點樣令孩子增強自信心?

pangpuiyee

點樣令孩子增強自信心?
我女(3歲, k.1)慢熱, 怕多人.
我有帶佢返playgroup, 但佢都係唔出聲, 唔同人玩.
有無好方法, 或適合的playgroup介紹?
謝謝

siu_miu

Don't worry. My daughter is the same as yours when she was 3 years old. But now she is a primary student and has changed to become more talkative and confident. Of course, she is still quiet when she is with a big crowd.  As I know my daughter is not a quick learner so I made her joined more different classes to meet more new people. First, it could reduce her fearness to the strangers and learned how to get use to the new environments.  Second, she knew more to make herself more confident at school. At home, read more books with her to strenghten her vocabulary. Gradually, you will explore more talents about your daughter and she will have more confidence that she can overcome her stranger difficulties.

laichun1126

可以比佢學下群體活動,ballet課程d朋友仔斯文d,而且對增強自信非常好,連英文都學到,幾好!but要搵啱學校.

fc2004668

多d去公園玩,接觸多d小朋友,玩多d遊戲...例如棋子,跑步等,讓她win多d,自然就會增加自信的.最好參加一吓d興趣班,眼光廣d,自信又大d...俾心機啦 :wink:

vanyau

多啲稱讚她,鼓勵她,這對增加自信很有幫助.

bbdou

我個仔都係屬於較為內向同慢熱的類型，但今年年頭開始學芭蕾舞之後，覺得佢有改善，尤其係暑假時參予咗芭蕾舞學校的表演，之後完全唔同哂，夠膽係好多人面前唱歌，唱完一首仲自己要求再唱一首，好有自信。

laichun1126 寫道:
可以比佢學下群體活動,ballet課程d朋友仔斯文d,而且對增強自信非常好,連英文都學到,幾好!but要搵啱學校.

sherry

vanyau 寫道:
多啲稱讚她,鼓勵她,這對增加自信很有幫助.

完全同意，仲有唔好向小朋友發脾氣，千祈唔好打同鬧，讓小朋友係一個開心嘅環境中成長，自信心就自然會出來。

ang_chiu

bbdou,

我都想比個仔上ballet, 但好似過唔到自己心理覺得男仔學怪怪的.  請問在你決定前是否好似我一樣.  可否share?

Thanks.
Angela

bbdou

咁我又冇喎，當初係我個仔自己要求想跳芭蕾舞，當時我的反應都 "tsat" 咗一 "tsat"，以為係有同學跳，返學校講佢聽到，咁啱我住嗰條街有間芭蕾舞學校，又有得免費試一堂，咁我咪帶佢去試囉，試完問佢開唔開心，想唔想個個星期都來跳，老師教佢，咁佢又話想，我咪俾佢一路跳到宜家囉。其實男仔跳芭蕾舞真係冇野唔好，好多人都覺得會姆姆地，但係其實咁細個，基本上係唔會教太多技巧，主要係訓練小朋友的肌肉活動能力，音感，同埋四肢協調，我覺得好好。唔知你有冇睇過大人的芭蕾舞，我自己好鍾意睇，尤其是睇男舞蹈員，一D都唔會覺得姆，反而我覺得好man添。

ang_chiu 寫道:
bbdou,

我都想比個仔上ballet, 但好似過唔到自己心理覺得男仔學怪怪的.  請問在你決定前是否好似我一樣.  可否share?

Thanks.
Angela