如何處理小朋友被老師打

yklwhs

本人懷疑小朋友被幼兒園老師打，投訴園方仍未得結果，如何是好。小朋友是就讀於市區xx地一間名校。

馬媽媽

Please advise the details. Have you discussed with the Principal?

yklwhs

當然有，但校長只表示老師已否認，也不回應家長會如何跟進。

GDC

有冇表面傷痕?  有乜原因令你懷疑?

yklwhs

初時以為是小朋友不小心，或與同學爭執，直至和他玩role play才發現事不尋常。

馬媽媽

As we do not know the details, it is difficult to understand the whole situation. Sometimes, children do not know what are really going on and they may imagine something. For example, my daughter also said that she was beaten by some other classmates. But in fact, she did not adapt to the new environment and she cannot express what is really going on. She was only not happy at that time. Therefore, it depends on how old is your children. If your children is old enough, then their expression is more believable.

Have you asked the situations from other teachers? Usually, they will have more than one teacher in the same class at the same time.

For your case, you may make an appointment with the Principal and the teacher to understand the real situations and to let them know your concern. If you still do not satisfy with them, you may continue to purse to their headquarter which is located just right above the nursery.

racar

從roleplay中,你點知小朋友有可能被老師打?

yklwhs

多謝建議,家長其實已做了該些建議,結果得到前述的答覆。
小朋友從不喜歡說學校情況,但不時有傷痕出現。家長從不懷疑老師,用role play由他扮老師,家長做學生,只想了解多些在校情況,出人意外,他竟然作出兇惡的行為,如打學生咀。家長於是連番引導查問,才得知多些內情(在此不詳述)。
家長為求真相,請了另一位同校的家長查他的小朋友,結果也令人驚訝,小朋友每被問到老師如何待他,就閉口不說,叫父母不要再問他。
於是請較一位很出名的兒童心理專家,他表示一個4歲的小孩,絕不會嘵得如此具體編寫故事,應相信小朋友所的說。

丸媽媽

希望該校校長能積極面對及解決這件事

cway

yklwhs,

如果係咁, 我一定會約見校長&老師查清楚, 一定唔可以由得件事發生左, 小朋友比左你知, 你都唔幫佢, 佢仲可以夠邊個喎, right  

C-PA

有冇考慮過報警?

yklwhs

家長考慮小朋友會面對壓力,及根本不是想報復要老師坐監,只希望有關方面能真正做些保障小朋友們的事(包括現存及未來升班的)。家長已經見過校長、有關老師及校長的上司,但有關方面的態度令人懷疑及失望。至今仍未收到他們的回覆,也未有任何關心小朋友的慰問。

校長也指示家長不用為小朋友驗傷及看心理醫,隨著時間過去,小朋友會很快忘記不愉快的事,你們認為他的說話恰當嗎?

loklok0104

如果係我, 我一定唔會諗咁多野, 一於同個小朋友轉校! :-x

馬媽媽

Have you written to them or just report verbally? I think that you are better write to them so that they will follow up your case formally. Besides, they would write back. And, you can request the assistance from the parent-teacher association.

Will you consider to study in another school?

yklwhs

其實家長已用書面形投訴及CC了給總部

小朋友已轉校了，比以前開心很多，鄰居也說他判若兩人

家長會唔認為有什麼事可做，因他們的小朋友表現無問題，以他們的身份，其小朋友會被特別看待也不出奇。但作為家長會成員應為所有家長爭取多些知情權益，無論當時有多少個家長受影響。

lunchtime4000

First teach the kid to be good kid sin.  

kennischow

[quote]
馬媽媽 寫道:
Have you written to them or just report verbally? I think that you are better write to them so that they will follow up your case formally. Besides, they would write back. And, you can request the assistance from the parent-teacher association.

除了寫信給有關的學校外,應cc多份給教統局(如果可以附加一份心理醫生的report講明小朋友在當中受到到什麼影響),看他們會不會正面回應!!!! :tongue:
免得再有同樣的事件發生,影響其他小朋友!!!!

shirley_diamond

你小朋友幾大? 小朋友有時講的未必可信!! 況且而家邊度會有老師打小朋友

Marcus媽

我都想知，邊間學校。

traceysm

”校長也指示家長不用為小朋友驗傷及看心理醫,隨著時間過去,小朋友會很快忘記不愉快的事,你們認為他的說話恰當嗎?”

個校長咁講咪即係認咗？！