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留位超過5間小學, 是什麼心理?   [複製鏈接]


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bcw 發表於 12-12-10 11:49
一講呢啲題目大家就好似當人家殺父仇人咁,但你有無諗過學校本身都超收?
呢度有三四個家長話已放其中一間小 ...
或者只能夠話你無同理心, 唔知人地一個offer都無既心情o羅.....:;pppp:

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發表於 12-12-10 12:18 |只看該作者
我只係覺得,每個人都想小朋友考的小學會收, 小朋友只有一個, HOLD 2間其實好夠, 無錯, HOLD位個D家長是有佢自由, 亦唔可以話佢錯, 因為個制度亦係有問題, 我題出只係認為, 既然自己用唔著, 點解都唔放手.....

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ha8mo 發表於 12-12-10 11:48
我都覺,真係冇一間可以滿足晒自己心中要求

跟你行似乎是最佳出路

我覺好多已經係去到"選擇困難症"概地步, 其實只要有大方向, 根本唔會太難揀... 最多都係2~3間之間有比較.....

有時可能係校巴差3分鐘到樓下都要VS一番....

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Yanamami    發表於 12-12-10 13:49

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引用:Quote:bcw+發表於+12-12-10+11:49+一講呢啲

原帖由 Yanamami 於 12-12-10 發表
或者只能夠話你無同理心, 唔知人地一個offer都無既心情o羅.....
我講出來預左比人插。不過我對呢個post 某D人既心態就不認同。要人明白你心情係一件事,有D家長出post侮辱人地,話人自私,show off等等又係第二件事。冇offer 唔係大哂,亦唔應該冇offer 就conclude 人地欠左你。利申我個仔有offer,但冇咁多offer喺手,因只放淨一個hold住同等緊另外的results. 我地本來亦冇報咁多學校。不過我看不過有人忘記了其他人努力的成果,人地有咁多offers一定有原因,絶大機會係人地比你努力得早同努力得好!細路仔個個現堦段都差唔多,點解有D行出來有禮貌D,自信D呢?其實係家長自己既教育做得好D。咁人地做得好D,人定有multiple offers 都值得,亦deserve有自由度花多D時間想清楚。冇offer 既家長心態應該係學下人地點教仔女!心急咩,你絶對有權,亦應該心急,但請做後代既榜樣,說:"lease".而唔係,:"喂而家我好心急,話之你之前點做得好,你而家唔即刻做決定攪到我心急如焚就係你自私,冇同情心,show off!"⋯⋯呢D係乜道理?



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bbrmb    發表於 12-12-11 14:25
sallyksleung  即係考到15間全部hold晒都冇問題?那50間又如何?都ok???  發表於 12-12-11 13:44
hadwinboy  Well said.  發表於 12-12-10 14:44
Aliciya    發表於 12-12-10 13:03

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大家有冇睇過Spider-Man ?  Uncle Ben 話齋

With great power comes great responsibility.

還有諗諗:權利 vs 需要

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引用:Quote:原帖由+Yanamami+於+12-12-10+發表或

原帖由 HelicopterDad 於 12-12-10 發表
我講出來預左比人插。不過我對呢個post 某D人既心態就不認同。要人明白你心情係一件事,有D家長出post侮辱 ...
十萬個同意



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引用:大家有冇睇過Spider-Man+?++Uncle+Ben+話齋

原帖由 MrBeast 於 12-12-10 發表
大家有冇睇過Spider-Man ?  Uncle Ben 話齋

With great power comes great responsibility.
我亦知Spider-Man 故事裏,無論佢做成點,都硬係有人唔like 佢,用自己既需要作base去插佢,同現實差不多。



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發表於 12-12-10 13:12 |只看該作者
睇開D, 社會就咁啦,同食自助餐,食唔哂一樣,浪費食物。

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回覆:vincat 的帖子

錢多



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發表於 12-12-10 14:02 |只看該作者
我相信不是每個父母也會備所有offers的留位費。
我識得一個朋友,佢今年也幫小朋友申請小一,佢個小朋友都好smart,有6個offers。
第一個 offer俾咗留位費,第二個WKF offer,無俾留位費(因想入政府學校),第三(KowloonTL)/四(Tak Nga)/五(SFA)/六(KRS)差不多時間知道有offers,只選擇給了一間(等其它學校可以早d call waiting,又可以節省金錢Christmas玩),同時立即放了第一間offer,真的很considerate。

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donald911   呢d咪有品囉!  發表於 12-12-11 11:54
Yanamami    發表於 12-12-10 14:07

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發表於 12-12-10 14:11 |只看該作者

引用:大家有冇睇過Spider-Man+?++Uncle+Ben+話齋

原帖由 MrBeast 於 12-12-10 發表
大家有冇睇過Spider-Man ?  Uncle Ben 話齋

With great power comes great responsibility.
但這是一個意願,不是一個道理。如果冇跟住去做,是否就要受到責難呢?



