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Can't agree more! No system is evenly favorable to every individual and we do not possess the prestige to ask for a tailor-made system for our daughter along her whole life.
It is beneficial to think thoroughly and objectively the reasons of being rejected, learn and improve during the trials; both ourselves and the girl would then be able to take the most out from the failures. Same here, we revisited with the girl her performance in the interviews, showed her the reject letters and explained to her what we can do better in the future.
In some cases, she performed well already but she may still be rejected because of someone may had performed better, may be more outstanding and more suitable. |