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本帖最後由 elmostoney 於 12-11-19 18:02 編輯
year 1 and 2. very happy now. seems an overwhelming number of parents are aiming for ivy league and oxbridge. Honestly, I am not. I just don't think it's realistic for most children. That doesn't mean I just let them do whatever they want, but I do want them to have a balanced life.
總之, 我覺得因材施教. 我以前都唔接受, 覺得教大女, 點解教極中文都學得咁慢, 後來有所頓悟, 唔係人人都可以去到某一個AGE就谷到, 有D人遲D, 有D人可能永遠都唔會太鍾意個樣野又或冇天份. 教我個仔, 佢好受. 咁咪學快D. 佢重來冇正式返幼稚園, 佢學認所有字, 不論中英, 直到四歲八個月入YEAR 1, 全部都係我係屋企教. 我家中文補習老師有補本地學校學生, 佢話細仔認字能力有本地谷嘅小一下學期 (佢仲有個半月先5歲). 以前我會比較兩個, 而家都放鬆左. 好似我個女, 做數理解都麻麻, 我覺得要教到佢明, 但係唔係要操到佢勁. 每人talent都唔同, 希望佢係IS可以提供環境比佢發掘自己所長.
我有次睇一本書, 係一個台灣家庭去不同地方住, 女兒因而入讀國際學校. 到中學, 功課 project 考試都唔少, 但佢仍要求女兒幫手做家務, 因為呢D係佢對家庭參與, 讀書非人生全部. 我希望我將來都能做到咁.
有次我請女兒老師來食飯, 我阿女負責煮一味主菜, 係*真正*自己睇食譜, 買材料, 90%佢自己整. (佢鍾意食同煮野食). 事後, 我兩個細路洗返自己用套碗筷. 老師(西人), 好impressed, 我唔係係到話自己教得好, 因為我有好多勁朋友, 特登唔請工人, 唔返工, 自己湊, 家事都要求子女參與. 老師話, 而家不論洋人中國人, 屋企都有工人, 好多小朋友即使去到year 5 year 6 都唔識照顧自己, 佢見過好多好多.
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