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Glad hearing that your girl did well in the interviews. I'd like to know too how you did in the past two/three years as you said "跟他/她一起成長"?? Are you a full-time parent? I think the parents here would like you to share how you train your daughter too.
Let me give some of my views here. I would not disagree with your comment entirely, but there are indeed a lot of parents who have put a lot of time and effort on their kids, even though the kids may not perform so well in those interviews.
To be fair, I believe most of the parents here have worked very hard and tried their very best to raise their children. Their effort should be appreciated, although they may have to review that the way of their training is appropriate or not. There are many ways to educate or train our kids but we cannot say which ones are better than the others; instead we can only judge which ways suit our own kids and our family more. And I'm sure that most of us have spent a lot of time on their kids sacrificing our own private time.
Those families who can afford to have a full-time mom at home to take care of the kids are lucky. Working moms can only do their best within the 24 hours each day to maintain and strengthen their relationship with their kids. Other than quantity, the quality of time spending with the kids is even more important. I'm sure that even working parents can have a good quality of time with their children.
Parenting is always a big topic and there are endless information to learn. Our kids are our future and we parents are the trainers of our next generation. To be a qualified trainer, we need to do a lot of self-learning to expand our own knowledge in order to train our kids in a proper way. How well you can understand your kids during the process of interacting with them, how you can get attention and get them to listen to your instruction, how you can identify their strengths and weaknesses to train your kids accordingly and how you can inspire their imgaination and creativity.....
Training kids are not just simply giving money to attend those courses but you have to learn it too together with your kids. I'm not too sure if these are part of what you so-called "跟他/她一起成長" and i'm not a full-time mom either, but I just know that we have to do for our kids the right things, which definitely include forgiveness and caring other people's feeling ...
原帖由 巴斯東瓜 於 11-11-7 19:12 發表 
上星期五IN完ST. CATHERINE,好高興/好安慰. 阿囡INTERVIEW 用英文, 答對晒. 連最難的(蝴蝶)找一樣都岩左. 我見MISS放張岩既CARD係最右手邊,以為佢會拎錯. (因為阿囡係左手仔),點知佢真係識!! 最後MISS對住阿囡問多句 ...
[ 本帖最後由 winifred102 於 11-11-7 20:38 編輯 ] |
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