幼兒班番學問題, 幫幫新手媽咪!!

hai

本人女兒今星期開始番學, 頭2日我陪佢佢不知幾開心, 但係由第3日要自己上校車番學.. 就開始有問題啦, 自從自己番學後, 每天都喊又叫唔番學, 最慘既係.. 見到書包同校服都喊.. 又叫唔番學.. 好似有d恐懼症.. 有無邊個家長有經驗可以分享一下.. 我簡直無晒方法..    

Hinbabyma

hai,

Hi! 你好! 聽到你咁講, 覺得你

eqqiqq

I really agree with Hinbabyma's suggestion. My
daughter have studied in nursery for two years.
I go to school with her everyday. Although you
may live far away from school or you need to catch the time to work but your daughter will feel more security. You must aware that she is just a small kid.
She will feel alone and scare in school bus.

chichipa

hai,

My daughter also joint Nursery in Mid August, she cried in the first two weeks and then OK.
Last week, she start to take school bus and cried again, but fortunately she was settled after 4 days.

I think your kid may need to take longer time to familiar with the school life first, before that don't let her to take the school bus. So I suggest you bring her to school yourself for a period of time. If she loves to go to school, the school bus problem may be solved more easy. Moreover, you can directly discuss with the teacher to see if she has other problem at school. The teacher usually can help you a lot.

hai

多謝你地既意見, 我都會再多試一星期, 如果唔得考慮唔坐校車.. 或者轉間近d既學校.. 我都有同老師溝通過, 佢話個個都係咁叫我繼續堅持.. 但係見到佢咁抗拒真係心都痛埋.. 搞到自己都失眠.. 連番工都無咩心機..

sunshine0613

my daughter didn't cry in the past 1+ week school life (most of her classmate cried).  And started have afternoon-sleep since last Friday.   However, she cried this morning when arrived school and not willing to get off from me (cry to say 媽媽抱抱).   :cry:  I want to cry too   (but of course I didn't as understood if I cry, she will cry more).
The teachers & principal said this is very usual and urge us must 硬起心祥。    But need to hold her more and speaking more +ve things while at home.

Murrychan

Hi hai,

如沒有改善,你可以讓他返playgroup先,這可讓他適應學校生活先才轉nursery.

hai

我已經同佢講好多學校開心既野, 佢都好似無反應咁, 呢個星期上校車都好左d.. 有時喊有時唔喊, 但最令我擔心既係.. 佢見到校服同書包已經大叫唔番學.. 朝朝好似同佢打交咁, 但係一上到車又無事.. 真令我煩惱, 都唔知出左d咩問題, 老師都話佢係學校完全係無問題. 早半年前都有番playgroup, 無問題因為有我地陪, 依家無我地係到.. 佢就好有問題.. 好煩, 唔知點解決好.. 再比多d時間佢.. 希望佢可能習慣.. 如果大家有咁既經驗教下我點解決.. !!

lam0903

hello hai,

我囡囡又是上星期開始返n1, 9月剛足 2 years, 今星期喊足五日, 我都好無奈. 老師話她只哭一會兒, 只有當老師要她吃飯, 要她守秩序時便哭要找媽媽, 現在尚待進步. :cry:

Murrychan

Hai,

會不會是他太夜訓,所以唔想太早起身返學,你可以轉番在你
家附近的kindergarten先,下年K1才轉其他別區的kindergarten 或者轉下午班.

hai

佢已經好早訓, 9點就訓左.. 足足兩星期, 都幾煩!

Murrychan

你可以睇下前/後的Topic,有些媽咪意見是很好的.而我的意見是她末訓醒,你可以叫她早些睡覺(通常要睡10-12小時),然後你早些帶她返學校,在校門外看見其他小朋友高興地和父毌bye-bye後,我想這樣是有幫助的.

Murrychan

Hai, 你可以去以下Topic睇睇,

Re: 仔仔返學唔開心，點算好?  

Misskindy 講得幾好,可參考.

Marcus媽

我囝囝都8月剛剛入n1, 開頭都係咁成日喊，見到校服同書包都喊，不過老師同我講佢返學冇嘢woh...我諗d小朋友係唔鐘意同父母分離ge，依家差唔多返左個半月了，我個囝都不知幾鐘意返學了，每個小朋友適應能力都唔同，但做父母千奇唔好放棄唔俾佢地返學呀!努力! 我都係覺得俾小朋友早d訓，睇下會唔會好d!