢5想, 我解釋比佢聽;你未學過點知你5鐘意, 不如你試下先, 如果真的5鐘意, 可以即刻停, 囝囝最後都學左9個月, 同我講, 我真的5想學啦!所以我都5再勉強佢. 或者妳同佢傾吓, 叫佢試吓先.

~QQ~

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