多少課外活動給3-5歲小朋友最適宜?

rosemami

我給囡囡如下-



swimming class
Painting class
主日學

遲D比位學普通話!

Diggiewong

if time is allowed, you can give more for your kid such as ballet, piano....

doristsang

my daughter is going to be 6, she is now learing

drawing
ice skating
piano
Kumon Maths
Choir

my son is going to be 4, he is now learing

drawing
ice skating


I think the point is not "how many", but " how approiate"..

chuiyeebird

my daughter is 5.5 now and learning piano, painting & math (chu sum suen) .... hmm, however, i don't agree to let them learn as more as they can but of what they are interested in. The most important they need REST ..... in order to have good performance.   

SPJB

Yes, 最緊要係小朋友鍾意.
My son is nearly 6 years old, he is learning piano, drawing & phonics. Actually I want to let him learn one sport such as 跆拳道, ice skating or swimming but he has tried all 3 but he don't like.
In before, he has learned 珠心算 but stop last month (he has learned 10 months already). Actually I feel a little pity but every time when I ask him to do the homework (do everyday), he always don't wants to do so I will very angry with him. 這樣真的會影響大家的感情, 所以到最後我決定stop, stop後反而令我輕鬆好多.
其實真係要睇個小朋友性格, 有D可以迫但有D唔得(我個仔係唔迫得嗰隻), 所以今年9月讀小一我勁怕佢頂唔順,因而家讀緊間幼稚園比較淺,佢份人成日唔主動學習,每次叫佢溫習都好辛苦, 所以個底唔好.  :cry:

Diggiewong

Hi SPJB,

認同!

我個囡囡又係唔主動學習,今年9月讀小一,我又要返工兼開夜,到時點算?

SPJB

Hi Diggie,

介唔介意話我聽你個女讀邊間幼稚園呀. 我個仔讀靈糧堂(九龍城嗰間)
你邊個小學綱? 我係35.
因仔仔性格問題,所以唔敢揀我原本想揀第一嗰間(馬頭清官小 - Hunghom way),聽聞勁谷,怕佢頂唔順,到時仲幣.我係要返工嗰隻. 而家唸住揀黃埔嗰間聖公會丰基千禧,有無聽過?

D friend 話其實而家開始真係要谷谷佢啦,話哂仲有大半年時間,到時小一先谷黎唔切啦.

我都唔知個仔係唔係有學習問題, D中文字寫黎寫去都唔記得, D英文字串黎串去得個吉. 數學好似好D.
我而家做法係要佢每日除學校功課外要額外寫多一頁中文字(一頁好啦,多D佢都唔肯寫),寫到嗰頁字識默先轉第二D字,希望記得幾多得幾多啦, 好驚第時佢默書默唔出D字到時會好自啤呀!
英文每日早上比一個字個串,夜晚如何識串用notebook記低,第日串第二個字.
淨係咁做個仔巳經好似好辛苦咁,佢都唔知阿媽見到佢咁情況仲辛苦同擔心. 為佢好姐!
我老公成日話順其自然,唔好迫佢,你估我想咩.
有無人D小朋友有咁情況呀,分享吓呀!

Diggiewong

Hi SPJB,

啟思。我係34小學綱。

我都有試過每日比5-6個英文字佢串/中文佢寫,但佢唔合作.....停佐!

我想我教不來,要請補習老師!    +

SPJB

Hi Diggie,

啟思同靈糧堂都係同一類學校,祟尚愉快學習但課程比較淺及功課少,唔知係唔係因為咁出問題呢? 因為本身小朋友唔積極加上學校唔多功課,所以會越來越賴(個人意見only)

我同意如果上了小一後發覺阿仔真係跟唔到我都會請補習老師, 真係慘啦咁快要補習,幾時補到大呀!

你34綱邊間心水學校呀!

doristsang

我個人不太同意請補習老師, 如果自己教得到的話, 因為補習老師很容易會急功近利, 為了討好家長而谷學生, 如果令小朋友從此討厭學習就重慘

Diggiewong

Hi SPJB,

對呀!您的個人意見如同我一樣!!

好煩!唔知點揀!!如有空,請睇Topic of 協恩 vs 聖羅撒。

龍馬媽媽

HI SPJB,

Please check p.m.

Diggiewong

Hi Doristang,

I understood what you mean.  Thanks.

SPJB

Hi 龍馬媽媽,

睇過pm啦, Thank!

可唔可以話比我聽你當時的選校次序呢? Part 1 & 2

chuiyeebird

doristsang,

Hi doris, i totally agree of what you said. Since some of my friend's children attend tutor class before.. but finally she prefer to follow up by herself (she is full time mummy) and has 2 kids... Btw, according to the previous record, students who got outstanding result in school no need to have a tutor but only by him/herself for studying ....even though their parents are full time working people.