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發表於 12-12-10 14:18 |只看該作者
一、學位是有限公共資源,每人只能分一個。你孩子很努力,回報就是先選一個好位坐,不代表你可臥著佔一行。教育局作為管理者,早應把臥著的人拖出去,他不做,是為失職。有人利用管理者的無能佔平宜,都合法,但令學校和其他人増加麻煩和行政費用,不道德。

二、人們常罵「佔著茅坑不拉屎」的人討厭,其實最令人討厭的,是「拉完屎還佔著茅坑」,而且還不只佔一個的人。面對外面眾多內急而不得茅坑者,霸王應可預料有人在其門口出恭或向其噴屎。

三、向人噴屎者亦要檢討。第一,人家合法;第二,很難想像被噴屎者不腦羞成怒而反過來讓茅坑給你。

四、有時看見商店派很吸引的宣傳品,雖標明每人一分,但還是忍不住多拿兩件。但我不會在臉書公告天下,明知給人罵,何必犯賤。

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siupingc  很精彩  發表於 12-12-17 23:14
siupingc    發表於 12-12-17 23:13
sallyksleung  Good  發表於 12-12-11 16:29
lokyinma    發表於 12-12-11 00:24
ourbbchu  非常有趣的比喻  發表於 12-12-10 23:06

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引用:Quote:原帖由+Yanamami+於+12-12-10+發表或

原帖由 HelicopterDad 於 12-12-10 發表
我講出來預左比人插。不過我對呢個post 某D人既心態就不認同。要人明白你心情係一件事,有D家長出post侮辱 ...
我都好同意呀!不過我都有放位呀!其實有好多offer的小朋友好叻,父母亦好努力,我絕對唔反對他們hold幾多個位。相反無offer的家長,其實真係要思考下為何無offer? 是否只報一兩間?是否報考幾千人去爭的位?是否小朋友較害羞?要先自行反省。其實已階段心急都無用。可能會派到第一志願呢?又或者明年6月會call waiting. 現在同小朋友一起努力,預備萬一的叩門吧!上天總會安排的。



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JustAParent, your kid is so lucky having a just smart-funny parent

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引用:Quote:原帖由+Yanamami+於+12-12-10+發表或

原帖由 HelicopterDad 於 12-12-10 發表
我講出來預左比人插。不過我對呢個post 某D人既心態就不認同。要人明白你心情係一件事,有D家長出post侮辱 ...




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呢個世界咩人都有…唉

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d hold 住好幾個位既家長既小朋友真係好叻啊﹗有咁多學校收就真係要慢慢諗嫁。諗幾個月都唔夠時間嫁。咁你地慢慢諗啦,千其唔好選錯校啊,咪就"dum"心嫁啦。同埋hold 耐d平均成本低d啊,慢慢hold啊咁多位

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發表於 12-12-10 15:20 |只看該作者
其實小朋友叻和勁,收到offer 已經好清楚,實在吾使花錢留位,吾明!

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Yanamami  呢個好心就係三心兩意, can't make up their mind......  發表於 12-12-10 15:54

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本帖最後由 daisy17772 於 12-12-10 15:31 編輯
MrBeast 發表於 12-12-10 13:00
大家有冇睇過Spider-Man ?  Uncle Ben 話齋

With great power comes great responsibility.

Very much agree!  Same as for big firms in HK, they have greater responsibility for the community because they have gained certain advantages given by the gov't.  Same for those rich ppl born in rich family, ppl born with gifted mind....should understand they have gifts from God..., so they should study well, then work well, and then earn well, when they have the luxury, they should make far more contributions to the society.  At the same time, those who study a lot harder but without rich background, they really deserve more opportunities and choices.

There're points I agree with previous post:

-冇offer 唔係大哂
-冇offer 既家長心態應該係學下人地點教仔女
-說:"please".而唔係,:"喂而家我好心急,


Points I Don't agree:


-人地有咁多offers一定有原因,絶大機會係人地比你努力得早同努力得好
-D家長出post侮辱人地,話人自私,show off等等
-人定有multiple offers 都值得,亦deserve有自由度花多D時間想清楚




I agree with 冇offer 既家長心態應該係學下人地點教仔女 in general. But I can't agree with the attitude saying that those parents without offers must be inferior to those who have many offers.  Like those families with children having disabilities, these parents pay far more effort than ordinary families but with only little improvements along the way.  In fact, those who don't may have paid so much effort that ppl can't see it on the surface.  The extent of the effort is incomparable.  Different child have different personalities, and hence they should be coach differently, whether the effort will be paid off are also different.


人定有multiple offers 都值得,亦deserve有自由度花多D時間想清楚>>>>>> yes they have the right to do so, but they also have the responsibility to really take a good time to make the judgement in a timely manner, and not wait until the very last minute. This is a waste of society's resources and a not a good gesture of responsible citizen.  If they could be more considerate and know the genuine needs of their children, and willing to sacrifice the optimal use of the "freedom to make decision", they deserve respect.  

I don't have any offer because I gave up the one and only one offer, as I know even I hold it, that school is not very much suitable.  I rather release it to others who really need it...and then wait and trust my Lord. I never demand ppl's mercy, but I do respect each other's right, but at the same time truly respect and appreciate those who really understand their children and make the effort to pick the only school that they really need in a timely manner for the benefits of others.

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BabyAndre   I find it is really mean for someone to say that parents without offers paid less effort than those with multiple offers. Thank you for speaking out for a balance view!  發表於 12-12-11 13:56
Yanamami  Well said.  發表於 12-12-10 15:57
siuyan1212  您分析得好好!  發表於 12-12-10 15:42
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