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今日終於收到最後一間私校封信......reject但我好開心 [複製鏈接]

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發表於 11-12-4 22:07 |只看該作者
真的很感人,小朋友的成熟和感動人心的說話固然難得,但是我更加欣賞作為爸爸的樓主,在父兼母職的挑戰下仍能給予這麼多時間和愛給你的兒子,比起一眾健全家庭的父母做得更好,做得更多,可想而知,樓主付出了許多許多,我在此向樓主致以萬分敬意!

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發表於 11-12-5 09:37 |只看該作者

回復 4# tinyuichan 的帖子

totally agree with you........

any idea on what school is it?

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發表於 11-12-5 09:39 |只看該作者
我忍唔住  好感人呀!
你既囝囝

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發表於 11-12-5 10:58 |只看該作者
原帖由 tinyuichan 於 11-12-4 16:22 發表
校長只是問: "你覺得你小朋友最優勝係乜?"
此說話是中性的
show off的只是其他家長!
小朋友最優勝可以係富同情心, 純真, 善良, etc.
講到尾, 家長比校長恐怖得多!! ...


從客觀的角度睇, 校長的話是中性.
但如果校長真係那麼客觀, 這位不能show off的家長收到的可能不是reject信.
show off的家長亦只是滿足校長心底裡的要求. 如果校長真係收左這位reject信的小朋友, 好相信show off的家長會改變.

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發表於 11-12-5 11:11 |只看該作者
同意,如果講富同情心呀果D品德上既優點都會俾人睇重既,咁班家長都會攞出來講.不過可惜既係呢D冇標準,家長點吹都得,到時亦係一個吹水面試啫.反而我覺得,最有問題係個面試既形式囉,點解要咁樣成group面試喎.

樓主加油!
原帖由 married_man 於 11-12-5 10:58 發表


從客觀的角度睇, 校長的話是中性.
但如果校長真係那麼客觀, 這位不能show off的家長收到的可能不是reject信.
show off的家長亦只是滿足校長心底裡的要求. 如果校長真係收左這位reject信的小朋友, 好相信show off ...
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發表於 11-12-5 11:19 |只看該作者
原帖由 married_man 於 11-12-5 10:58 發表


從客觀的角度睇, 校長的話是中性.
但如果校長真係那麼客觀, 這位不能show off的家長收到的可能不是reject信.
show off的家長亦只是滿足校長心底裡的要求. 如果校長真係收左這位reject信的小朋友, 好相信show off ...


樓主個咁乖巧仔仔好令人感動, 羡慕, 衷心祝福樓主同佢囝囝.

假如個校長真係收咗佢個仔, 我會幻想到跟著有許多虛假肉麻當有趣的事走出來, 就正如有小孩子會問校長可不可以攬吓你因為好鐘意你一樣. 香港跟紅頂白的家長多的是.

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發表於 11-12-5 11:28 |只看該作者
本帖最後由 小雞組 於 12-6-6 12:28 編輯

sorry, post deleted

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發表於 11-12-5 12:07 |只看該作者
Also agree that children group in is OK. But children with parent group in is not OK.

I don't know what can observe from the teacher and principal for the latter one. Just doing show among other families in order to peform.

I can think of only St stephen (stanley) doing this kind of group interview. Is there other school doing so?

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發表於 11-12-5 14:56 |只看該作者
好感人
爸爸很開心呢, 仔仔好懂事啊!
願你們開心快樂, 仔仔入到一所好學校!

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發表於 11-12-5 15:58 |只看該作者
原帖由 Ving 於 11-12-5 12:07 發表
Also agree that children group in is OK. But children with parent group in is not OK.

I don't know what can observe from the teacher and principal for the latter one. Just doing show among other fam ...


I heard that St Stephen changed the interview arrangement....2 - 3 years ago only comes with 1 interview....i.e. interview the kid only.  

The Children with parent group is not OK......

