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本帖最後由 elmostoney 於 14-11-11 12:52 編輯
我唔明點解大家硬係覺得呢度有其他意見的家長係講緊考試呀, 分數呢d, 我ar哂頭. 因為我個女間學校都冇考試的, 佢地學校係由一個esf 資深任教20+年老師set up, 好多模式跟esf都類似, 但係佢當時針對係esf見到的問題, 嘗試係新校盡量避免. 我當時唔明點解佢成日同我咁講, 佢地所有的錢, 盡量係分毫都用係學生到,而家睇返轉頭, 我個仔都係esf, 我先明, 因為佢個人經歷, 所以有另一番體會.
我以math做例子, 係因為呢個係好黑白, 唔同教英文. 我問細仔, 老師教math情況, 佢話通常最多教兩次, 如果做落唔識就叫佢地問其他同學, 再唔識先問老師. 但我個女個班, 佢話老師教一次, 做, 有人唔明, 唔明就再教唔明個班人, 再做, 再唔明, (呢班人應會一路縮少), 就再抽唔明班人教. 雖然唔保證可一路教落去, 但老師係會重複咁教, 起碼大部份人會明, 真係再唔明, 先睇情況點處理, 當然佢地一樣有分level (15人分3 level). 有時都要alert家長幫手係屋企睇下.
至於不停講到我呢類家長要點操練d仔女, well, a disappointment for you guys. 我地只補中文, 亦從不要求子女參加任何比賽攞獎呢d事, 如果要參加, 都要佢地自願. 我個女學樂器,係今年自己要求, 每日只練5分鐘咁大把. I don't expect the school to do magic, but I do think the school can do a bit more than now. The difference I see between the 2 schools are, teachers are much more hands on and involved in my daughter's school, while in ESF, the case is quite the opposite. I agree that parents need to be involved if you want your children to do better, BUT I also think the teachers need to be more involved as well. I have to constantly do follow up with my son, while I don't have to with my daughter. And I know my children's calibre - my son is more focused and smarter than my daughter. In fact, my son's Y2 teacher quite liked him because he was never a trouble maker - less for the teacher's already filled hands. My daughter's Y1 teacher almost thought she had ADD, and for my daughter to attain the present level is quite impressive (BTW, when she transferred to ESF at the beginning of Y3 (only stayed 2.5 months before transferring back to her present school), her reading level was assessed by ESF as 1 term above their required average).
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