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Submarina2012 發表於 12-12-12 17:17
我是擔心他不把能力及精力放在考試上，影響他將來入讀心儀的大學及學係。 ...

That's true.
Ask him to ready "Seven habits for highly effective people", particularly the habit "First thing first".

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I agreed with your point. 24 more on exceptional case.

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Check the score boundaries of Chinese and German before making the final decision.

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Submarina2012 發表於 12-12-12 18:02
He has already read the book but his bad habbit still persist

Do you have the same bad habit?
Normally, my son copied my bad habit(s)......

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Submarina2012 發表於 12-12-12 18:05
Yes, I still have 4 years to think about this.:)

Good for you.

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laorenjia 發表於 12-12-12 17:30
I'd say it's still a bit earlier than the average which is 26-27 in the UK.

正常21歲大學畢業，三年 PhD. 的確有不少要四年以上或有 gap year。

The more bizzare a thing is, the less mysterious it proves to be.

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Submarina2012 發表於 12-12-12 18:02
He has already read the book but his bad habbit still persist

Kids are kids. My girl also like to spend hours on the homework she likes and then 10 mins revision for a test.
Most kids' behavior is much more follow-their-hearts. They are still seeking immediate happiness rather than to optimize future benefits.

The more bizzare a thing is, the less mysterious it proves to be.

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ANChan59 發表於 12-12-12 16:03
他們傾向做自己認為有趣及專精的事，刻意逃避他們的弱項及乏味的事和學習。要沒法將他們常離舒服地帶。
我 ...

怕悶真是一個問題！好似我細囝，單單是教他晾衫，邊做邊話boring, 家務故意拖。怕悶不願學就一直學不懂。教他分數，簡化成lowest term, 要他列出所有prime factors, 十題錯四題，抄錯數字／未做完／看漏眼。我嘗試解釋佢聽，有些事好悶，就好用磚頭去起一幅牆，做磚砌磚的過程是好悶，但好重要。經常在這些位角力，十分疲累。

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Understand.
As parents, we need to review our attitudes and habits.......

Dr Wong Chun Kwong reminded me that in a seminar, our kids are our mirror images......

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lillymarie 發表於 12-12-12 19:20
怕悶真是一個問題！好似我細囝，單單是教他晾衫，邊做邊話boring, 家務故意拖。怕悶不願學就一直學不懂。教 ...

慢慢摸索吧！

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The cynic in me keeps thinking that our kids are mirror images of our bad habits. Good habits, on the other hand, don't seem to transfer as readily.

今日佳句: 我以往也以為國際板的家長也有質素，但現在才知deal with 一些麻煩家長也不易！

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My observation is we may too critical on them and too focus on their bad habits and overlook their good habits. When our relationship turn better, the good habits and positive stuff more obvious to me.

God grant me the serenity
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