想報"維多利亞幼兒園",不如入黎分享下

03baby

any one interested to join pta commitee? need to write 100 words for approval  

tuenyima

早晨咁多位:

我尋晚去咗TA攪的seminar,係講小朋友AQ(逆境商數)o既,內容其實都係老生常談,個個人都知,但做唔做到係另一回事,我冇聽晒就走咗,因為bun bun話亞女唔多舒服,所以想早d返去睇吓個女.

另外有d家長好唔識做,人地話明個talk講完會有自由發問時間,但人地講講吓竟然有家長舉手問佢自己孩子o既問題,阻住晒!個講者又冇理由唔答o架嘛!

主講o個位幾風趣幽默,冇乜悶場,好識攪氣氛,如果下次有機會再聽佢講,我都會再去.

loklokc

03baby

OIC!

I think your kid's class will have a steady English teacher in Sep.  They will come back after summer vacation.

Good luck  

loklokc

jo2002

hi, 03baby

our kids share the same classroom, but he is in PM class room 205 in HH campus... nice to meet you here.

ya , i agree the english teacher Mxxxca is not very agreesive and enthusiastic, just be quite only? ? ?   heard that our english teache will be a man, dont know my son will get along with him or not, coz  even playgroup he joined  also ladies teachers.

jo2002

thanks for sharing, tuenyima...

so what is the main point they said in the seminar ? alot of parents attended last night?

tuenyima

jo2002:

主題係"樂觀小天使", 主要係教點樣幫孩子宣洩情緒,提高抗逆能力,如何在不如意事情中啟發孩子向好方面想.

loklokc

各位媽咪

請指教怎樣教阿仔返學前去大大?  因為今日老師同工人咁講,   但阿仔小便都未OK. 去大大又唔定時  好煩惱.

老師咁講, 好似好麻煩佢咁, 我咁早要佢入學, 想佢學埋自理聽到有小小唔開心.:cry:   有無好橋?

loklokc



:cry:

brendamom

why????  Your son poo poo in classroom today????  Why teacher said that?????  Have you helped your son to use diaper when he went to school???

My children also studied in Victoria PN class.  

Don't cry, you have maid at home, may be you can ask your maid not use the diaper with you son when he is stayed at home.

loklokc 寫道:
各位媽咪

請指教怎樣教阿仔返學前去大大?  因為今日老師同工人咁講,   但阿仔小便都未OK. 去大大又唔定時  好煩惱.

老師咁講, 好似好麻煩佢咁, 我咁早要佢入學, 想佢學埋自理聽到有小小唔開心.:cry:   有無好橋?

loklokc



:cry:

loklokc

Brendamon

Thx for your consolation.  My son wears diaper.   Not poo poo in classroom.  May be the teacher/ helper does not want to change diaper with him la.


At home, we do not let him wear diaper.  We are training him to vv.  Not successful everytime. Not yet start to train him to poo poo as he rejects to do so.

loklokc

brendamom

oh, don't give up, i trained my children over a month!!!  They will eventually pick up the skills, don't worry.  

Yes, today I asked my children form teacher, she also said if the children wear diaper, the cleaning lady not help them to change, if your children wear under, then the lady will help them to go to vv.  So, start from next week, my children won't wear diaper anymore, let the cleaning lady to clean lor , otherwise, my children cannot pick up the skill anymore.........

loklokc 寫道:
Brendamon

Thx for your consolation.  My son wears diaper.   Not poo poo in classroom.  May be the teacher/ helper does not want to change diaper with him la.

At home, we do not let him wear diaper.  We are training him to vv.  Not successful everytime. Not yet start to train him to poo poo as he rejects to do so.

loklokc

03baby

tuenyima, thx for the info about the talk.

jamiemum

tuenyima,

唔駛太担心, 我囡囡嗰班都有小朋友喊, 所以都有兩三個要媽咪或姐姐陪, 好快就ok啦, 加油呀! 原先我都攞咗ticket去聽噚日個talk, 但臨時我奶奶叫返屋企做節, 所以absent咗! 我都有join PTA committee, 都係無join member, 因為我要返工, 驚住有啲時間配合唔到! 希望在出席 PTA committee 的活動時可以見到你啦!

tuenyima

jamiemum:

多謝你的鼓勵呀!

