頻頻撲撲,為乜?

benmack

很多沒結婚或沒有小孩的朋友問, 點解要咁頻撲, 點解要要咁樣去申請小學, 有必要嗎?? 有時我都唔知要點答. 因本人在一年前都覺得唔使咁呀嗎..但一到了七月, 身不由己咁趺入鴻流...做profile, 上web 找资料, 在bk 左問右問咁. 愈看得多愈心驚..愈要求高..愈擔心..簡直有種愈踏愈深連自己都lost 埋的感覺..再跟朋友傾計, 都說我們以前父母怎會做咁多..找一間最近屋企的.讀得好唔好都系靠自己. 那裡有說什麼教改等. 有時都是要放開點.平常心.咁孩子亦有得著.知道成功與失敗都是人生經驗. 今次唔得就下次lor.最緊要系童年應該是開心的及無優無慮.

Mrssslui

其實上bk多,睇得多,知得多係好好,好多人都 provide different info.但如果睇到自己都唔知點,被人影響到,又成日比較,咁就要.....
有些人考學校,知道邊間學校適合自己個小朋友,知道自己既target,唔係盲從.
但也有些人都唔知為咩,只係人考我考,搞到冇晒目標,好 lose,最後身心驅疲.

HuiTung

Agree with Mrssslui.

頻撲, 是因為很多學校的面試日期相近 (因報得太多)?

頻撲, 是因為唔知那間合自己的子女, 人云亦云, 胡亂報一大堆?

頻撲, 是因為想魚翁撒網?

不能認清學校理念及要求, 子女能力, "自己既target", 最終只有"頻撲"!   

JanWong

Agree with you.  I believe the most 身心驅疲 one is your son/daughter.  Why sent them for so many interviews?  They are only 5-6 years old kids.  Too much pressure for them!

Mrssslui 寫道:
其實上bk多,睇得多,知得多係好好,好多人都 provide different info.但如果睇到自己都唔知點,被人影響到,又成日比較,咁就要.....
有些人考學校,知道邊間學校適合自己個小朋友,知道自己既target,唔係盲從.
但也有些人都唔知為咩,只係人考我考,搞到冇晒目標,好 lose,最後身心驅疲.

TWMa

怎樣定義報得太多? 對DBSPD 充滿信心, 所以不應再去 SFA、KPS 或者是陳守仁 Second in? 還是 in DBSPD 機會小, 所以應該 "退而求其次", 在其他私小或直資小學中選一間 in 就好?
其他小學是否真的就比 in DBSPD 容易? 機會大點? 這幾間學校的理念和要求差多少? 不魚翁撒網, 只替子女選了一間見, 落選了, 怪不怪自己連個機會也不給孩子去試?
誰不望子女成龍成鳳? 姑且不論替子女舖的路別人認不認同, "頻撲" 背後我看到的是可憐天下父母心.

麟媽媽

真的天下父母心…..
今天的頻頻撲撲令你很勞累，
他日上了小學的日子還有很長！
唉~~只怕將來會更勞更累，
但願孩子們都會明白父母的一片苦心。

HuiTung

TWMa 寫道:
怎樣定義報得太多? 對DBSPD 充滿信心, 所以不應再去 SFA、KPS 或者是陳守仁 Second in? 還是 in DBSPD 機會小, 所以應該 "退而求其次", 在其他私小或直資小學中選一間 in 就好?
其他小學是否真的就比 in DBSPD 容易? 機會大點? 這幾間學校的理念和要求差多少? 不魚翁撒網, 只替子女選了一間見, 落選了, 怪不怪自己連個機會也不給孩子去試?
誰不望子女成龍成鳳? 姑且不論替子女舖的路別人認不認同, "頻撲" 背後我看到的是可憐天下父母心.

呢D野自己定啦!   

Mrssslui

你有明確目標,interview 完都唔會呻既,好開心去玩呢個遊戲既,又願意接受人地既遊戲規則既,咁咪冇問題囉!
但太多家長都呻呢樣個樣,'頻頻撲撲,為乜?',其實佢地應該一早預咗啦!

TWMa 寫道:
怎樣定義報得太多? 對DBSPD 充滿信心, 所以不應再去 SFA、KPS 或者是陳守仁 Second in? 還是 in DBSPD 機會小, 所以應該 "退而求其次", 在其他私小或直資小學中選一間 in 就好?
其他小學是否真的就比 in DBSPD 容易? 機會大點? 這幾間學校的理念和要求差多少? 不魚翁撒網, 只替子女選了一間見, 落選了, 怪不怪自己連個機會也不給孩子去試?
誰不望子女成龍成鳳? 姑且不論替子女舖的路別人認不認同, "頻撲" 背後我看到的是可憐天下父母心.

benmack

最重要是how much you and your child can afford..每個家庭都有唔同承受壓力的能力..不過就真的要量力而為..

