小一叩門故事 - 港台節目 女人多自在

miutang

我既喊位都係個小朋友見校長唔SHOW佢亞媽時, 一手取左幅畫跑去比校長, 仲講, "校長, 你收我啦, 我真係好想同家姐一齊返學呀!"

果刻我諗, "為乜搞成甘"? 好心UP呢!  

原來無意中, 比左壓力小朋友都唔知, 大人一心覺得係為佢好, 但係咪真係好? 真的值得去反思.

kat0318

好有共鳴......
返工, 教阿仔, 做家務, 找資料.....
好彩, 過了大半. 還有一半路(至小一入學為止), 希望可以順順利利喇, 最終可以入到理想的學校喇, 而又唔洗自己再咁辛苦了(發夢中 ).

事實上, 真的唔想自己同阿仔太辛苦了,
一個小孩, 無必要為了一個小一入學搞到唔似人形.....
可能我唔係要求入超名校, 我只求阿仔讀得開心, 學到佢一向鍾意的野就得喇......

isis_dad

可能我接觸到較多盡力的男士吧...

kat0318:你錯了...入了好小一先係遊戲正式開始!!!

daisy17772

原帖由 isis_dad 於 11-12-6 14:13 發表
可能我接觸到較多盡力的男士吧...

kat0318:你錯了...入了好小一先係遊戲正式開始!!!

he he, yes ah.  For the most elite schools, parents may need to help them at least until P6.  I know a mom whose daughter is at one of those elite schools, she said she hires for her daughter a specialized tutor for each main subject, and whenever it's exam period, she has to take annual leave to coach her daughter, all her leaves are used in this way....poor

myac

原帖由 isis_dad 於 11-12-6 10:19 發表
代表吓男仕發言先...就以我為例.我是由小囡出世開始計劃的...如playgroup/選購vcd&book等學前教育/搬家/選幼兒園/考幼稚園/課外活動/升小選校/面試準備等等所有都係我包辦..我唔係想講我好好...係我發覺這一代的父親 ...

Me too! High five!

chanwendy

我都寧願老公唔好幫好過, 試過暑假時比啲練習亞女做 (係亞女自己話買的), 咁啱我又理緊細佬, 叫佢幫手睇吓啫, 點知轉個頭, 佢將亞女原來做啱的改錯晒, 仲要佢真係覺得自己錯的答案先係啱. 自此我就盡可能都唔好要佢睇功課喇.  而家我只係吩咐佢去交 form, 要面試時, 佢就盡量配合, 就到咪一齊去, 唔得咪我自己一個去囉.

Newbb2006

所以我轉了份人工少d, 職位低 d 既工 - ME TOO.

我都睇到喊出LAI !

TOKIN

[quote]原帖由 Charlotte_mom 於 11-12-6 09:54 發表
"話"我都唔明點解你要攪咁多野", 我xyz! "

Bingo !  my C6 always quote this to me !

If not me to raise such issue and collect all the information, I think everything is under the bed and dusty.

What we do is for our children sake !  poor mum

twinsstar1

"For the most elite schools, parents may need to help them at least until P6. I know a mom whose daughter is at one of those elite schools, she said she hires for her daughter a specialized tutor for each main subject, and whenever it's exam period, she has to take annual leave to coach her daughter, all her leaves are used in this way....poor"

I understand that sometimes parents are forced to be like this .. However, the risk of doing this would be ..... they don't know how to study in secondary school and this thus usually  leads to a drop in academic performance after promoting to Secondary school. So it may not be good to their children in long run!

[ 本帖最後由 twinsstar1 於 11-12-6 18:30 編輯 ]

daisy17772

原帖由 twinsstar1 於 11-12-6 18:29 發表
"For the most elite schools, parents may need to help them at least until P6. I know a mom whose daughter is at one of those elite schools, she said she hires for her daughter a specialized tutor for  ...

Most mums understand the adverse effect of this, however if they fail to find other ways to help the kids to cope with the pace of the school, their kids run the risk of getting behind the academic standards of the school, so what could they do?  This is a dilema, and this is what they have to face if they want to stay in this kind of schools.  Unless they are willing to give up the school.  So parents have to really justify their decision of staying in those schools.  Once they're in the game, they try to do their best to stay in the game.

[ 本帖最後由 daisy17772 於 11-12-6 21:26 編輯 ]

musickwong

好正! 可以改為:有爺生,得毑教

SCKnight

原帖由 musickwong 於 11-12-6 21:18 發表
好正! 可以改為:有爺生,得毑教

咁不如改為：有爺生，公毑一齊教。

SCKnight

我同我honey都好鍾意套戲。慶幸而家過咗第一關。不過黎緊六年都冇乜好日子過咯。

im_csb

看完了, how poor!!

flyda

當然也有些好爸爸，但在香港絕大部分小朋友學業由媽媽包辨這是不爭的事實；我的朋友當中，C6們都愛玩車打機玩HiFi,話壓力大喎！要同小朋友一齊放鬆；又話應酬多但搵錢又唔夠老婆多。。Interview被人問教育理念，又唔多做功課，結結巴巴只講大原則露哂底。我有個朋友嘅C6失業半年向屋企淨係打機上網又唔做家務又唔湊女。真係有苦自己知。

媽媽放棄份工嗰份心情唔係一般人可以理解。佢係將自己前途交付自己相信的人同期望換取小孩有更好旳的明天。但我亦發覺好多媽咪根本亦受不了工作壓力而退而全職湊仔。

mamay

原帖由 flyda 於 11-12-7 09:56 發表
Interview被人問教育理念，又唔多做功課，結結 ...

Give me five.  One similar incident happened few years ago when we applied the P1 for my elder son.......turn out we only being accepted as waiting.

Then I drafted Q&A and asked him to memorize all the answers.....and we got accepted by another school which is my 1st choice.

carchu12

心酸的故事.....

上年7月，亞囝升中放榜，我叫c6果兩日唔開工，叫佢standby，同亞囝扣門....c6都仲問我點解，我只講左句：

個囝升中，已經識諗架啦，你連升中這兩日都唔陪佢，佢一定記得囉，幼稚園、小學都已經唔洗你理，升中，點都要出下力，因個囝知道你為佢出左幾多力的......

現在做媽媽真係唔易，管、教、家庭都要顧，仲要幫c6準備下台階.....

eemum

原帖由 SCKnight 於 11-12-6 22:36 發表

咁不如改為：有爺生，公毑一齊教。

Should be : 有毑生，公毑一齊教。

rai_fc

I really share the pain as a mom, while my boy is only at K1 + another boy coming soon!.
My husband is the type that he doesn’t handle ANYTHING of the son (from homework to extra-activities to even his health issues…., sigh), other than playing with him.
His excuses are:
“Lou Po can handle it well and he can’t do a better job”, “ he needs to relax as he works hard”, “ Lou Po is very anxious/worry already, so he needs to be the relax one and balance the atmosphere at home”.
However, I am a full time working mom………, earn more and pretty much pay most of  the son’s expenses!
I feel so much pressure/upset sometime.
After reading this page, just believe it is hard to be woman in HK!