請問有冇方法可令小朋友做功課快啲！

SandyHung

我大囝今年讀緊小四，但做功課超慢，一份簡單既功課需時超過2小時，成曰俾學校老師和補習老師投訴，請問有冇方法去改善？還是，我要替他轉特殊學校？謝謝！

AJIM

佢做得慢係因為咩原因, 四圍走來走去丫, 定係成日發夢?

SandyHung

係發夢，但 就算有人坐喺佢身邊督住佢，佢都可以繼續拖慢嚟做，我已經無哂辦法。。。

ANChan59

Do you allow him to play or any other incentives for him to finish his homework?

Sometimes, we just like our boss, have pain, but no gain......

SandyHung

Yes, I allow him to play what he wants after finished his homework or revision.
But, it's still the same.  I feel very disappointed deeply.  Actually I just would like him to do the homework without supervision.

ANChan59

I see.

So bad.

Do you observe anything can motivate him?

yanyanmm

做功課時成日發夢, 如果係我女既話, 一係就唔識做, 一係就覺得悶

你要找出佢係咩原因先得

SandyHung

The main reason is my son very lazy to think something.
May I know if any method for helping him to think more?

melodyyy

你或者試下咁樣做, 睇下有無幫助 :

1. 如果有D科目係佢唔擅長, 唔想唸既, 就叫佢做擅長既科目先

2. 佢唔想做時, 叫佢整理下書檯, 咁樣可以培養下做功課既情緒

3. 叫佢唸下做功課會得到D咩好處

4. 佢唔專心既話, 可以叫佢抽籤選擇先做邊一科既功課

5. 唔好經常批評學校或者老師, 咁樣會令佢討厭老師同學校, 亦都討厭做功課

SandyHung

Thanks for your advice!
I will try to do in this way.

YolandaTam

懶諗嘢可以同佢玩猜謎語, 當熱身都好.

SandyHung

Thanks for all your advice anyway! :D

vincher

1.先易後难,做到嘉許 2賞罰分明 剝奪其所好3 有否測試智能或專注力或学習困難

SandyHung

Hi vincher,

May I know where have the test for 智能或專注力或学習困難?  Thanks!

janicetsang

其實，你所說一份簡單的功課是指哪種功課呢？
如果是特定某一科目／類型，你可以嘗試幫佢，可能佢唔識做呢？
如果是懶想，即份功課需要思考，可能對他來說並不簡單？
有小孩子專登做慢功課，讓父母為他著急，目的是引父母關注，及希望父母放多些時間在身上。
你想想他會否是這樣？

SandyHung

其實簡單嘅copy book,佢都可以做成個鐘,我都有試過坐喺佢旁邊同佢一齊做，但佢都係眼神散渙唔集中，我都唔知佢個腦諗乜。唉…

janicetsang

如果是copybook這些無難度的，咁只是佢不喜歡寫字。我個女都不喜歡寫字，如我有時間陪她做功課，我會熄電視，除功課外乜都唔准佢做，不能行來行去。所有閒雜人等（即其他家人）不准和她或和我談話。如果阿女同我講無謂野，我會話一陣先傾，而家做功課。我自己乜都唔做，望住佢寫。咁嘅情況，佢無可能唔做。

janicetsang

有時其他人太嘈自己談話，我也叫他們不要嘈。
不過，其實阿女本身好自律，做功課好快！
我由細好少要催佢，只要交帶佢，佢便自行完成。
有時我也喜歡和她一起做功課，好enjoy,親子時間咁。