Mrssslui

係呀!好多人都好鍾意特登去玩,試下小朋友實力架!如果佢地得又咁開心,唔得又咁開心,咪Ok囉!

benmack 寫道:
最重要是how much you and your child can afford..每個家庭都有唔同承受壓力的能力..不過就真的要量力而為..

judy

你有明確目標,interview 完都唔會呻既,好開心去玩呢個遊戲既,又願意接受人地既遊戲規則既,咁咪冇問題囉!
但太多家長都呻呢樣個樣,'頻頻撲撲,為乜?',其實佢地應該一早預咗啦!

'頻頻撲撲,為乜?'，呢的係文藝腔，人，唔呻係會死嘅。

如果冇得選擇，嘈得仲紧要。

可憐天下父母心，既要頻頻撲撲為孩子，頻撲完，懂反省，懂自責，懂呻，身心都會健康的。

為這幾天頻頻撲撲的父母鼓掌

  

HuiTung

小學未輪到我玩.  但回想考幼稚園又有d同感, 當知道SC & Kentville 都收阿仔時, 己經唔想考培正, 不過hubby 話考埋. 當日阿仔一身sports wear, 我地又好輕鬆咁去.  又比佢考倒上午班wor!  所以平常心啦!

appleapple

喇沙? It is impossible.

daisysyc 寫道:
我去年跟你們一樣, 十分緊張, 都是想為自己的子女入一間好的小學. 我也報了多間私校及直資學校, 最後順順利利考了一間心儀的學校. 但也是值得.

最近媽媽會聚會, 聽了其實到了六月,機會都會很大, 只要你肯叩門, 很多學校還有位, 她們都能成功入到如英華, 喇沙, 陳守仁..(不知如何選????)

所以不要灰心, 繼續努力!

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CD

agreed

appleapple 寫道:
喇沙? It is impossible.




[quote]
daisysyc 寫道:
我去年跟你們一樣, 十分緊張, 都是想為自己的子女入一間好的小學. 我也報了多間私校及直資學校, 最後順順利利考了一間心儀的學校. 但也是值得.

最近媽媽會聚會, 聽了其實到了六月,機會都會很大, 只要你肯叩門, 很多學校還有位, 她們都能成功入到如英華, 喇沙, 陳守仁..(不知如何選????)

所以不要灰心, 繼續努力!

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TiffanysDaddy

[quote]
judy 寫道:
[quote]你有明確目標,interview 完都唔會呻既,好開心去玩呢個遊戲既,又願意接受人地既遊戲規則既,咁咪冇問題囉!
但太多家長都呻呢樣個樣,'頻頻撲撲,為乜?',其實佢地應該一早預

st.bintai

傻傻地 !

如果個 TOPIC 係 : " 今晚 5 仟萬金多寶 ..周圍排隊, 為乜 ? "

你估你對自己所留言會唔會唔同呢 ? 點解呢可...

GOGOLETSGO

非常同意    [quote]
Mrssslui 寫道:
你有明確目標,interview 完都唔會呻既,好開心去玩呢個遊戲既,又願意接受人地既遊戲規則既,咁咪冇問題囉!
但太多家長都呻呢樣個樣,'頻頻撲撲,為乜?',其實佢地應該一早預咗啦!

Mrssslui

I don't understand.
Pls explain.

st.bintai 寫道:
傻傻地 !

如果個 TOPIC 係 : " 今晚 5 仟萬金多寶 ..周圍排隊, 為乜 ? "

你估你對自己所留言會唔會唔同呢 ? 點解呢可...

warrrren

Dear parents,

I had dinner with a friend a few days ago who is teaching at a very popular DSS boys' schools.  He had spent the whole day interviewing P1 applicants and looked tired.  It was the first time he got involved in the interview process, which did not turn out to be a very pleasant experience for him. "Quite a number of parents treat their boys like slaves," he said, "and the boys are just like robots.  They can repeat a long poem in English but have no idea what it means and don't know what to say when asked, "How are you doing today?"  It was obvious to him that the boys had been made to go through the special training that one of those playgroup factories offered. He felt bad that the kids had been subjected to so much pressure.  He did not say so but I could tell from his tone that he was less inclined to recommend the school to offer a place to one of those boys, for no fault of the boys though.  I do not know whether other teachers think in the same way he does, but, mind you, some teachers out there do not care how many awards a 5-year-old has obtained, and may tend to think that those parents who are keen on Kumon and interview classes belong to the "have no idea" group.  I personally find it sad that there appears to be a widespread fear among some parents, a fear that they try to overcome by making their kids attending as many classes and completing as many work sheets as possible.  Parents should really sit back and relax.  Not getting into one of those "elite" schools is not the end of world.  Getting yourself and your kids exhausted at such an early time will serve no good purposes.  The primary school years are extremely important - not that the kids must learn this and that and achieve certain standard by a given time, but that they be allowed to let the little genius inside them thrive, and not be robbed of their interest in learning and curiosity in life.  There are winners and losers in good schools, and in bad schools too.  It is the parents, not the schools that make the most crucial difference.  

Regards,
Warrrren

JanWong

Fantastic!

The overall development of a child's mentality and personality is far more important than academic training at this point of time.