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教育王國 討論區 自閉寶寶 i want to swap for another brother
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i want to swap for another brother

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369
發表於 12-7-24 07:35 |顯示全部帖子
My 5-year old daughter told me yesterday: My brother is very naughty and yell a lot. I want to swap for another brother who is able to speak  and less naughty. For that I cried for a long time and feel so so sad. Both for my daughter and  my son. Sorry to my girl that I cannot provide her with a 'normal" brother to enjoy the brother-sister relatioship.
I love them so much . The things she told me really hurt me so much. My maid rush to me and try to  comfort me, and ask my daughter not to  say these kind of things to me. My girl also cried.

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817
發表於 12-7-24 09:48 |顯示全部帖子
不要因這事不開心,我們細細個的時候都有時會講類似的話,就算係一般的小朋友有時都會係咁講,例如我的朋友的兩小兄弟,佢地爭玩具時都會同我講,ee我唔要我細路呀,佢都咁咁咁架,我唔要佢呀。

我地呢d媽咪,知邊自己的小朋友有咩唔好,對別人的說話特別敏感,有時都係自己對號入座。你個女都喊,佢都明白架,有時都要照顧埋女的感受,做媽媽係咁難。加油。

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發表於 12-7-24 11:45 |顯示全部帖子
不要這麼敏感,在我家反為係個亞氏保家阿哥成人話要swap咗個細佬,又成日話我根本唔應該生個細佬出嚟,我地同細佬都覺得係得啖笑,費事睬佢!

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2487
發表於 12-7-25 14:05 |顯示全部帖子
細B只有兩個月大,大B就快五歲,細B在我肚裡到現在也常聽到我肉緊地管教大B啲聲音和責備,我都怕細B如果唔係A,就會覺得媽媽是女巫 or 家姐是恐龍!

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1196
發表於 12-7-25 17:09 |顯示全部帖子
喊一陣好la,小朋友的說話陸續有黎,最緊要媽媽清醒過他們,你為左佢地,更要堅強,主持大局嘛!  

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2317
發表於 12-7-25 17:51 |顯示全部帖子
咪咁傻啦!
童言無忌,她有1日會明白的,其實弟弟有正常姐姐真係幸運,可以教佢好多野,不過要多比姐姐知道你地依然好愛佢

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369
發表於 12-7-25 22:35 |顯示全部帖子
Thank you for all your support: I feel much better now. My girl is the younger one and she wants to have all my attention all the time. Whenever I am with her elder brother for training or outing, she will be very jealous. It makes life somethimes difficult cos they  fight for me on a daily basis. I cannot find any quite moment at all.
I tend to pay more attention to my son cos I think I owe him a lot.

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646
發表於 12-7-25 22:48 |顯示全部帖子
pls check pm~

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2317
發表於 12-7-25 23:56 |顯示全部帖子
小朋友有問題,錯不在任何人,你已經盡左好大努力,唔好覺得欠左個仔,咁會更痛苦。
我記得有人話,特殊小朋友最識揀父母,上天會安排他們有愛他,能包容佢地嘅父母,係呢度,我見到好多例子,你都係其中一個,加油!

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fandd  Totally agree!  發表於 12-7-26 00:56