讀兩間幼稚園？

chansiub

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Similiar to your case, my kid has been accepted by both Victoria and other famous local kindergartens.  Just because I think that it's improtant to build up the lanuage skill at this stage.  I have accepted the Victoria offer and rejected all the others.  I didn't even apply SKH.  I don't see the point of attending both Victoria and SKH.  I am very clear that I want my kid to have a better langauge development so I pick Victoria.  Also, I find that my kid will fit better into a school like Victoria.  Remember that 1+1 not necessary = 2 in this case, especially when you are overloading your kid.  

Benjie

I was once a victim of this twisted mindset myself...

Ask yourself, are you proud to tell people that you plan on sending your child to two schools?  If yes, then go for it.

If it's the opposite, if you feel a little bit ashamed of how others will see you or if you somehow try to keep it a secret from everyone else, then you know you are doing something 'not so right'.

I followed my instinct (which tells me what is right and what is wrong)...and I decided NOT to send my daughter to two schools.  But FYI, I myself grauated from KCS primary, then highschool in Maryknoll and a top nodge university overseas, now working in one of the top Finance firms so I am a super competitive person.  But still...sending my kid to two school just seems to be against my consccience.  

cccbaby

而家d小朋友真係好可憐，點解咁迫佢哋。小朋友冇得選擇，只可以任人擺怖。我一定唔會咁對我小朋友！

cccbaby

我唸你要接受小朋友會身體差，影響發育(食得差，睡眠不足), 脾氣差 (好忸計)因為好唔願意上完三粒鍾後，再resume上多三粒鍾。

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ochan650

As you are a full time mom, the best way to build up your kid's language ability is to read books with her and develop her reading habit.  My main reason to send my kid to kindergarten is to develop her social skills and to learn discipline, which both cannot be taught at home.  For Maths, English, phonics, chinese or madarin etc, I think myself or my husband are capable enough to teach a 3 yr old kid.    That's why I will only pick one school, and also make sure is a happy school for my bb.  

linseymom

Agree!

flopsybunnies

gwlam 發表於 12-3-21 11:18
我公司同事個nephew讀兩間K1, KCIS同Victoria.  因為辛苦，所以兩間隔日返，say 一、三、五返KCIS, 二、四 ...

這樣的出席率，學校還能讓小朋友畢業嗎？

chongnicole

撇除一人霸兩位，同埋小朋友體能問題，SKH和維記的差異吳係咁大，吳值得同時讀。真系要讀，都係選一間傳統搭一間國際或montessori。

flopsybunnies

周遭的壓力真的使家長們迷失方向，第時可能發展到讀兩間小學、兩間中學和N間大學(本地+遙距)

想想自己對培育孩子的宗旨為何，樓主應該找到答案。

linseymom

所以愈來愈多小朋友有「專注力不足」問題？分身乏術定分身有術？家長要三思。

咪臣

其實我真的想問如何處理交通接送問題, 每天工人姐姐接來接去, 可以嗎? 因為實在有太多小朋友因為讀維記2日或3日, 所以又要去別的學校讀埋其餘兩三日, 課程是否可以連繫到呢?? 通常本地名校都是一週五天半日制, 若果要讀一間半日本地名校, 另一晝就要去其他學校, 幼稚園生要幾大才不用睡午覺呢??? 唔明.....

Angel_BB

睇見個topic都登個小朋友辛苦...

a328

My kid will attend n1 this summer, actually, i am also considering to take 2 n1 schools becos of the similar reason: language. But I will take a more relax approach: I will just let him attend the afternoon class 2 times a week, actually, u also can consider that. I know Vic have 2-5 days class a week.Therefore, you can still take 2 schools in more comfortable way.

keemic77

原帖由 Angel_BB 於 12-03-23 發表
睇見個topic都登個小朋友辛苦...

尼個年代小朋友真苦！

chansiub

I think the host is talking about kindergarten.  There is no two to three days class.  If the host thinks that her kid can manage that, she can give it a try.  Just I think that there is no point of attending both Vic and SKH at the same time.  I see someone sending their kids to two schools and they claim that their kids do not need to sleep.  I am a parent who place enough rest on the top of my list.  Also, I think my kid still needs nap.  So definitely no two schools at the same time, even it is just two to three days.  I can accept some activities in the afternoon but must be after nap.

melonfans

其實吾夠精神, 讀咩都吾入腦la!  

樓主係ftm, 已經係小朋友最好嘅老師!  我讀英文小學, 當年有個猛人, 佢讀咗3年小學, kg係未番過學, 一讀就小學, 小學1跳就兩級, 學校課程都算深, 佢都咁掂!  其實最掂係佢媽媽!  我同級都有人入哈佛大學, 有醫生!

我諗無1個10a狀元係讀2間kg!  大把高材生絶對係爸爸媽媽教出嚟!  努力la!

sunnygirl

我隔離屋個小朋友返兩間幼稚園，一間係香港區係屋企附近，一間係九龍塘，個小朋友有無怨言我唔知，最大怨言係每日負責接送個工人。

linseymom

It's for sure! I would blame too if I were the maid.

danielboy

melonfans 發表於 12-3-23 12:15
其實吾夠精神, 讀咩都吾入腦la!  

樓主係ftm, 已經係小朋友最好嘅老師!  我讀英文小學, 當年有個猛人, 佢 ...

我完全同意,我都有朋友係無讀過幼稚園而最後以優異成績入HKU,亦有大把同學入Oxford, MIT................等都係讀一間幼稚園.

你可以話我out,好!唔講歷史,講番我個仔,都有同學幼稚園時返兩間幼稚園,通常係一間local一間國際,今年呢班小朋友已經10歲,根本一d優勢都無,有一個甚至非常behind,而呢個女仔亞媽係寧願個女日日去補習都唔自己教的,所以...........返唔返兩間,自己考慮下啦