是否都要看功课

siufaizi

有小学小朋友的父母，你们是否都要花时间陪他们做功课？现在的小孩都不能自动自觉吗？
你们每天要花多长时间在他们的功课上呢？

我的儿子现在16个月，我希望开始训练他独立，免得上小学还要每天看功课。没有其他亲子时间。

chuiyeebird

siufaizi,

hmm.....i think u train your kid to be independent doesn't equal to 小孩能自动自觉. You still have to teach him/train him .... how about if he has problem on doing homework, he still need help. If you are full time mummy, you have to follow up his homework rather than let him go himself

winma

我認為教小朋友做功課都可以是亲子时间，又可以知道小孩在學校學了什么，完了功課同佢談吓學校小節....，我就好enjoy同小朋友做功課的時間。我孩子亦不是依賴我才能完成功課哪種，所以我覺得好OK！

Aimee

1.我女小二，我沒有陪她做功課。
2.她算自動自覺，當然間中亦有懶的時候。
3.唔一定，算很少。

happy-girl

小一時我陪她做,可以知道她在學校學了甚麼,又是親子時間,在做功課的時候,可以温習和補充一些學校沒有教的.例如她要抄金句和出處,但又不明白何謂出處,我會拿出聖經,讓她看看金句在哪裡.
不過上了二年級,我沒有和她一起做功課,她也可以自己完成.

G-Ma

我小一開始就無陪佢做功課, 我會要求佢係我放工之前完成哂功課, 有唔明既可以嘗試下做, 我會再同佢一齊review同溫習.  so far佢都可以自己完成功課, 係默書, 測驗要同佢溫.

alicetong

我小朋友到依家小四都有對功課..但聽朋友話錯有得佢錯知道佢唔識d乜野..?? 同佢印象會深刻些 又係道理喎...但我那個寫字草..做事比較粗心..老公都話跟著先好d喎....我諗都係時間要佢學習自理0既時候囉...後果要自負

Nymph_

我個女k1-k2上學期就有睇住做功課,k2下學期開始巳慢慢訓練佢自己做.
依家p.4,放學番到屋企,換衫,跟住自己開枱做功課,有乜野通告,或者有乜野要做,佢會話我知,我唔駛理佢.
呢Ｄ可能我係佢細時幫佢打好咗個基礎.

siufaizi

I think I should use the way to ask him finish all the homework first before I come back from work.  Then check his homework after coming back.  

If he has something he doesn't know how to do, I will let him put the answer first, then discuss with him after coming back.  

I think only this I can spare some time to do things with him other than homework.  

The world has been changed, when we were young, my parents pay no attention at all to our homework.  With our own independence, my brother and I could go to the famous school by ourselves then entered university.  My brother is a Phd graduate as well.   So we thank our parents paying no attention to our school work and let us do what we could.

chuiyeebird

siufaizi,

hopefully, u understand the world is changed. And nowadays kids in between are competitors. They have to work much harder than several years ago. If your kid can finish everything with no mistake without your instruction, then you are lucky. But though you are working mum, i think you still have to follow up with him as what you said. At least you know what is g'ing on when he is school. That's what we call 亲子时间. 亲子时间 doesn't mean you bring him out or play with him only.... STUDY is also important.



由 siufaizi 於 2007-03-02 14:32:05

The world has been changed, when we were young, my parents pay no attention at all to our homework. With our own independence, my brother and I could go to the famous school by ourselves then entered university. My brother is a Phd graduate as well. So we thank our parents paying no attention to our school work and let us do what we could.