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本帖最後由 rchchan0505 於 12-4-27 21:22 編輯
ccling69 發表於 12-4-25 21:56
Hi, realizing that some of the parents may focus on knowledge sharing for teacher toddlers, but the ... I am a full time (and lazy) mom, I just spend the time to play with my daughter (now 4yrs 3 mths). We spent a lot of time in different playgrounds. At home , we play and play and play according to her will...no matter it is role playing, reading, or writting...I will concentrate when I play with her. She knows. As they grow, they demand for different kinds of games. Now, she like to play story telling (接龍說故事), play with my hair, practice writting, maze, connecting.... I will play with her whatever she wants. I provided a lot of books, games, toys, practice books for her.
I decide to teach her wisdom more than knowledge. Make sure that she is healthy, happy, smart enough to cope with daily life, and have proper progess in learning. There are some milestones indicated she is very ok: she can swing on her own when she was 2yr9mths, she can 穿針when she was 3yr9mths old, she can almost tide a ribbon now.
Now, I am facing big challenge. She starts to ask why why why on all things. I need great patience to answer. Poor me, I don't know how to answer most of her questions. So, I can only direct her to the books to creat her interest in learning. She also ask why about what I say and what I did. I am glad to see her cognitive development that she can think and reasoning. Yet, I need to be more careful about my behaviour and need more room in heart to listen to her!!!
Most of all, to respect her.
She started learning ice skating from 3.5 yrs old and piano from 4 yrs old. She shows reasonably good interest and persistency. Both are strongly request by her.
One more point, no TV, no PC games, no IPhone. Only 20 minutes selected cartoon everyday (at the moment, Peppa Pig is the best for her). She can have self control to leave the PC after watching 20 minutes.
I decided not to push academic. I put all my efforts on building her having a positive character. She has supper high concentration, has good eye-hand coordination, has great interest to read and learn, wants to do things herself. She doesn't want to follow everything, she has her own way too.
We enjoy very much of our relationship. She laugh laugh laugh before sleeping everynight. She is so happy. I know she is on the right track.
I know I am on the track too. Yet, when I see everybody around me going to different additional classes, I need to re-affirm myself to continue our way. It's not easy. Feeling a lot of pressure. |
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