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發表於 11-12-5 16:17 |只看該作者
very touching story~~

very considerate son~~

very caring daddy~~

May GOD bless the family and prepare the best school for the little boy!

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發表於 11-12-5 22:41 |只看該作者
好感動, 為你和你的囝囝加油... ...祝福你們快樂, 永遠互相珍惜, 互相扶持.. 加油啊!!!!

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發表於 11-12-5 22:44 |只看該作者
恭喜樓主, 相信有很多在家庭環境很優越出來的孩子, 也未必有如此生性的兒子..

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發表於 11-12-5 23:33 |只看該作者
你是一個好爸爸!
[img align=left]http://i46.photobucket.com/albums/f119/virgokaren/virgokaren_02.gif[/img]

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發表於 11-12-6 13:51 |只看該作者
Thanks for your sharing, really tounching our heart~
[img align=left]http://www.snugglepie.com/ezb/508752.png[/img]

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發表於 11-12-9 13:42 |只看該作者
我也是男, 我也撐單親家庭, 支持樓主...

我支持校長與家長對話...

因我當年也是以爸爸身份帶著兒子考直資學校, 成功了, 現已直升中學, 應該是光明道路, 不知是否我的說話感動到校長, 但我對兒子當日的表現, 也感到自豪...

我們不是富有人家, 只是住在居屋, 也沒有十八般武藝, 我感激校長真心聽我說話, 知我真心留意小朋友, 沒有將家底等背景凌駕於親子關係之上...

得與失, 總有的, 是經歷, 不嘗試, 會後悔...

十一年後, 正在為幼囡再來一次, 大家不要放棄, 失敗也不用灰心, 好的可能還在後邊....

:funny:

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發表於 11-12-9 14:54 |只看該作者

I have a different opinion. I think the school has already ranked students according to their performance at 1st interview, then at the 2nd interview with parents, it is just a hygiene check to see if the parents are 'normal' one (you and I must have met some 'monster parents' before and from hearing these people's parenting/educational opinion, you could already identify they are 'monster parents').

Or there are some parents who are so busy with their work and don't bother to (cannot) attend the interview with their children (ie only 1 parent attend), this does mean something to the school (as seen as not dedicated enough time for their children).

As such, the second interview with parents shall not be seen as 'picking the best cherries' but as a way to double check; Should all parents seem to be ok in that manner, offers will be given to children according to the one who gained highest marks in first interview.

During SSCPS' 2nd interview, I had this mentality and I did not see/feel the other two parents were competing against each other as well.

This is what I interpreted.




原帖由 Ving 於 11-12-5 12:07 發表
Also agree that children group in is OK. But children with parent group in is not OK.

I don't know what can observe from the teacher and principal for the latter one. Just doing show among other fam ...

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發表於 11-12-15 19:32 |只看該作者
Very very very touching....

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發表於 11-12-20 16:59 |只看該作者
我都係呀, 實在要拎下tissue
真係好難得咁懂性既小朋友, 爸爸...您好偉大呀! 永遠支持您, 加油呀!!! 我會記住呢件事, 每當去到迷糊時刻, 時時刻刻都可以提醒自己...囡囡係我既一切...

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發表於 11-12-22 10:43 |只看該作者
睇左好感動, 你囝囝好叻好懂事.

我都是爸爸 (不是單親), 囝囝今年小一, 性格都是內向.
我覺得小朋友開心是最緊要的, 選校要因應小朋友能力性格而選, 不是因為名校(直資/私校/Top 1 官津校)而選.
當年幼稚園時 SC 收左囝囝最後都冇讀, 讀左間屋村冇名幼稚園 (開心上學去).
囝囝小學大抽獎都不選區內最TOP那些小學, 而選適合小朋友既最好小學, 好好彩派了第一志願.
記往大抽獎要有策略, 同時2/3線小學都有好學校, 多些了解.

預祝你囝囝同我囝囝一樣派了第一志願小學.
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