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本帖最後由 LPYdad1 於 12-3-17 20:19 編輯
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Dear iuman,
I think ABA providing one of the most effective way for toileting, u might find a book or text from internet for very details.
But basically, u need to separate each part of toileting before u teach your kid and
not to mix it up,
A few idea I could share with you:
Diapering is a method to control urine and poop for kids. U teach yr kid toileting does not totally mean to get rid of diaper. There is a bit difference. For instance, many non-delayed kids using diaper at night is acceptable if they need before primary.
U have to decide whether to use a potty in the begginning or directly using the toilet seats, perhaps based on yr kid's preference and acceptance to new things. My son prefer using toilet seats directly even though I have bought tons of potty, and finally I installed two-way toilet seat (since he did not like to seat on something being soft) as he do pooping directly by himself.
In the beginning of toileting, you target should be set on ASKING him to sit to the toilet seats or potty near the time he/she usually poop.
U might count from 1 to 10 (about 10 seconds) or singing a teeny tiny song or play a small toy for the worst case with him but don’t EVER NEVER NEVER ask him/her to poop. Just do it as some sort of playing. If he refuse, get him some reinforcement after he finished the “sitting game”. Pls remember the goal is sitting in the potty or toilet seat for you target time (10 seconds???). If accomplished, you met the goal already adn went to next step. Even he poop but don’t sit for the target time u set, it is not a success in the long run coz u would like him to poop for himself ultimately, not just one or two times suddently, right? U make this practice for 1- 3 wks, depending on yr kids’ progress.
As stage passed, your next target is to extend the sitting time from 10s up to 5 mins (Which I think it is the necessary time for a kid to poop and finished everything). Of course, you need to add more from counting to another activity like song singing, etc. Two main things you are now seeking yr kid to do. First, allow him to poop if he wants ONLY. If not, just keep playing your sitting game. Second, try to cut the reinforcement gradually since the reinforcement to a certain extent would divert his attention to poop. This stage mostly lasts for 1 wk to 2 mths depending on yr kids’ altitude.
If stage passed which means he obeyed the sitting time and/or poop sometimes during the sitting game, By then, you should try to encourage your kid to poop during the game. You might make some pooping sounds, talk to him about pooping is necessary during the game and greet him if successful. U might even make a photo for his success. At the same time, u could start to teach him to poop at where u want if necessary.
At last, u might change the potty to toilet seat if he could regularly poop at the game already and give up diaper in day time.
Hope my sharing being helpful to u.
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發表於 12-3-8 03:06