我剛剛同亞女班主任Miss Wong傾過,佢話我個女今日好咗d,雖然都有喊,但冇之前兩日喊得咁激烈,亦冇話眼淚大大滴,老師都可以氹到佢,Miss Wong又話亞女好叻,主動同老師講話去wee wee,同埋亞女今日肯玩咗,Miss Wong話佢今日自己做咗d勞作o添!

jo2002

wah......... today received the notice that the school fees rise to $3890 in HH , how about others campus? same?? too bad hope they really mean what they mention in the notice...     

jo2002

tuenyima

thanks for sharing, so how to 幫孩子宣洩情緒? let him/her cry ?
and how about 提高抗逆能力 ? can u give some example?

tuenyima 寫道:
jo2002:

主題係"樂觀小天使", 主要係教點樣幫孩子宣洩情緒,提高抗逆能力,如何在不如意事情中啟發孩子向好方面想.

tuenyima

jo2002:

唔好意思,份notes擺咗o係屋企,我依家o係公司,今晚我再post上o黎分享吓.

jo2002

03baby

why requesting someone else for the english teacher? u mean ms Fu request?

i dislike most is the Mxxxxx, second is Ms Fu, she doesn't talk much to parents, unless u ask her, and  she even "chet" me. (少少諷刺咁！) Ms Chan is Ok to me, although she is a bit 扮野！but i can see kids like her coz she act like cartoon sometimes. compare to Ms Fu, more 嚴肅。just my point of view.

actually i talk more with the teacher and my son like most is Ms Liu- she is taiwanese, unfortunately she come for helping 2 weeks only, coz K2 still holidays. she tell me she will not help start next week. too bad, my son just like to hold her hands and start from the 3rd day, he always said MS Liu is his best friend.  

u dislike Ms Chan ? why ?

jo2002

無問題，你慢慢… 都唔急！想八下姐…

tuenyima 寫道:
jo2002:

唔好意思,份notes擺咗o係屋企,我依家o係公司,今晚我再post上o黎分享吓.

jasonBB

嗨! 我是新来的,我阿仔13個月,想报何文田的playgroup,有妈妈在何文田读

tuenyima

jo2002:

以下係尋晚seminar講義的一部份,不妨參考下:

人面對逆境通常會:
1. 追究責任
2. 逃避
3. 埋怨
4. 沮喪
5. 阿Q精神
6. 積極面對及解決

抗逆力高的人會:
1. 視困難為挑戰,勇於面對,尋找不同方法解決問題
2. 看問題傾向樂觀 - 相信失敗及挫折是"個別"和"短暫",且若自己努力是有轉機的
3. 告訴自己可以從經驗中學習

AQ高的人的思維及語言:
"我當時未盡全力"
"我狀態不好"
"我一時失手"
"我一時不好彩"
"這並非我的專長"
"一次失敗不代表什麼,只要自己努力,一定可以取得好成績"

抗逆力低的人會:
1. 遇到困難,挫折,容易放棄
2. 將所有問題"攬上身"
3. 認為資質並非容易改變
4. 將壞事情看成永久性
5. 睇自己的問題是"絕症",冇得改變
6. 看問題傾向悲觀

AQ低的人的思維及語言
"我條命生得唔好"
"我背景差"
"所有人都唔鐘意我,睇低我"
"我無用!" "我資質唔好"
"今日唔掂,將來都唔會掂"
"人地都做唔到,我點會做到"

孩子眼中的逆境:
1.  家庭方面: 被爸媽責罵/得不到想要的東西/父母不和/小弟妹出世/搬家/父母常將他與人比較/兄弟姊妹爭吵

2.  學校及人際關係方面:初入學,初轉校,面對陌生環境/學習一種新的技能/功課壓力/被同伴排斥或取笑/被老師罰/同輩比自己優勝

3.  個人方面: 身體不適,無法出席好友的生日會/被要求做一些未達其發展階段的事情/面對某些令其害怕的事情或物件/沒有機會做一些發揮潛能皈興趣的事/患有嚴重或長期病患

孩子面對逆境的警號: 胃口轉差或不停地進食,不能好好地睡,專注力減弱,對事物失去興趣

培養孩子5種遠離悲傷的能力:
1. 培養自我認識的能力,了解自身特點
2. 培養良好人際交往能力,學會傾聽和表達
3. 認識情緒,培養緩解壓力的能力
4. 理解及支持他人,培養設身處地的思考能力
5. 培養應對能力,有效解決問題

I. 家長的角色
1. 明白子女感受 - 同理心聆聽
2. 減少孩子壓力 - 勿責備,盤問或教訓
3. 父母支持有助子女抒發情緒 - 將負面情緒轉化為積極動力


........待續