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Jane,
I am not a saint mom. I am a tiger mom indeed. All you and other parents are struggling and doubting. I did get through it. It was shameful, painful , doubtful and joyful all mixed up. And I am still struggling and anxious in new things and challenges that I don't understand everyday. To relieve my insecure and doubts, I read a lot , seek for mentors, observe people, think deeply, see friends with similar value for supporting each other.
Sometimes I find EK is too noisy and negative with a lot of not very true and not helpful information that would decline our spirits finally. When the first time I came here, my daughter was about 12 yrs old that her most habbits (good or bad) was developed. The information here was not much useful for me. I am not sure why I come here when the input is tiny to grow myself and my now nearly adult daughter, I don't need a status here obviously. Perhaps my mind is overflowed with useful and not useful knowledges and passion. If not leaking it out for sharing , it is harmful to my health.
Anyway, I hope we parents keep seeing and working the life in postive way, honest way. Maybe come to EK less is a better decision too.
P.S. there is a theory of 33% Law. We know it early and expand the circle.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7bB_fVDlvhc
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