返幼兒園每天都哭

曦曦媽媽

我的仔仔(今年2歲4個月)返了幼兒園已經第三週, 第一週可由家長陪同(沒有哭,玩玩具很開心,不想離開學校),第二週開始只可以陪至食完早餐家長就要離開, 他就開始哭,鬧著要走.

直至昨晚2AM, 他竟然在夢裹說"我要走,攞書包走", 為什麼會這樣說, 是否缺乏安全感, 對學校冇歸屬感.

請問各位家長有何看法/意見?

fatty126

曦曦媽媽

Don't worry, my boy went to N1 for almost 3 weeks la, and each week he got sick (either sore throat or fever :cry: ) and first week he is so enjoy with his school life and start crying from 2nd week.

Each morning when I sent him to nursery, he stick on me just like a kola bear.  I talked to his class master and find out he is okay when I am not there.  I therefore start to sing him the songs he learn at school each nite before he sleep and reminding him Ms. Ma and his friends are waiting for him next morning to have fun.

Gradually, he accept he will have to be in school each day.  This is his third week, each morning he is still crying but when he arrive school seeing his teachers and other friends, he can clam down and see me leaving quietly.

This is transition period and you need time for your baby and yourself to adapt.  I admit when I saw him cry I didn't felt good but his teachers told me this is the "MUST" process.  Take it easy and your baby won't cry that much.

Wishing your baby a happy nursey life!!

MyBaby2003

If he even said that in his dreams, he may not be enjoying the school so far. You should talk to him more and see why he doesn't want to go. Is it just he misses you or sth else? All my friends told me the same story, some will get used to this after a few days but some don't, may take a month or so. That is why I send my BB to some type of playgroup now before he really starts school.

swyip

曦曦媽:
你 小朋友的表現屬正常反應,不竟他只是二歲的[人仔],但個人經驗,家長必需準時接他放學,因這樣可建立他的安全感,例如午餐後放學,必需讓他知道吃完飯後媽媽便會出現.此外,在家裹利用公仔進行角色扮演遊戲,從遊戲中讓他知道媽媽會於放學時接回BB的.故事形式表達亦是不錯的方法,如幼兒語言表達好的話,當中你可能洞悉他的想法或不安的源頭而加以輔導.只要耐心與他一起過渡此階段,必定成功的,以上少少分享,希望可幫到你,努力呀!

swyip

曦曦媽:
你 小朋友的表現屬正常反應,不竟他只是二歲的[人仔],但個人經驗,家長必需準時接他放學,因這樣可建立他的安全感,例如午餐後放學,必需讓他知道吃完飯後媽媽便會出現.此外,在家裹利用公仔進行角色扮演遊戲,從遊戲中讓他知道媽媽會於放學時接回BB的.故事形式表達亦是不錯的方法,如幼兒語言表達好的話,當中你可能洞悉他的想法或不安的源頭而加以輔導.只要耐心與他一起過渡此階段,必定成功的,以上少少分享,希望可幫到你,努力呀!

swyip

曦曦媽:
你 小朋友的表現屬正常反應,不竟他只是二歲的[人仔],但個人經驗,家長必需準時接他放學,因這樣可建立他的安全感,例如午餐後放學,必需讓他知道吃完飯後媽媽便會出現.此外,在家裹利用公仔進行角色扮演遊戲,從遊戲中讓他知道媽媽會於放學時接回BB的.故事形式表達亦是不錯的方法,如幼兒語言表達好的話,當中你可能洞悉他的想法或不安的源頭而加以輔導.只要耐心與他一起過渡此階段,必定成功的,以上少少分享,希望可幫到你,努力呀!

QUINCY121HK

曦曦媽媽,
小朋友喊係正常,我亞老二都喊左2年啦,反而老三喊左7天就無事啦,其實每個小朋友適應學校生活的時間各有不同,不過你要留意下小朋友適應有問題定其他小朋友虾佢.

CLI

I agree with 曦曦媽, give BB more 安全感. I usually ask BB what she did at school, what is the classmates' names, etc, show her you are very interested about her school day and sharing with her. I hope BB would soon realize going school is fun and can share many topics to mommy when go home!

akycheung

My bb also dream to be at school in midnight, but he is happy and say good morning to his teachers and students and said hurry don't be late to school.  He has been in N1 for 1.5 months la. :