好煩...點算?

Sheila

我個仔下學期開始好似洩晒氣咁，四月頭就考第二次呈分試，但係佢農曆假後，欠交了六次功課，中文、英文、SCIENCE默書次次唔合格，前日默的英文得12分，我好擔心呀！點算！

諗過請一個月假，直至佢考完試為止，但係我又得番幾日假，唔通要攞no pay leave，冇人工出都唔緊要，但係Ｄ工作唔知點安排呢？好煩呀．．．

:cry:  :cry:  :cry:  :cry:  :cry:  :cry:  :cry:

Sheila

CCM

Sheila

I am having same problem with my girl - she will be taking her 1st 呈分試.....      :cry:  :cry:  :cry:

Is your son too over-worked?  Or pressurised?   My girl always claimed that I give her too much pressure but still no results to show me even if I let her revise at her own pace..........        

BIG HEADACHE!

DoReMi媽媽

Sheila

點解囝囝默書會咁o既? 係咪unseen dictation, 如果唔係, 就可能冇乜心機温書噃. 平時你返咗工有冇人睇住佢温書o架? 純粹個人意見, 如果份工可以安排到人幫手, 我會請假幫囝囝温書, 點都同佢捱埋呢個報分試, 得唔得都好, 起碼盡咗我o既能力.

hotdogpapa

如果係偶然失手...不需要太緊張！
如果由高處下滑...要花時間了解！

哈里波特

講真, 自從小女去左補習, 我都無理佢, 只係安排日常生活鎖事, 已夠煩了.

同埋, 男仔同女仔唔同, 要佢識"林", 思想教育最重要, 狡掂思想, 就狡掂成績啦!

GreyParrot

你個仔平時成績點架？ 你無每日簽手冊咩，點解會欠交咁多功課？  冰封三尺非一日之寒，佢會唔會係根本唔明，唔識做又無人問，久而久之就變得無心機gar la。  高年班要讀ge野多左又深左，唔可以堆埋考試臨急抱佛腳。

Sheila

好多謝大家的關心!

我每天都會check佢功課, 但係佢抄漏(唔知係咪故意), 我都耐佢唔何! 平日由老人家湊, 即係無皇管, 兩個老人家話佢唔聽, 佢成日掛住睇電視, 雖然我一日幾call都冇用, 佢一味話做緊做緊, 但次次我放工返到去, 佢都重係做緊, 得果三幾樣功課都做到11點, 又點有時間溫書呢? 默書成績又點會好? 唯有成日講道理, 講完果排好少少, 之後又故態復萌, 真係心灰意冷!

至於成績方面, 佢考試前我通常會放假幫佢溫書, 所以成績都不太差, 係band 1 尾, 佢恃住平時默書唔駛計分落成績表, 佢重反而問我駛乜咁緊張, 總之俾佢吹到啤啤聲!

我D朋友叫我睇開D, 因為呢D問題唔可以短時間解決, 惟有慢慢黎, 反正佢都有間心儀的私校收左, 叫我唔好俾自己咁大壓力喎!   

tkkmama

Sheila:

係米間中既問題乍??定係長期都係咁呢??要提醒下佢啦,上到中學乜都要靠自己架,如果係長期問題要改架啦.

另外,你有冇俾佢知道有中學收左佢呀??

WYmom

Are you still hiding the fact of his result of applying the private school he likes?  Maybe this is the reason causing him to lose interest in his study.  I still think that he has the right to know that he is already accepted by the school he favoured.

KWT

Sheila,

我個仔踏入2005年,不知道為什麼變得很沒有記性.舉例如中文背默,他說自己明明背得很熟,但默書時偏偏忘記一兩句,當默書簿還在傳出去未到老師手上,他又記起那些句子.以前從沒有發生這些事,他問我怎麼辦,我只有叫他放鬆.可能壓力問題,但自問沒有給壓力他,難道潛意識.....,我想學習總有高低期,若低期時正值呈分試,真無奈.

hotdogpapa

KWT：

早知當日“去馬”而家就唔使咁煩！

KWT

hotdogpapa,

其實很有悔不當初的感覺,不過,人總要向前望,希望明天會更好.一於"大家好",七月齊齊聽到好消息.

Sheila

Are you still hiding the fact of his result of applying the private school he likes? Maybe this is the reason causing him to lose interest in his study. I still think that he has the right to know that he is already accepted by the school he favoured.

佢知道有中學收佢, 我反而認為佢因此而坐定笠六,本pair晒! 不過班主任,我同我老公都同佢傾過,又加少少獎勵(打機),佢arm arm嘅中文默書又升返上87分,Science重100分添,真係俾佢激到啤啤聲!

kwt,有時小朋友會臨時失場,好似發台瘟咁!不過撞arm呈分試黎發台瘟都慘D, 我個仔考試前重會病添!

悔不當初...我唯一悔的就係唔可以一手一腳湊大自己個仔,要交俾老人家湊,現在只恨回頭太難,也恨得太晚!

sheila

DoReMi媽媽

悔不當初...我唯一悔的就係唔可以一手一腳湊大自己個仔,要交俾老人家湊,現在只恨回頭太難,也恨得太晚!
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Sheila

唔好咁啦! 每個人都有自己o既talent, 有自己頭上o既一片天空, 讀到書只係將來o既路會行得平坦啲, 但唔表示讀書冇咁出色o既人會冇出頭, 只係佢哋o既成功要經過磨練同努力. 俾啲信心自己同囝囝, 唔好灰心呀!  總之~ 加油!