如果父母都要工作, 小朋友入讀小一需要到補習社補習嗎?

喜洋洋

如題,
因有BK 聽到好多媽咪講,
小一時間好緊迫,
我怕我晚上放工回家吃飯後到8:30PM, 十點前又要瞓,
得個半鐘時間, 我怕同個女溫唔切書or做唔切功課,
有冇媽咪可以分享一下? thanks

smallfoothk

好像小朋友有否自動自覺,如冇你想佢有嗎?太依靠不是長遠方法,一般補習社對功課,幫默書和考試等"照顧他的婆婆又未能叫到他做"我都是一樣要工作,老人家幫手,小學6年全要上補習社,其實是4年,第5年補習社投訴佢,不停轉補習社,所以希望你能早一些"放手".大家都冇咁痛苦....

kitbebe

小一試下自己跟先啦, 如果真係唔得, 小二先找補習都未遲

daisy17772

kitbebe 發表於 12-1-12 17:42
小一試下自己跟先啦, 如果真係唔得, 小二先找補習都未遲

Agreed.  Primary 1 is an observation period for you to understand more about how your own child learn and study.  Different people learn things and work on their works in different ways.  Some kids are more self initiated, some are less, some like to work on their own, some replies on ppl whom they trust / like more, so basically children develop differently.  

Don't put them to learning center too soon, you will lose chances to closely observe how your child handles questions that they don't know, how or if they check their work they're done, how careful / careless they are, and the reasons why they're so careless..etc.  Once you get to know their learning style and factors that affect their test/exam results, then you will know how to deal with their problems.  Don't expect teachers at tutorial center will do that job for you unless they're heartful teachers.   

kikiboy

你放工返來之前完成功課(起碼識做的做完), 咁就比較好辦.

瑩瑩老豆

喜洋洋 發表於 12-1-12 13:52
如題,
因有BK 聽到好多媽咪講,
小一時間好緊迫,

小一睇定先, 先叫你囡自己做功課/溫習, 看看結果如何才定, 去補習社除非係單對單, 其實只不過係有個人睇住小朋友做功課.
我兩公婆都要返工, 也是要囡囡自己做功課/溫習, 晚上回來再看, 小一到現在小四都冇去過補習社.

ANChan59

I think it's too early.

But we instructed him that doing homework, studying and pack his school bag are his responsibilities, he should do it by himself. When we have time, we will check it, if not just sign the handbook and replies.

Too rely on tuition centre is no good for studying and indpendence.

When we emphasis on happy learning, we should ask ourself, tuition is fun or not. In case, he is far behind, I will do that, if he can pick it up, I will stop that.....

ilovematthew

我仔有時叫都唔會做, 所以佢現在小一, 我已經比佢去補習班, 主要係跟功課, 我唔會對補習社有太高期望, 即考試成績好等

ppsfung

喜洋洋 發表於 12-1-12 13:52
如題,
因有BK 聽到好多媽咪講,
小一時間好緊迫,

如果父母都工作忙,我贊成去補習社.

我個女由小一開始日日去補習社做功課和温默書 (現在P2)
我只負責:
1.跟進在補習未完成的功課(如有),
2. 做綱上功課
3. 做閱讀報告,資料搜集,剪報,視藝....

4. 通常佢仲會有時間睇電視,同妹妹玩

由補習老師叫佢做佢唔會駁咀,有其他小朋友一齊佢唔敢做得太慢 (包尾好無面), 如佢做得好成績好,補習社會送小禮物比佢,佢會好開心....佢開心又不用我成日駡佢傷感情.

喜洋洋

好多謝各位意見，我應該會先試下比女女自己做功課，同埋比自己試下放工返屋企有冇時間和心情去教使做功課溫書先。

小偉b

其實補習社既質素都幾參差，最緊要女女係補習社做曬D功課返屋企已經好好，有D功課輔導班功課都未做好就放學。你放工返屋企都累喇，更何況你女女。

fanwong29

其實孩子都幾睇環境,如在無王管的環境下,要他們自律地做功課/温習,都恐怕未必可完成有點困難。

Pessuma

回復 Charlotte_mom 的帖子

HI Charlotte_mon,

Same as my son - always "死蛇爛蟮" ........

I am now thinking to put him to tutor centre after CNY, and hope it helps!