返兩間怪獸地？不停補習怪獸地？

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濕疹仔 發表於 12-7-6 12:09
請問安排仔女返兩間幼稚園既媽媽怪事一些？定是不停補習既家長怪獸些？



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幼稚園已經不停補習?

bluigugub

Haha ...  I have the same question in mind for quite some time already...

indeed i feel like whenever someone raised the issue of going to 2 kinders, people would all jump up with the harshest accusations of "monster parents", "crazy" (and on one occasion, someone really used the chinese phrase "bin tai")  ... but somehow those parents would subsequently / at other posts admit that they prefer to spare the after-school time to send the kids to "extra-curricular activites" ...  I just couldn't help but wonder, does it really make a huge difference if a kid, though not going to 2 kinders, but needs to attend different "extra-curricular" activies + phonics + mandarin + music + dancing class + swimming ........

you may not like the words "補習", but practically speaking, does 補習 and 課外活動 makes any difference?

Ackl1002

maybe those who go to 2 kinders still need to attend the same amount of tutorial or interest classes despite they have already spent 8 hours at school oer day.

Letter_lalaland

Good luck.   


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Heyheyjoyjoy

想問一問你的曰程表如何能做到返兩間幼稚園，然後可曰曰在公園玩2個鐘，伴讀2個鐘，未計你列出的其他項目，一曰好似做唔哂。。。

Vlone778

都夠時間做嘅，不過大人細路都會忙到吐血，同埋有可能周身刀冇張利！

Letter_lalaland

Good luck.



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Letter_lalaland

Vlone778 發表於 12-7-6 20:37
都夠時間做嘅，不過大人細路都會忙到吐血，同埋有可能周身刀冇張利！



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其實重點在於俾我有多方面發展同玩個夠，磨利把刀並非我媽媽嘅考慮。

我K3 先返兩間幼稚園

所以我K2 同小學時先有多啲時間玩
平日 下午時間去圖書館，
跟著去課外活動
再去公園同小朋友玩 （1 hr)
返屋企食飯
同屋企人一齊放狗、散步、踩單車
洗澡
伴讀時間


廿幾年前做到嘅，而家會難啲做到；

而家公園唔俾放狗同踩單車，
連最好玩嘅千秋同 Mary-go-round 都冇埋。

要以忙到吐血嘅急速趕場，定快手快腳去玩個痛快，
家長點幫小朋友定位係最關鍵嘅。

Letter_lalaland

Good luck
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Heyheyjoyjoy

小朋友幾點瞓？有午睡嗎？

Heyheyjoyjoy

雖然睇一件事可以有唔同角度：忙／充實到不得了，甚至可以以此訓練時間管理能力。只是，大人感到趕場的壓力嗎？若大人有，小朋友都會有，要在幼稚園階段開始同壓力打交到嗎？謝謝分享！

ronniedad

返兩間都算係定時定點, 如能適應有咩問題? 換句話講返全日班都應有多少問題吧? 但我就覺得如不停補習或興趣班會怪獸多很多. 敢相信呢類小朋友十之七八都係交俾姐姐照顧居多, 補咁多學咁多佢地真係能夠完全吸收哂?(大部份都無得頂了), 剩番d時間其家長真係有時間會去了解佢地得益多少? 又或所參加的班沒有證書又會否一樣咁出心出力要求小朋友去呢?

bluigugub

i was only expressing my own views, so couldn't quite understand what is in there that led to the 5 vomiting symbols...  this is a public forum, would be great if there could be more mutual respect.

Parisienne

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你問兩種安排邊樣比較〝怪獸〞，即係首先己經假設兩種行為都屬〝怪獸〞啦。
既然兩種都怪獸，唔明點解仲要分高低？
即係好似問：殺人同放火邊樣衰ｄ。唔通答殺人，我哋就覺得放火無咁衰，所以揀放火？
或者問：牛屎同羊屎邊樣臭d。唔通答牛屎，我哋就因為羊屎無咁臭，所以聞羊屎？
可唔可以兩樣都唔揀？
(Sorry 因為你怪獸一詞已是負面，所以以上比如也很負面。)