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本帖最後由 旦花湯 於 12-5-9 09:28 編輯
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Hi pongpong.lau,
Nice to meet one more old boy here. I think why parents are concerned about the family background of schoolmates is definitely not because parents are biased against kids who come from grass root families. It is only because experienced parents tell us that kids will be affected by their peer groups rather than their beloved parents, especially when they grow up day by day.
I know a person who is very smart, much smarter than me. However, I have a much better career/life than him. Once, he told me his story. Starting from primary school, he had outstanding academic achievements. He was particularly good at sports and mathematics. At that time, he had 3 good friends, all boys. After studying Form 3, all of his friends became打金學徒so that they can support their families at once. One of his schoolmates was encouraged by his parents to fix buses at a bus company so that the whole family can ride on buses free of charge. This smart guy then decided to quit school at once so that he can also “earn money”, just like his friends. Now, he is an office assistant, though still very smart.
This is what parents scare the most.
No bias, only worries.
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